I would love to know what the view of couples and other are about single females and their place on the swinging site. A comment made to me this week was that single females on here are viewed as here to "open their legs for anyone and anything"... Is there a place in the swinging 'lifestyle' for single females and if so what do you think it is? Is it a negative thing for a single to enjoy the swinging lifestyle.
Your thoughts, experiences and advice will be respected.
Sammy xxx
Ppffttttttt I would of told the person, to stop pulling their dick so hard, they killing brain cells. Yes some folk think that. But myself having spoken to other single females. Find it's the opposite ... They won't play with any dick who thinks, just because they are female or single they are desperate to get laid.
Sammy, of course there is a place for the single lady within the swinging scene and please do not be perturbed by those that may claim otherwise, or those that may seem to want to demean that lady's chosen right to experiment, have fun and explore herself and others.
Basically for us as a couple, single ladies have as much right to be within the swinging lifestyle as do single males, couples and anyone else.
There should be no judgement at all when it comes to swinging as it is a choice that we all make as are the lengths to which we will go to enjoy ourselves. It is not for us or anyone else to judge another as to their reasons for being on such sites as this where they are truthful and open with their wants, desires and actions.
As a couple we welcome couples and singles, and we will play with males and females as Sheba does like to explore and will take on a number of men when the mood takes her. As such, and interestingly why would such a comment as you experienced not apply to those married or in a relationship females who willingly and wantonly enjoy the company of men?
No, the comment that was made is not representative of the thinking of most but may represent the thinking of those that made the comment, which says a lot of them, and does not reflect on you or other single ladies at all.
Sheba gaz
like everybody here you have a place. dont lower your standards and dont do what you dont want to do
most of all enjoy yourself.
married or single your still a person and shouldbe treated with the respect you deserve
Quote by Sweet_sammy Is it a negative thing for a single to enjoy the swinging lifestyle.
Hell no! Single women are the most sought after commodity in the swinging scene. There quite simply aren't enough of them to go around. Of course, people outside the swinging scene will have a different view and, sadly, it may pay to be cautious with how openly admit to being here.
Thank you to those who have responded so far.. There have been a mixture of responses since I joined the site in march... Initially due to my caution and lack of confidence and experience I was a used for just wasting people's time on here as I wouldn't agree to meet after a " hi want to meet now" them it went to being a prick tease and now the above.. I don't judge people on their choices and as a single woman I'm not on here cause I'm horny and can't get any lol.. It makes it difficult to spend time getting to know genuine people with similar interests when you have to weed out all the lies, fakes and slander.. It's also meant its taken me a very long time to start a ring on some of the things I wanted to try and experience but now I'm doing that I'm glad I stumbled across the site via google. I'm single yes, not by choice it just happened and one day I'm sure ill meet a man who sweeps me off my feet and wants to share a life with me but I'm so very lucky that I've found a lifestyle that suits me because now I can seek someone who either knows they want the same or I can be upfront and if they don't want it then it probably isn't meant to be to those who judge the single girl cause they won't fuck anyone and everyone your probably still looking in the wrong places ;) to the couples who welcome the single playmate into their circle I give you credit and thank you for my experiences and to the single males that "get it" keep enjoying your time xx
hell no (to steal a phrase from TemptedTwo. We are the mythical unicorn, much sought after and rarely found. Enjoy your status
Soimeone just sounds jealous that you are getting more then they are ;)
Also sounds like sour grapes. A lot of young single guys come onto swingers sites, expecting rampant sex, on tap, all the time, and that every woman they message with instantly drop to their knees and pander to their every whim. Sound familiar?
There are quite a few single guys who are genuine, and lovely, just takes a weed whacker and sledgehammer to get through the morons. Hang out in the chatrooms, get to know people, make friends, all that stuff. A big tip tis to make friends with other single girls and couples that play a lot, so you can get the dirt on some of the guys before you meet. I have a circle of female friends in here and when weighing up the merits of fb-ship, I usually float the name to them and see if they ahve heard anything about the new guy. It does help weed out the idiots
play at your own pace hun, never let anybody make you do something your not ready to do.
we meet new couples . some arnt sure they want to. we just let them lead the way and do what theyre comfortable with. we enjoy it even if we dont go all the way
just nice watching people explore thier boundaries
It is our opinion that single females and single males DO have a place in the swinging scene. As a couple, we prefer just to play with other couples. That is OUR version of swinging. We have tried single females and we found that it is not quite as intense as playing with a couple. Our advice would be just to go at your own pace, only play with who you feel comfortable with, dont feel pressured to do something that you dont want to do.........and most importantly, steer clear of all the fucktards ;-) ....FLIRTSNSQUIRTS xxx
Quote by Sweet_sammy Thanks twonewbies yes exploring new boundaries is good, however the more I explore the more I want lol
Both your OP & the one above tell me that you are very normal - so keep asking for your 100% Rose is on the mark with fellas who think with their dick > tell 'em to go get nicked Personally - I believe that there are plenty of occasions with couples where a single female seeking the same sexual pleasures that any everyday couple also seek, is not intruding into the scene. I see from your profile that you're in your mid 30s - and when I was that age, I was seeking lots of sexual pleasures as well - so keep going :). I would suggest trying some couples even older that you are on the basis that they will have lots more experience at 'pleasure' than 'just plain bonking' from the young studs 10 years younger than you are hugs, Phil
Thanks Phil and I've certainly broadened my views and scope but there has been a certain older gentleman that's opened my eyes and experience and that's given me lots more confidence to keep playing :)
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