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Why do straight singles look for couples?

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I thought this was kind of odd, but it seems to happen a lot. What is the point of looking for couples if you are a straight single? Most of the couples I know want to get into everything together, and not have one half of the couple sit out and watch. If you were bi/bi curious, then that makes more sense, as everyone can join in, but these people seem to emphasise the 'str8' part. Unless one part of the couple, and it would have to be the correct half, wants to watch, what sort of benefit are you offering to a couple? Just curious
maybe you should also ask the same type of question to couples who want a str male to join them, as some couples where the male is also straight. but i guess it is where the "hubby" is more intent in pleasing the wife then themselfs. a couple who i once played with (he was str) performs much better sexually (so his wife told me) after they return home from having the 3some. look forward to reading other peoples views
Haidee - 2 on 1 doesn't only have to be the couple on the single. Just as often it's one half of the couple teaming up with the single to pamper the other half of the couple. eg. Me teaming up with another guy to give Mrs TT double the attention. I won't want to play with the guy, but everyone is still involved. I wouldn't just be sitting back to watch. So with that in mind, it makes perfect sense for straight singles to go looking for couples (and for couples to look for straight singles). In fact many couples feel uncomfortable with a bi guy joining them, as they're worried the bi guy might try to touch up the Mr.
OK, that does kinda make sense, the reason I'm asking is that whenever I have been in a situation with two guys, that there is always one who has to make very clear that they are straight and don't want to touch the other male, even when it's been all about me. I just find that kind of strange
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OK, that does kinda make sense, the reason I'm asking is that whenever I have been in a situation with two guys, that there is always one who has to make very clear that they are straight and don't want to touch the other male, even when it's been all about me. I just find that kind of strange

Haha, yes, guys are strange. And many are crazily scared of other naked guys. Guy on guy action is still very in society - far more so than girl on girl action.
Haidee, To answer from our side, we welcome straight or bisexual singles as we enjoy threesomes and you can readily have a good threesome with two straight males or two straight females. Sure there are a number of straight people who are very uncomfortable in that situation in case there is a 'touch' but there are just as many straights who are comfortable in the situation. That all said and whilst we welcome straights we do find that the bisexual guys (are yet to find any females) are better as they are more accepting of if a touch happens as when play does occur it is often difficult to control your bodies, but as we have said (and seen at times), straights can be just as useful in a threesome. Shell and gaz
lol, I have said more than once - in a group situation, if it's in front of me, I will lick it smile
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in a group situation, if it's in front of me, I will lick it smile

lol :lol: :lol:
Love it!
I think it's sex related op..