I would like to take this oppertunity, to say to all the people that I have messaged in recent times, and the same ones that cant even be bothered to send a simple reply, may be you should stop placing ads if you have no intention of answering , them YOU ARE ALL THE BIGEST OF TIME WASTERS , PEOPLE WHO JUST LIKE TO BE CHASED,
I certinally wont be wasting my time on here any longer
not only is this topic done to death it shows why you guys arent successful you feel your entitled to a reply.
people may not want to reply,or may not feel a need to reply ffs you guys need to get off the net and interact and relearn how societal norms function so maybe youll have a hope of functioning on this site
Get a grip your on the internet , your out of your league in that swinging is primarily a couples pursuit and before all you single male of female jump to your own self interests you are extras gang or group participants but you aint swingers unless you share within a relationship
maybe the level of complaints is equal to the free loader factor your sense of easy sex no strings sex or what ever but those who deserve some action seems to find it if your not then the problem is you , we have met hundreds of great people we've had our share of no shows and fakes and uninvited guys but we dont bitch and moan about it we learn to avoid them and move on to the next better encounter
just because you join a site which at the core is sexual based you cant expect everyone to want you who is childish enough to believe that
7 posts in 15 months, along with a profile with no pics and a poorly written About Me section suggests that bizibaz_1 never put in the hard yards and shouldn't complain.
Quote by acermark 7 posts in 15 months, along with a profile with no pics and a poorly written About Me section suggests that bizibaz_1 never put in the hard yards and shouldn't complain.
Sounds good. Call it whingers forum
Will be a lonely place
I don't thinkmu can solve it. It just exists but I find it funny and it does get old and boring quickly
Yes even the great baa oracle of the SH cannot solve this ;)
The reason being you can't solve a problem when the person wanting resolution is most likely the cause and they have poor self realization. If you can't see that you are part of the problem then how are you going to be able to make the changes necessary.
Even as a single guy its annoying reading these posts. It feels like this ranting gives the rest of us a bad name of being a bunch of whiners. I've only been here a few months and haven't met anyone in person but right from the get-go I could see that being part of a majority group I was gonna have to market myself well (whether or not I've done it well is a different story), persist a bit and just get on the chat room and try to mix as much as possible. I don't think its a scam or anything sheesh! If girls and couples are getting a billion msgs a day then its understanable that they don't reply, who the hell would want to reply to all of them just move along. Think of it like being a telemarkter cold calling
Someone should get that post about the statistics of how many couples, single females, single males are on this site and make it a permenant sticky
Quote by FrankMelbCBD These sites are for entertainment purposes only. If your looking to hook up, you wasting your time. Just look at the many many forums around this topic 'TIME WASTERS'.
And yet all those that say those 2 little words stay???? Is confused. If that is so true. Why stay???? Its not hard to delete a profile and not come back. Would you like a step by step on how to fix that problem... frank? :)
Quote by FrankMelbCBD I'm entitled to my opinion. You can't hide the fact, this is major problem, check the endless discussions about it. Then again you are a moderator so you do have a conflict of interest here don't you.
conflict of interest no... no conflict as all... considering, I have met many folks, played and socialised.. with folks from 5 states. Im a single chick.... Me being a mod... and having a voice, and wondering, why folks, who keep going on and whining about single folk. Stay.. if this is not what they want. really.... pppffttttt dont use the excuse that im a mod and its a conflict. Maybe its what folks see in here... and the comments, like you have just written, That make their own minds up, on why not to meet you. Go eat some smarties.. throw on a happy face... Find some good things.. to smile at... AND may just maybe... you wouldnt feel the need to caps two little words.... and maybe just maybe... those you call time wasters.. may change their mind about you
Quote by FrankMelbCBD I'm entitled to my opinion. You can't hide the fact, this is major problem, check the endless discussions about it. Then again you are a moderator so you do have a conflict of interest here don't you.
conflict of interest no... no conflict as all... considering, I have met many folks, played and socialised.. with folks from 5 states. Im a single chick.... Me being a mod... and having a voice, and wondering, why folks, who keep going on and whining about single folk. Stay.. if this is not what they want. really.... pppffttttt dont use the excuse that im a mod and its a conflict. Maybe its what folks see in here... and the comments, like you have just written, That make their own minds up, on why not to meet you. Go eat some smarties.. throw on a happy face... Find some good things.. to smile at... AND may just maybe... you wouldnt feel the need to caps two little words.... and maybe just maybe... those you call time wasters.. may change their mind about you I'm not whinging, just stating a fact. See my reasons for being here, I've said it twice in case you missed it. I've never asked anyone to meet me, so I don't know what you are talking about. I can see why you are single. Your profile says you 'accept nothing less than perfect', yet you are an extremely obese woman? WHAT im a FAT chick... oh my god!!!!!! why didnt some one tell me this before.... goes and crys.... PPSSTTTT if your trying to insult..... really pick something better... cause that was just funny as... :)
Im sorry to hear that frank... im not sure..... if it worked for you.. BUT man oh man.. I know i was entertained....
Hands out smarties.... :)
Its not hump day.. but ggees crack a grin :)
You may just find yeh self getting more then you expect... then just time wasters.... so to speak
Quote by FrankMelbCBD Oh and frank. Why are you here if your not meeting anyone, but you can say the site is all time wasters???
3rd time sweetie,' entertainment purposes only'. I'm sorry about weight comment. Frank... You keep saying that you are here for "entertainment purposes only".. and not to meet anyone... may I just quote your profile ...... ""Hi, I am seeking couples or ladies in the Melbourne CBD for lunch time catch ups. Is there anyone around who might be interested? "" ?????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
Quote by FrankMelbCBD Your profile says you 'accept nothing less than perfect', yet you are an extremely obese woman? Talk about OXYMORON!!!
This quote has been annoying me since you posted it Frank. I have to point out that 1. That is not what Rose's profile states. If you read it correctly it is 'Will accept nothing less then purfect'. Notice the intentional spelling of perfect. It is a play on words. and 2. By saying that this is an oxymoron, you are stating that larger people are not perfect. Not only do you risk offending many people, you come off as a bully that resorts to name calling. You forget that 'perfect' is different for everyone.
Quote by Jamicp Your profile says you 'accept nothing less than perfect', yet you are an extremely obese woman? Talk about OXYMORON!!!
This quote has been annoying me since you posted it Frank. I have to point out that 1. That is not what Rose's profile states. If you read it correctly it is 'Will accept nothing less then purfect'. Notice the intentional spelling of perfect. It is a play on words. and 2. By saying that this is an oxymoron, you are stating that larger people are not perfect. Not only do you risk offending many people, you come off as a bully that resorts to name calling. You forget that 'perfect' is different for everyone. To fargo and... Jamicp *smiles* Thank you both.. Now how do you want your smarties ? :) Is still laughing from last night. and your right.. perfect is different for everyone... would hate to see it the same. How boring would that be. :)
Sorry but we prefer M&M's over smarties any day ,
Well it amazes us the ones that feel the need to jump on here and whinge they are not getting any replies , do they realy think having a whinge for evey one to see is going to help them we think not
Frank maybe you need to look at your profile and make sure you have information that may appeal to others to give them a reason to reply to you , you need to sell your self to others also you have no profile pic of any sort so why would others even bother to reply ,
Also what do you put in messages to other could be another thing as well not to add your very limited time you are looking to meet , lunch time hook ups , as most people have only half a hour lunch breaks thats leaves very limited time to meet hardly leaves time to say hello nether lone have a sex session with you , sounds like your just after a quick empty out with that comment with no concern for the female involved
Also why would anyone bother meeting someone that whinges like this on forums just reflects there true personality , a born whinger
It sure crosses them off our want to meet list
Melbcpl01
P.S. Frank would love to know where you would take the ladies in the CBD for a quick session ??
Oh frank... so abuse is entertainment??? sorry... not on this site isnt.
No ones a twit. Please remeber.. Even though i laughed off your comment from me yesterday.
Take it one step to far, and i will have to be a mean mod.
Now where was we on this subject, oh yes time wasters.
Can we get back to it, now... Im in the mood for more smarties..
Quote by FrankMelbCBD Oh and frank. Why are you here if your not meeting anyone, but you can say the site is all time wasters???
3rd time sweetie,' entertainment purposes only'. I'm sorry about weight comment. Frank... You keep saying that you are here for "entertainment purposes only".. and not to meet anyone... may I just quote your profile ...... ""Hi, I am seeking couples or ladies in the Melbourne CBD for lunch time catch ups. Is there anyone around who might be interested? "" ????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????? What are you talking about??? It was never in my profile you twit! Fargo is not a "twit" ... YOU FrankMelbCBD are nothing but a LIAR as YOU know what you had written in your ad BEFORE YOU deleted it!! Pffffffffffftttttttt at you and your incessant "I'm only here for entertainment purposes" The game's up frankie boy as it's YOU that's been exposed as the liar and time waster here!!
Geeeessssss Kinky.. no offence intended here.. BUT not needed.
Really not needed.
If anyone else chooses to do what kinky as done. I will close.. this thread and lock. and make a new smartie thread.
Kinky if you wish to take this further. Do me a favour, and drop a whisper or email. Ok...
Being i have had to take this to a mod post.. ppfftt. There are things i wont say here.
PPFFTTTT.... Really took away my smartie buzz now.... :twisted:
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