i don't know if anyone else has had this problem, but i'm so sick of the pretenders on this site who say they will but never follow through. I'm sick of yeah will meet up but then they chicken out. If u can't be oppen minded the what they hell are you doing on this site. I came to this site looking for like minded people not fakes
Quote by naughtynisa i don't know if anyone else has had this problem, but i'm so sick of the pretenders on this site who say they will but never follow through. I'm sick of yeah will meet up but then they chicken out. If u can't be oppen minded the what they hell are you doing on this site. I came to this site looking for like minded people not fakes
Not wanting or meaning to sound harsh but ...................... get used to it! The problem/issue you mention is common across all similar sites where you get positive vibes but when push comes to shove all will go cold. The shame is that there are likely many many genuine people who have been stung themselves, so now if/when they get an approach they expect to be stood up so may, inadvertently do to others what has been done to them. But, on the positive just hang in there and you will find people although sometimes you may need to venture a little outside a comfort zone, but you will find people. Shell and Gaz
Quote by naughtynisa i don't know if anyone else has had this problem, but i'm so sick of the pretenders on this site who say they will but never follow through. I'm sick of yeah will meet up but then they chicken out. If u can't be oppen minded the what they hell are you doing on this site. I came to this site looking for like minded people not fakes
we have met some very nice men and had a ball,me yes we know how you feel we have lost count of the no shows. but what we have enjoyed was well worth it!! mrs L
Guys we have one very simple rule that has served us well for many years in flushing out the tyre kickers.
We always speak to both partners first by telephone before arranging a contact meet. Mrs nomads_oz is very astute is sounding out female partners of prospective playmate couples, re their sincerity in wishing to play with us.
The other issue is of course the hidden agenda. So what agenda are we speaking of?
Well what percentage of couples on this site actually swing? Not all that many we think but feel free to correct us if we are wrong. So why would non swinging couples be registered on this site if they have no intention of swinging. Well not all persons live the fulfilled lives that us swingers do. They could be bored silly. Like the titillation of the swinging fantasy. Having a perve on the webcams. Perhaps socially isolated and just seeking someone to chat with. Or maybe even a parliamentarian getting on here for the sole purpose of doing research, LOL.
So take the time to examine your prey well, before you seek to pounce!! They flesh might be just that bit juicier and more fulfilling, LOL. :wink: :wink:
We have really had a hard time finding people to meet on this site.
In two years we have only met three people here, we have been on another site for the same time period and met over twenty. We have no idea why this is except you have to pay for the other site, maybe that helps weed out the cyber wannabies, we really dont know.
We do like the chat room here better than any other site, ths site is easy to use and the layout is good......but we are here to actually met people, lucky its free!!!
late30's the member base on this site has only just recently reached 50,000 members
sites that require a subscription service have more than 500,000 members at least.
We have no trouble meeting people we can meet a couple every weekend without any real effort at all.
however , whilst we have had enjoyed the meetings 90% didnt cause a fire to light for us.
so maybe we should be a bit more fussy before we meet but how would you know , to date the little more unlikely have been the best meets and the only plays , we have found second time or even more around we come to relax and accept others because they have taken the time to make themselves known and spend a little time before its swap and go.
as we just dont want swap , separate room or individual play we are taking a fair chuck of the market out of contention but we say " just because you could doesn't mean you should "
just keep chatting keep calling camming and meeting the right people will cross your path eventually and then its worth while
We're very much like Ok and Q, no real expectations except that people show up, have a personality and we all see what happens. If discussions happen about likes and dislikes, boundaries etc then it's usually a sign for all involved that things might progress.
It does wear you down after a while, and can get too hard so forget about swinging?
Obsticles we try to uncover quickly.
1/Pretenders,
Dont you just love it when a couple approaches you and then starts taking about MFM 3 somes. Its a instant No, just lost interest. They are not honest, so dont tell us about open relationships, you should have approached with a single males profile. All consideration is off!
2/ Some may just want to chat maybe cam which is OK we did all that at the beginning of our jouney, but now really only to chat or cam to confirm we are all on the same page and arrange a meeting.
2/ Most couples insist on bi girl / girl play, again three possible reasons:
A/ They like it, but does this really make up 98% of swinger profiles out there?
B/ They are really after a girl and take a couple as second choice, as the girl has no interest in other males other than her husband.(makes for dull partner swapping duh! they think we dont know)
C/ The guy does not want to share his wife and wants yours and is insecure around other naked males.
3/Couples looking for the best they can get, they lower their age. If everyone had that attitude no one would play. Instead of honestly looking for equals.
4/ The Bi guy thing, they reckon they also play straight, but we want the choice who cums in our bedroom.
What we thought swinging was about, has proved not the case for us, when you consider we are a married couple looking for some good conversations, pleasant company and partner swapping same room with other couples without the bi same sex play we are only 5% if that of the swingers out there with those expectations.
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