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sooo,

We have noticed some couples display face pics, and some strictly dont. We can see reasons why for each preference, but interested in hearing the reasons for your choice, hoping to hear some we have not considered and hopefully help anyone else with the same dilemma.. thanks guys and girls happy.gif

Warming the Bed
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We have face pics in private but don't send a lot of invites because we need discretion. Happy to show our faces to people we trust 

Sexlightened
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Once, years ago on AMM, somebody we had opened our gallery to, showed it to a friend of his. 
Thing was, that friend of his was also a friend of ours, but not the playing kind. We didn't know they knew each other. 
So we are more careful now. 

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Glad to get some feedback guys, sorry to hear that one Timbo, definately something for us to think about..

Warming the Bed
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To my mind, a face pic with a good profile has more appeal , the rest you can arrange in private chat/emails.

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We have face pics in the private gallery which we open from time to time but do not have face pics on the main profile moreso in the event that people who know us are in this place too (and it does happen).

For us, whilst we are not embarrassed or ashamed of our swinging side, we also do not want to be confronted by family, friends or work colleagues that may be here, see a photo and then expect that they either can get with us or tell those in our families to harm us in some way.

May sound weird, may sound paranoid but for us, safety plays a big part as well.


Warming the Bed
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sounds pefectly normal and acceptable

Warming the Bed
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sounds perfectly normal and acceptable

Sexlightened
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I typed google face recognition search on computer browsing through might give few ideas. I use face recognition for some passwords on my computer glare wearing glasses mess with it as one main measurement is across the eyes. If a search must be duplicate on a data find. Make sure no email etc is known to match to pics Aap called blur generates emails unique one offs. Lately I have reported number scam profiles swingers heaven have banned originating site trawling for emails owned by blokes on here 


Casanova
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Warming the Bed
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play4u is English not your first language?

Sexlightened
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So I left comma out between site and trawling is it a hanging offence ? Yes I am a Aussie not a trolling Frog pinching Tricolour for profile picture off Wikipedia. Trying to contribute to forum not turn it downhill like other left the ., out on etc.,

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Thanks to everyone that had a relevant observation, opinion or thought to consider, really apreciate it and has certainly given us a better perspective of the considerations.. great group of people smile  thanks SH crew 

Amber and Jay

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Quote by shebagazz
We have face pics in the private gallery which we open from time to time but do not have face pics on the main profile moreso in the event that people who know us are in this place too (and it does happen).
For us, whilst we are not embarrassed or ashamed of our swinging side, we also do not want to be confronted by family, friends or work colleagues that may be here, see a photo and then expect that they either can get with us or tell those in our families to harm us in some way.
May sound weird, may sound paranoid but for us, safety plays a big part as well.

 
What they said ^^^

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I am single with no kids. I have face pics in my main profile, but no photos that I would be ashamed to show my parents, either.

If I had kids, or a partner, or close family, I quite probably wouldnt have face photos, as I would not want anyone harassing my kids, or randoms recognising me at work. I did have one workmate threaten to expose me to management if I didn't sleep with him. When I aske dhim how he would 'expose' me without admitting he was on the site also, he stopped, and quit his job soon after


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Quote by Haidee
 When I asked him how he would 'expose' me without admitting he was on the site also, he stopped, and quit his job soon after

 he sounds like a real mungrel

we have face pics in private. in my old job i couldnt be recognised due to security. this job i dont vare if im recognised as women pay me to pick them up and take them home

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Quote by Haidee
I am single with no kids. I have face pics in my main profile, but no photos that I would be ashamed to show my parents, either.
If I had kids, or a partner, or close family, I quite probably wouldnt have face photos, as I would not want anyone harassing my kids, or randoms recognising me at work. I did have one workmate threaten to expose me to management if I didn't sleep with him. When I aske dhim how he would 'expose' me without admitting he was on the site also, he stopped, and quit his job soon after

What an idiot,  Was he married?

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Quote by mr_twonewbies
In my old job i couldnt be recognised due to security. this job i dont vare if im recognised as women pay me to pick them up and take them home

 Are you an uber driver?

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he drives buses Norty40s, he used to get paid to visit brothels as well..................... to fix their computers


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you spoil sport mrs two. still love you.