It's funny you say that because I'm sick of repeating myself.
Please see my post here:
http://www.swingersheaven.com.au/SbqsuMqESN0DgFbL
Seriously matey, it's the internet, don't take anything said on the internet seriously and you won't get hurt! The end.
if you continuously suffer no shows or no calls maybe the problem is you
would it be unreasonable you move toooo quick and faster than the other people are prepared to go ,
typically thats not what they might be prepared to say, but clearly the issue is with you doing the same thing over and over getting the same outcome time to adapt and change to get different outcomes
would save another single guy in a ridiculously competitive and out numbered world complaining of their lot.
maybe for a start you need to remove the female pics from your profile and if it is your wife and she is not into it why are they there anyway and does she know they are even on here ?
When you reply to someone do you make sure your messaging someone with the same intrests as yourself or like a lot of guys on here just message every one and anyone in the hope of getting laid
More often than not the one that complains is the one where the problem lies and jumping on a forum openly whinging is not going to do your chances any good and will put more people off having intrest in meeting you
Quote by FrankMelbCBD Why do people have to lie, if you say your going to meet or call someone please do it, i am sick of no shows, so just fuck off and play wjth yourself.
hardandfast I totally agree. I honestly believe most of the people on here (and other sites) are not who they say they are and/or are generally full of it. Into-that Don't waste your time with these websites as they are for entertainment purposes (usually at your expense). Don't believe the photos and don't believe the stories (lies) they print. As for you others, if into_that organizes a meet up (and they agree) then they don't show, how is it his fault? Bit harsh don't you think? FrankMelb If that is what you think and believe ( That the people on this site are "full of it" and "not who they say they are" and are Liars, then I am finding it hard to see why you are still here on this site.
Quote by FrankMelbCBD Why do people have to lie, if you say your going to meet or call someone please do it, i am sick of no shows, so just fuck off and play wjth yourself.
hardandfast I totally agree. I honestly believe most of the people on here (and other sites) are not who they say they are and/or are generally full of it. Into-that Don't waste your time with these websites as they are for entertainment purposes (usually at your expense). Don't believe the photos and don't believe the stories (lies) they print. As for you others, if into_that organizes a meet up (and they agree) then they don't show, how is it his fault? Bit harsh don't you think? If you beleive someone isnt who they say they are, please report them so we can deal with it. We try very had to make sure this site is full of real people with real stories having real fun. This is what separates us from all 'those other sites'.
UUMM hes not a single male.... He states he is married on his profile. Now before you answer this next bit. The blue square on his other othe profiles, just means Hes a male.
and this comment They aren't necessary and show how low quality and of character the OP is.
Wasnt needed, who are you to judge, what kind of person he is, have you met him in person???
Really. I do wonder if you can keep your forum messages on track, rather, then just what is coming across as an attack on every ones post, that you feel the need to comment on.
in saying MOST you are alienating yourself from MOST of the people on this site by assuming the are fake and/or full of it.
People dont like being disrespected, especially by someone who makes no effort to raise the quality of a site that they think is MOSTLY full of fakes and people who are full of it, yet feels free to complain about it.
Why be on a site where you think you are MOSTLY surrounded by fakes and people who are full of it?
Quote by FrankMelbCBD Go back and read what I have written. It says; "I am simply stating a fact AND my opinion". The 2 statement are NOT linked like you suggest. I think this is confusing you and not me. I hope this clears it up for you.
Does this mean what you wrote above that was wrong?
Quote by FrankMelbCBD There is no confusion, the fact is my opinion, as I've always said.
But anyway, Moderator or not, I would still have the same opinion. There are time wasters on all sites, but as a person who has been a member of sites like this for 9 years I think I've seen enough to be able to safely say that what one person may say is a time waster wont be another persons time waster. Everyones experience is different and making generalised statements lumping a bunch of people together as being one thing is actually really very pointless. Everyone will have bad luck but being a male in a world where people favour couples and females makes things harder from the start. Show basic respect, and don't give up. Things will happen. Attitude is everything.
Isn't getting knocked back, no reply, no shows...etc just a part of every day life? Including your sex life. Even on a site like this, a nightclub, a bar or anywhere you can meet a partner. It is the 'Law of Averages in Sales", you need to make 10 contacts to make 1 sale. I am not saying the process should be impersonal but it not everyone will be a match, some are just here for a flirt and some people don't know how to say 'no thanks'. Don't worry about the No's (however they are given ). Stay positive and keep saying hello. I do understand your frustration but being bitter about it will only get in the way of the next meeting. Sex is like oxygen, not really a big deal until you are not getting any!
Quote by Into_that Why do people have to lie, if you say your going to meet or call someone please do it, i am sick of no shows, so just fuck off and play wjth yourself.
First of all i would like to thank most people for there comments if you read my profile it says i am an honest person, my wife knows her pics were on here, but i have taken off because maybe i was giving the wrong idea to people, all i was asking is way do people say they will meet or phone and don`t do. i would like to thank missella for coming over the other night after i posted this forum. i would also like to see melbclp01 be baned from making comments on any forum they always seem to make comments without knowing the facts. Cheers Into_that
Into_that, you can put in a complaint about someone by going to their profile and scrolling down to the 'report for abuse' link at the bottom.
If you feel someones comments werent warranted that is usually the best course of action.
Quote by Into_that Why do people have to lie, if you say your going to meet or call someone please do it, i am sick of no shows, so just fuck off and play wjth yourself.
First of all i would like to thank most people for there comments if you read my profile it says i am an honest person, my wife knows her pics were on here, but i have taken off because maybe i was giving the wrong idea to people, all i was asking is way do people say they will meet or phone and don`t do. i would like to thank missella for coming over the other night after i posted this forum. i would also like to see melbclp01 be baned from making comments on any forum they always seem to make comments without knowing the facts. Cheers Into_that Into_that why we sujested removing the female pics is because a lot of people loose intrest when a guy that is seeking on his own is others do not want to see a showcase of other females on a profile after all its you they would be looking to meet not the ladies , We only asked if she knew that is all as you wouldnt want your intermate pictures posted by someone any where on the internet without you knowing would you ? We also noticed you took her pics off very soon after we posted maybe you did take notice of what we posted after all hmmmmmm You say she knew thats cool but think how many post and thier wives dont know So give us a good reason for being banned for trying to give advice that may just help you and it looks like you have taken Melbcpl01
Quote by melbcpl01 Why do people have to lie, if you say your going to meet or call someone please do it, i am sick of no shows, so just fuck off and play wjth yourself.
First of all i would like to thank most people for there comments if you read my profile it says i am an honest person, my wife knows her pics were on here, but i have taken off because maybe i was giving the wrong idea to people, all i was asking is way do people say they will meet or phone and don`t do. i would like to thank missella for coming over the other night after i posted this forum. i would also like to see melbclp01 be baned from making comments on any forum they always seem to make comments without knowing the facts. Cheers Into_that Into_that why we sujested removing the female pics is because a lot of people loose intrest when a guy that is seeking on his own is others do not want to see a showcase of other females on a profile after all its you they would be looking to meet not the ladies , We only asked if she knew that is all as you wouldnt want your intermate pictures posted by someone any where on the internet without you knowing would you ? We also noticed you took her pics off very soon after we posted maybe you did take notice of what we posted after all hmmmmmm You say she knew thats cool but think how many post and thier wives dont know So give us a good reason for being banned for trying to give advice that may just help you and it looks like you have taken Melbcpl01 because it`s not the first time i have seen your negitive comments with out knowing the facts
Into_that why we sujested removing the female pics is because a lot of people loose intrest when a guy that is seeking on his own is others do not want to see a showcase of other females on a profile after all its you they would be looking to meet not the ladies , We only asked if she knew that is all as you wouldnt want your intermate pictures posted by someone any where on the internet without you knowing would you ? We also noticed you took her pics off very soon after we posted maybe you did take notice of what we posted after all hmmmmmm You say she knew thats cool but think how many post and thier wives dont know So give us a good reason for being banned for trying to give advice that may just help you and it looks like you have taken Melbcpl01 because it`s not the first time i have seen your negitive comments with out knowing the facts But we didnt make a negitive comment and you still complain after reading our post and taking our advise by removing the pics mate any adult site you will get no shows just like if you were to advertise a car in the paper you get people ring up then you wait around all day to be no shows no point complaining about it saying its all bullshit its not going to get you anywhere if anything it puts people off you as it makes you sound like a whinger , its a fact of life that you have to live with so you just move on Remember swinging its like fishing you use the right bait and eventualy you will get a bite
G'day all I have followed this thread with moderate interest - and may I offer a comment I am becoming disappointed to see that it is becoming a slanging-match with lots of "you-did" - "you-said" etc etc statements all of which tends to cause tempers to rise as one tries to blame another. May I ask each contributor to keep to "I" statements - I want this ... I think this ... my feelings are ... etc etc I do like part of the last response tho - to me it does seem to go close to answering many of my concerns too ie-
Quote by melbcpl01 Melbcpl01 ... Remember swinging its like fishing you use the right bait and eventualy you will get a bite ...
In recent times, I have posted a dozen or so PMs to people with whom it seems their profile matches my desires - and I have waited and waited and waited. However, I now find that I may have been just a bit impatient - as replies are now starting to filter in with offers so attached So maybe, it is a bit like fishing :-) Regards, Phil
we agree 100% we have gone out of our way to meet ppl we r from the country and have gone 4 hrs to meet ppl and only 1 showed up how hard is it to say no cant make it wake up ppl and just say so rather then fuck ppl around!!!!!
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