Ours was same room sex. It was with a couple we'd chatted with in Auckland NZ, and when we were there for a conference
we arranged to meet them....for drinks/dinner....then hotel room.
:-o I was so nervous....lol
But so turned on by my partner who stood there and took his shirt off when things seemed to be at a standstill. We lay on the big bed, both couples entwined but not daring to touch each other. I couldn't meet anybodies eye but my mans.....
It's quaint and funny when I think of it now....a time to remember...
So......was your first foray into this lifestyle memorable......and why?
first time ever, what a horrid time
we chatted for a week, met at a chinese place. didnt see pics, they were horrid, he had prince charles ears and looked 60
she was just so ummmmm well yeah. wont say
being our first time we had no idea. his idea of fore play was an elbow to the ribs and a come on lets go.
her undies were so sexy, grey cotton bidget jones style. got about half way through and the daughter turned up. mad rush to get dressed luckily, he broke all thier rules she played starfish. mrs two vomitted from being so drunk.
all in all a great time not had.
now our second couple , well theres an opposite. had a great time havnt seen them for a while due to life and distance but
they are amazing and without them we wouldnt be swinging now. our many thanks to them.
forgot to ad, the woman he was with was the "other " woman who left her hubby. she was doing it so he wouldnt have an affair, but that was the first thing he asked mrs two to do when he showed her his sheep. if i had found that out id have taken his head off his shoulders lol
Quote by Horny_couple29 As a few of you probably know, we started our swinging life through my seduction of a single Dad at my church. You wouldn't read about it :angel:
Quote by Horny_couple29 As a few of you probably know, we started our swinging life through my seduction of a single Dad at my church. You wouldn't read about it :angel:
my first foray into this scene was way back in my twenty's ,,,when I was young dumb and full of cum ,,,,,now I am old enough to know better but still young enough to not care ,,,so here is my introduction to the swinging lifestyle. this may also be a good time to point out that I have only ever been involved in the scene as a single bloke, and with the exception of a 12 hiatus (due to marriage to a lady who despised the lifestyle ,,,unfortunately :sad: )
I had been moved with work over 300k from home and friends ,,,I was sitting in my flat reading the paper (melbournes herald sun,,,i was blissfully unaware of the internet at this time and am not sure as to whether or not this type of site was even about back then ) with a beer or two before heading out to the pub in a rather optimistic yet ultimately doomed to failure, effort to meet and make new friends or pick up, and noticed an ad in the classified section for a "adults party" ,,,I rang ,,,booked ,paid my single bloke fee and the following weekend I attended my first swingers party ,,,,, my god were my eyes opened ,,,,and from that night I attended as many as I could ,also answering ads (entirely unsuccessfully ) I saw in publications such as Australian rosie and on ad boards in adult shops I went to ,,till I met and married my now ex wife , when I left the scene behind completely as she was and still is dead against the lifestyle ,,,now I am single again (blessedly)and back home in Australia ,,,and thanks to the wonderful ,yet slightly evil (met ex on internet) and this site ,,,I am now meeting ,making friends with and playing with more people than ever ,,,,,,thanks SH and the many wonderful members here
Our first experience was not such a great one. Mostly due to the wife of the other guy was a bit of a star fish, would not kiss, would not touch, would not suck etc. The husband had a wonderful experience with Mrs Bay as you would expect, but the whole encounter fell short of our expectations. Since then we have met many wonderful couples and it is those couples that really make this lifestyle so rewarding.
We really want to say to the couple who we met at a motel in Soldiers Point many eons ago, we had the best time with them and hope to have many more in the future.
Just imagine if even half the people who've checked out this discussion title
had sent in their account of their first encounter.....lol
No pressure....but geez
Still a 4% response rate ... Not bad considering I have a post with 13k views and only 150 odd responses ;)
In saying that I can't remember my true first experience but some would say that not being a couple doesn't count
Each experience however has been a first for some reason or another. My first on this site was for example at the appropriately called suburb of Rooty Hill. It was an ear opening experience.
My first I can recall was way back in the group days although I do vaguely recall another memory of a B grade celebrity and a non disclosure contract ... Oh the days
Oh user rooms... Oh the memories
Times HAVE changed, haven't they?
( for the record, a beautiful, warm, voluptuous and generous female friend and I found ourselves giving massages on my bed. Not long after that, both our male partners also happened to find us and thought nothing about jumping in, uninvited of course! It was only about 30 or so years ago...)
We've always enjoyed being a bit naughty, playing in public, letting others catch a glimpse, having sneaky sex at parties and loved the thrill. When we began to think about putting some spice back into our sex lives it was here at Swingers Heaven that we started.
We read, researched, watched, got horny watching, read and watched some more. Eventually we decided to join a local swinging club that we found on here so that we could meet and learn from experienced swingers.
We were very nervous on the night of our first party and club meet, a strange mix of excitement, anticipation and trepidation coursed through us both. Once at the party it didn't take too long for us to start to relax, all the people were just regular, nice friendly people and a few wines helped loosen us up. We chatted easily to a few couples and noticed that if anything people were just a lot more open and relaxed which helped us both open up and relax too.
Before long we both found ourselves chatting to separate people and just kept each other in view out of the corner of our eyes. I could tell that Mrs was having a good time and enjoying the attention she was receiving from the guys she was chatting to, in fact somewhere along the way, she had seemed to have lost her bra so she could flash some more cleavage. Naughty, sexy girl.
I was enjoying the attentions of a lovely sexy lady, and before long we found ourselves embracing and enjoying deep passionate kissing and some hot caresses. My lovely wife returned to see how we were going and soon we were enjoying each other with three way kisses and caressing each other. Mmmmm, a dream come true for us both.
Because there wasn't a play room at the party, kissing and caressing was about as far I thought we could go, so before we got too carried away I went to find a drink. My lady friend found me and we began to dance to the music with other couples on the dance floor. I love to move to music and the combination of other couples grinding against each other around us and what my new friend was doing for me had me hard indeed. Normally this might be a bit embarrassing on a dance floor, but my friend was truly pleased with the effect she'd had on me. Soon another sexy lady, who had somehow lost her bra and top somewhere must have noticed my fortunate predicament and I found myself dancing with her.
All the dancing and grinding and flirting was taking quite a while and I wondered where my sexy wife had been. Just as I had that thought she found me on the dance floor and looking a little hot and flustered planted me with a deep, passionate kissing, making sure her tongue tangled with mine. 'Hmmmm, what's this I taste?' I asked her. She smiled shyly and confessed to have been a little naughty in the garden. I was a little shocked, but very turned on that my wife had been enjoying herself even more than I. We continued to kiss deeply and flirt the night away and at the end of the evening went home and fucked each other wildly, again and again.
It was a great way for us to start our swinging and the couples we have met have helped us build the love, trust, openness and pursuit of fun that we share.
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