Some food for thought, according to the Swingers Heaven search function:
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[*:62a2616103]47,501 total profiles. Of these:
[*:62a2616103]13,133 couples
[*:62a2616103]31,551 males
[*:62a2616103]2,837 females
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That's right, lads - we outnumber the girls more than 10 to 1.
More:
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[*:62a2616103]24,463 males have specified they are looking for a straight female
[*:62a2616103]1,664 females have specified looking for a straight male
[*:62a2616103]That ratio is even scarier, at nearly 15 to 1
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So guys - if you msg a girl and she doesn't get back to you right away (or at all) try not to take it personally. The numbers are well and truly against you!
Last one:
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[*:62a2616103] Of the 13,133 couples...
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[*:62a2616103]2,960 looking for a straight male
[*:62a2616103]4,617 looking for a straight female
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[*:62a2616103]Meanwhile...
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[*:62a2616103]20,953 males looking for a m/f couple
[*:62a2616103]1,682 females looking for a m/f couple
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Kinda puts things in perspective ;-)
Actually I'm a little surprised that the gap between couples looking for females and males is that close, I would've thought it would be overwhelming in favour in females, how often is there a thread started by couples that screams "NO SINGLE GUYS"!
Great work Afflixion!
I'd be interested to hear about the success rate of single males. I have some theories why some do better than others.
Yeah I know, I'm a boring accountant and stats float my boat lol.
Tsk, tsk AJ. I think Afflixion would be great fun
Quote by GoodandGreedy Great work Afflixion! I'd be interested to hear about the success rate of single males. I have some theories why some do better than others. Yeah I know, I'm a boring accountant and stats float my boat lol. Tsk, tsk AJ. I think Afflixion would be great fun
Wouldn't you like to know GG ;) Seriously though I'm not complaining at all Plus what's wrong with Finance folk ;)
We sure are ;) so what is your theory on why some guys are more successful than others? Like anything you have to have a point of difference to make you stand out. Us girls like to window shop so make your display attractive.......a well written profile, tasteful alluring pics and respect! Most girls can work out in the first 5 mins of chatting to someone if they're interesting or not. Most males think that any girl is on an adult site to be sexed up. They forget that our brains are a sexual organ too. But why should I give all our secrets away lol. You guys who are worthy will work it out for yourselves!
well those numbers are scary
we also need to take into account the FAT factor, where larger people instantly get declined for not being models
or are in another state/travel distance to far reducing the numbers again
It as rude as it is hypocritical , your feeling re fat should not be forced on others, what you like want or would accept has no bearing on the personal choices of others.
Many have to work hard to keep in shape and they are the folks who dont make excuses they set themselves a standard and want there play friends to be within their personal fantasy typing.
It seems so many forum posts lately come from guys who feel unloved or aimed at people who dont fuck anything that moves at the drop of a hat.
The best thing about this site is there is someone for everyone, but you aint owed a thing.
You need to establish rapport build confidence in people you are worth the time of day, and then cement that relationship by your personal conduct into something that could go further.
Well on the plus side, all the profiles here have been set up by people not to extort money so you can freely communicate with people without paying any money over PM or in chat.
We detest this kind of stuff So while it might be a little frustrating at times at least you know that someone is not contacting you falsely so you have to pay to reply. Im sure that on some sites you would get a load of fit people contacting you for the wrong reasons, SH has an honest cross section of swingers.
Have a nice profile, be friendly, add pictures, be funny
Quote by OKandQ You need to establish rapport build confidence in people you are worth the time of day, and then cement that relationship by your personal conduct into something that could go further.
thats well ad good to say but some people won't even give anyone a shot they look at pics or see the word large/big on a profile and steer clear before you flame me i have proof here of such couples from the messages we received
no doubt sex in sydney your not robinson crusoe alone on an island with that one.
thing is people have the right to pick and choose its their body their relationship , we have been put back due to our age and we also have age requirements best thing move on to those who are happy to see you
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