Hi all,
We'll be heading along to a nude beach sometime soon and instead of our usual habit of sitting on our own the whole time we're keen to say hi to a few people and enjoy a chat.
If you go to nude beaches, are you generally open to people just walking up and saying hi, plonking down next to you and sparking up a conversation? Or is that sometimes viewed as an invasion of your personal space and a blatant perve approach?
Is it better to try to engage people who are strolling along the beach or in the water, so that they can easily move away if they don't want to talk?
We are not sure if a nude beach is a suitable venue for a swingers heaven meet and greet. Sure the merchandise is on display, but believe it or not, some people actually go to the beach to enjoy the sun and water and don't take to kindly to unwanted approaches. The other issue of course is maintaining the required decorum. Fifty blokes having a wank on a nude beach is not everyone's idea of appropriate behaviour. Nah tempted, not one of your better ideas.
Hi, we had our first experience at a nudist beach, sunnyside, recently and really enjoyed it. We found that people were quite friendly, a few couples walking up the beach had a quick chat and kept going. When we went into the water we were approached by a single male in a completely non threaten way and had a great chat for quite awhile. While we didn't have anyone plonk themselves next to us and start up a conversation, I think that it would have been ok if it were a couple as there would be less of a feeling pending harassment.
We have had mixed encounters at the beach some nice some not so as we often get the unwanted seagull effect which doesn't make it enjoyable day but then we have also encountered the solo shark who circles and then because your trying to be polite see's this as and invite to join us and trying to be polite doesn't take the hint.... how we see it if your solo you should wait for the couple to first engage you ie: Start a conversation or allow them to show interest just not plonk beside them and glare at them like you haven't eaten and they are a juicy steak. I know we are now going to get the what sign questions and if you need that answer you shouldn't be looking. if there is the cold silence or their trying to ignore you take the hint it would be the polite thing. also there are couple who only want to enjoy each others company and don't want interaction again if you haven't been invited DON'T think you are & if they stop take the hint they don't want to be watched, also try to watch from a distance and wait to see if they encourage you to come closer but don't blatantly stand in view of the whole beach start stroking yourself this only bring bad attention keep it discreet, We don't think full public display is appropriate either ie sex or even oral but for those that do want the seagulls watching try and keep in discreet so others that are only there for the sun can enjoy what they come for... and well we hope this helps
The 2wild's
We prefer the gay end of sunny side because it sorts the men from the boys. Still had the odd wanker.
We've always found nudists to be open and friendly. No problem chatting to people in proximity to where you sit or in the water. A polite "mind if we sit here" is generally enough to get a conversation going if it's going to happen. No we don't pick up at nudist beaches.
Obviously sexual play on the beach is not appropriate, but is it ok if someone else helps you rub in some sunscreen, even in places where you could easily reach yourself? ;)
lol... I'm about to go do a shit, should I sit or stand, is it okay to breathe in the toilet, should I was my hands, is it okay to eat eggs that are one day beyond use by, if a stranger says hello should I cry and run away, can someone go to the bank for me, it's scary in there, the teller talks to me and I feel it's uncomfortable, inappropriate & an invasion of my liberties ?
Although some nudists are swingers, some nudists are very much against open sexual activity at their beaches. The reason is it tends to give the public the wrong perception of what nudism is about and leads to beaches being closed to naturism. Also it attracts males just looking for sex who hang around and approach unwilling people for sex. So why not arrange to meet at an isolated beach instead? Why does it have to be at a legal nude beach?
My only problem is.....if you are sitting down at a nudist beach and someone walks up to speak to you...where do you look??