Have seen a growing trend of others asking to see photos both in private messages and forum posts only to find the person asking has zero pics on thier own profile be they public or in a PG to show
Surely if you are going to ask to see pics you should have some of yourself on your profile aswell , its a 2 way street
Curious to know what others think
Melbcpl01
We get that often. We also get asked to see our pics (which are mostly face shots) by people who only have cock shots in their private pics. We say we will trade face pics for face pics only.
easy. No pic = no chat. I will not send any kind of pic to someone who has no photos on their page. I don't care if you are on cam, I don't care if you are a major celebrity and can't show your face. If youdon't have photos, don't even bother contacting me.
May sounds harsh, but like is too short to deal with bullshit and photo collectors
We have been swinging for over 12 years. There's been an increase in what we call picture collectors.
Our view is it doesn't matter what a person looks like if you can't get along with them, then there won't be anything physical happening. We prefer to meet for a coffee or a drink in a public place. There have been occasions where we've met at a swinging venue but there has been no pressure to play.
We don't have photos on our profile due to our professions. Happy to chat on the phone and verify we are a couple or just meet at a public place. Each to their own.
Happy swinging everyone!
Some great points of view so far
The line that Melb_bi_cple and used by so many others we have seen "We don't have photos on our profile due to our professions" surely there is some photos that can be posted and edited for the site or posted in a private gallery unless you run around work butt naked there is no problem
We have had it more than once happen to us when out swinging and you meet up with someone you know through your day to day job , who cares they are doing the same thing anyway
We look at it if your that worried about being spotted by someone because of your employment maybe swinging isnt suited for you
melbcpl01
Quote by melbcpl01 Some great points of view so far The line that Melb_bi_cple and used by so many others we have seen "We don't have photos on our profile due to our professions" surely there is some photos that can be posted and edited for the site or posted in a private gallery unless you run around work butt naked there is no problem We have had it more than once happen to us when out swinging and you meet up with someone you know through your day to day job , who cares they are doing the same thing anyway We look at it if your that worried about being spotted by someone because of your employment maybe swinging isnt suited for you melbcpl01
Melbcpl01 This is a fact. A work colleague of mine who is a primary school teacher had her profile on this site and one other swinging site. A few parents made complaints to the education board about this. She lost her Victorian Teaching license and is unable to teach in any school. There was no compensation. Etc. There are also other professions where keeping their registration there are some really strict guidelines. Not all of us can just flaunt our bodies on a website and have no consequences. We have been swinging for over 12 years and those who have enjoyed our presence have not been quick to judge us and actually gotten to know us for who we are.
Quote by melb_bi_cple Not all of us can just flaunt our bodies on a website and have no consequences.
I can't imagine anyone not being able to put up a public photo. It doesn't have to show face or tatts or anything else that might identify you. Artistic camera angles and strategic use of props/light/cropping/blurring can result in sexy photos but leave nothing identifiable. Take this photo of me for example. It shows a glimpse of what I'm like physically, but there is no way that could ever be identified as me unless I admitted to it.
This is a fact. A work colleague of mine who is a primary school teacher had her profile on this site and one other swinging site. A few parents made complaints to the education board about this. She lost her Victorian Teaching license and is unable to teach in any school. There was no compensation. Etc. There are also other professions where keeping their registration there are some really strict guidelines. Not all of us can just flaunt our bodies on a website and have no consequences. We have been swinging for over 12 years and those who have enjoyed our presence have not been quick to judge us and actually gotten to know us for who we are. Well maybe it was the way she posted pics in a way that she could have been able to be seen , and the only way the few parents would have been able to see her would say they were members of the site aswell Sure sounds like a case of unfare dismissal Simple she did not take the proper precautions when taking / posting pictures and putting them on the site OK we also ask your on this site and now id'd your self as a teacher , lets hope any of the parents that are on this site with kids from same school dont contact you
Quote by melbcpl01 Well maybe it was the way she posted pics in a way that she could have been able to be seen , and the only way the few parents would have been able to see her would say they were members of the site aswell Sure sounds like a case of unfare dismissal Simple she did not take the proper precautions when taking / posting pictures and putting them on the site
To be fair, it's probably not that simple. There are many ways someone could be discovered and "outed" as being on a site like this, and being recognised in photos is just one of them. Not all swingers are paragons of virtue and people she has met may be keen to boast of getting it on with their local school teacher, politician, police officer, etc. We've certainly met other swingers who we feel speak far too liberally about their previous conquests (which puts us off entertaining them any further). We ourselves have almost been sprung simply by browsing to something innocent on a phone over dinner with friends. With a friend looking on as I entered the web address, the auto-match feature for my browsing history briefly displayed the name of a swinging site that I had been to, complete with our username in the page title. Once word gets out, word gets around, and many sites don't even need you to be a member to browse profiles and look at pictures (this site only recently blocked the display of full sized images to the public). Any pictures that can be viewed can easily be copied and distributed outside of the site. Even if the pictures aren't entirely identifiable, if someone tells you who it is then people are inclined to believe it. And if you're the person in the photos and you're confronted about it - do you lie and deny it? Most people are terrible liars and body language gives them away. However... we do think that the people who need to be that paranoid are very few and far between. Certainly most of the people who ask for pictures without having their own don't have a fair reason. Also, if a company is going to sack someone then the evidence would have to be pretty undeniable. If the pictures were rather vague I doubt they would even consider it.
Quote by melbcpl01 Have seen a growing trend of others asking to see photos both in private messages and forum posts only to find the person asking has zero pics on thier own profile be they public or in a PG to show Surely if you are going to ask to see pics you should have some of yourself on your profile aswell , its a 2 way street Curious to know what others think Melbcpl01
So this thread was started about people having NO pics either public or private, and you asked what others think, and when melb_bi_cple does have their say about why they don't have public pics displayed yet do have pics in private ... you respond with "We look at it if your that worried about being spotted by someone because of your employment maybe swinging isnt suited for you" There are a lot of people that do work in positions of employment where discretion and privacy is paramount and considering there are so many time wasters that only want to view/collect pics and nothing else then everyone has a right to only allow those that they want to view their pics, not to be told that because of their jobs they cannot be swingers? :doh: How about sticking with the original post, which was a valid point, instead of judging those that choose to make their own decisions about who sees their private pics or not and not to tell people according to your way of thinking, who or who not can be a swinger because of their profession.
TemptedTwo, that is rather a lucious photo you have up there, two thumbs up from me
Actually Kinky, I think it was Melb_Bi_Couple that drifted off topic first, mentioning why they don't have photos on their profile, when the topic was about people asking for photos that have no profile photos of ther own, then the subject kind of just floated about :)
Tempted's pic above is a classic example of a type of pic people could post on thier profile without being id'd by anyone
Must say what a pic it is too MrsM is most impressed
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Actually Kinky, I think it was Melb_Bi_Couple that drifted off topic first, mentioning why they don't have photos on their profile, when the topic was about people asking for photos that have no profile photos of ther own, then the subject kind of just floated about :)
