if you are already wondering if you are wasting your time after being here 2 days... then perhaps you might find the site not to be to your liking....
try it for 6 months, be respectful and see how you go. Gotta put in for the long haul if you are a single guy here.
Quote by Oz1234567 Hi im runnin a bit of a poll want to know how many single blokes have actually hooked up on this site only the guys who have post cause no dout theres alot who havent just wanna know if its worth it or am I wasting my time
I have a few times for hookups in various adult shops etc.. But patience and hard work is the key! Also your profile could have some TLC.
Hi Oz,
As a couple we have played with a number of single guys (he is straight), in fact we do it regularly. We normally find them in chat or occasionally receive the right sort of message. So here is our criteria:
We always pick somebody with a sense of humour, anybody that takes this too seriously gets the bums rush!
We normally meet first for a drink to make sure we all get along.
We always make it clear that safe sex is the only option.
So, aside from those few simple rules, we are looking for people to have fun with, that's why we are on this site in the first place. Incidentally once you have passed muster for the first time and we are talking on chat, you may recieve a whisper asking "How long would it take for you to get here"?
Sometimes patience pays off
Fires
Quote by Oz1234567 Hi im runnin a bit of a poll want to know how many single blokes have actually hooked up on this site only the guys who have post cause no dout theres alot who havent just wanna know if its worth it or am I wasting my time
ive been on here over 12 months now and im flat out getting even a reply. Good luck mate
Just to point out:
Bert - you don't have a location on your profile so others cant' find you. You state near the Gong in your profile text but that doesn't help when searching.
Daytimeliasons - you have no pics on your profile so 99% of people will ignore you because everyone likes to window shop.
Remember that 70% of profiles on here are single males, about 26% are couples and the rest are females - not great odds for you single males so trying on dating sites where the females are at 70% is going to be more successful for you.
not sure what numbers you are using greedy, but
50% are males
20% are couples
4% are females
then there is a 26% black hole of profiles that dont seem to show up in searches
the odds are not good for anyone who is only looking for a female on here
oz,
by going along to the meet and greets, could help as well, as you start to put names to faces, and start getting to know people.
but like a few others has said, it takes time
tony
It's like fishing, the longer you keep trying evetually you will catch something.
A bit of trial and error.
No disrespect intended but don't expect to meet super models.
I haven't met anybody for awhile but then again I haven't been trying lately.
Quote by Wellhungman It's like fishing, the longer you keep trying evetually you will catch something. A bit of trial and error. No disrespect intended but don't expect to meet super models. I haven't met anybody for awhile but then again I haven't been trying lately.
I'm only new here but I imagine if you're genuine and participate in the community (live chat is good) then you will start to build relationships and move to real life.
Quote by 401 I'm only new here but I imagine if you're genuine and participate in the community (live chat is good) then you will start to build relationships and move to real life.
Now this is the best attitude to have for a single guy on here. Mr W and I are not looking to meet any single men, however, we have become friends with a few on here that we think are just awesome. Getting to know ppl on here, through chat etc. is the best possible approach. Welcome to the site 401, hope you love it as much as we do Mrs wanna
Love the single guys...at least they are a low risk for calls from cranky wives who don't know hubby is on here
daytimeliasons, you aren't 'single' though. I think married men are usually the least likely to succeed on a site like this?
hello everyone.
My wife responded to a 'single guys' ad and she hooked up with him...looks like it will be an ongoing arrangement!
They were/are both looking for the same thing...nsa sex with a regular partner.
As far as the comment about married men goes...I was on here less than a week, and met with a female for some nsa fun.
So yes, it does happen.
We have met up with single guys on here and other sites.
Who are we likely to consider ?
Someone that has bothered to read our profile and genuinely thinks they match what we are looking for.
( and actually does match)
Guys with a profile picture, face, body cock, whatever ... Good quality, good lighting,
shows us you have made some effort and are not either too lazy or too stupid to work out how
Guys with a detailed profile ..
We really don't want to have to ask you all those questions that you should have answered in your profile
Guys who don't expect to meet right now, and are prepared to chat for days, weeks, months or longer until we are all ready to meet. ( ok we have met guys within an hour of first chatting lol) but as we actually have lives outside of this site and sex it can sometimes take a while to find a time and place to suit all involved.
We met a guy today who we have been chatting etc to for about 3 months ... we were actually all free and horny at the same time
Location is a must ... Don't say Melbourne unless you actually live in the CBD
there is a huge difference between Werribee and Wonga Park
Get in the Chat rooms
Don't just jump in and ask if anyone wants to hook up tonight ....
Join in the conversation, or start a new interesting one.
Think with the head on your neck, not the one in your pants.
Be yourself (unless you really are a wanker lol )
Quote by Chubby_Cupple We have met up with single guys on here and other sites. Who are we likely to consider ? Someone that has bothered to read our profile and genuinely thinks they match what we are looking for. ( and actually does match) Guys with a profile picture, face, body cock, whatever ... Good quality, good lighting, shows us you have made some effort and are not either too lazy or too stupid to work out how Guys with a detailed profile .. We really don't want to have to ask you all those questions that you should have answered in your profile Guys who don't expect to meet right now, and are prepared to chat for days, weeks, months or longer until we are all ready to meet. ( ok we have met guys within an hour of first chatting lol) but as we actually have lives outside of this site and sex it can sometimes take a while to find a time and place to suit all involved. We met a guy today who we have been chatting etc to for about 3 months ... we were actually all free and horny at the same time Location is a must ... Don't say Melbourne unless you actually live in the CBD there is a huge difference between Werribee and Wonga Park Get in the Chat rooms Don't just jump in and ask if anyone wants to hook up tonight .... Join in the conversation, or start a new interesting one. Think with the head on your neck, not the one in your pants. Be yourself (unless you really are a wanker lol )
That is very good advice most of you single guys should read this.
Quote by Oz1234567 Hi im runnin a bit of a poll want to know how many single blokes have actually hooked up on this site only the guys who have post cause no dout theres alot who havent just wanna know if its worth it or am I wasting my time
this is a swinger site not a hook up site( not that they actually exist either) unless youve got a gf or wife to swap, youve got bugger all chance, im sure the moderators are gonna jump in and point out all the problems with this reply, but ive been here a while, and spent about 2 hours a day here, if your lucky youll seee a tit, or an ass, on cam, but thats it,
Quote by cobbs Hi im runnin a bit of a poll want to know how many single blokes have actually hooked up on this site only the guys who have post cause no dout theres alot who havent just wanna know if its worth it or am I wasting my time
this is a swinger site not a hook up site( not that they actually exist either) unless youve got a gf or wife to swap, youve got bugger all chance, im sure the moderators are gonna jump in and point out all the problems with this reply, but ive been here a while, and spent about 2 hours a day here, if your lucky youll seee a tit, or an ass, on cam, but thats it, um, cobbs buddy, you say you have been here a while...........but you seem to have joined a month ago...... ps im no mod.....but just sayin. different strokes for different blokes will probably be the result. You know, the guys who get known post more on the forums and in chat rather than hovering like a fly on the wall........just like the pub, the guy out there doing all the spade work trying to pick up chicks has a better strike rate than the guy sitting in the corner watching the guy do the spade work. Then the guy doing this with the better pick up line and cuter smile has a better strike rate again. now if your sitting on top of Kosciusco and trying to click with someone in Broome, you will probably strike out. Your better off doing a search of those nearby and see who is close to you. Read their profile and determine whether you fit with what they are looking for. But if you are on Kosciusco, there may not be "like" people near you that often.....thus it becomes a waiting game. these are just my views and I certainly dont practice what i am preaching here.......if the stars align and something falls in my lap...hooray...otherwise i will try whence is practical and do-able.
I agree with the Fires and others that say this is a swingers site. If you take time to form relationships you will make friends and play will come with that. We have 3 regular play friends all single guys. I agree with those who say...this is a swingers site not a site for wanna fuck now. To Wellhung some if us have friends who think we do look like supermodels but I dont expect to meet brainsurgeons on here either.
Quote by 401 I'm only new here but I imagine if you're genuine and participate in the community (live chat is good) then you will start to build relationships and move to real life.
Well yes! Personally, i'm a private person & don't feel comfortable caming, i have chatted on there a bit but it seems to be mostly general conversation (not that theres anything wrong with that) with not going any further & men pulling their dicks The whole thing seems desperadoish (on the male side) so i avoid it. I have sent some messages to various women & couples, no pressure just saying "hi, i saw your ad (clearly seeking a single male for sexual acts), i'm local & keen to play if you'll have me, happy to have a chat in the chat rooms first, meet at a pub for a drink..etc" Never had a reply,im not one of those full on guys that sends messages like "hi i wanna fuck you so hard, the layer of ice in your freezer will break free", how do they go, should i start acting like that Couples seem to thrive & get what they want but it's a different ball game for men, they are labeled as sleezes on here..well thats the vibe i get! - but yes, it is a swinger site! I joined because i'm genuinely interested in meeting singles & adventurous couples I'll probably get more bad publicity from this post
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Get in the Chat rooms
Don't just jump in and ask if anyone wants to hook up tonight ....
Join in the conversation, or start a new interesting one.
Think with the head on your neck, not the one in your pants.
Be yourself (unless you really are a wanker lol )
:lol: :lol:
