i was wondering if this site got any serious member who actually meet with single males, 95% profiles say no single guys.
and no offence to any couple or single females or males.
if some one had any luck on this site? If any one know of any good spots pls message me.
You seem to have collected a lot of friends so I assume you chat a bit (or are you one of those people who sends out friends requests to people you've never even spoken to?)
Generally speaking, no pics + no written profile = no chance.
Why haven't you even bothered to flesh out your profile?
Do you spend much time in the chatrooms? Do you go along to meet and greets?
Quote by TemptedTwo You seem to have collected a lot of friends so I assume you chat a bit (or are you one of those people who sends out friends requests to people you've never even spoken to?) Generally speaking, no pics + no written profile = no chance. Why haven't you even bothered to flesh out your profile? Do you spend much time in the chatrooms? Do you go along to meet and greets?
i got to chat room and add ppl as friends, but have never met them in person. i have asked few ppl if they like to meet they just ignore, even the knox dogging group. i wanted to join but lonley dad who is the guy who set up that group too busy even to reply to email. well may be i just dont have any luck with couples or girls, may be just me then.
ali6966, you have absolutely no information about yourself that would allow anyone to decide if you are someone who they may like to meet. No pics - nothing.
Ask yourself - why would they want to meet you? What can you offer them that they may be interested in?
With the number of single guys on here - set yourself apart and make your profile interesting and appealing. (not just some dick pics.) It's not a guaranteed fix, but as long as your profile is as empty as it looks right now - you aren't likely to attract anyones attention.
Often, couples will say 'no single males' on their profile, so they don't get bombarded with requests. Then, if and when they do want a single male, they can browse the various single male profiles to find someone that appeals to them. If you have made little effort with your profile, they are likely to skip right by yours.
Cheerio...
if you bothered to read the group profile before attempting to join ,you would see it states single blokes by invitation only , so as you obviously can't read i didn't bother replying to an uninvited message ,,,,why mention my name in a forum post as if i am ruining your chances at meeting other folk here ,,,,it's not me who doesn't read or bother to even add some detals about mysef ,,as for the roup ,,,no i hav'nt met any one from or in it ,,,yet i have met many people both here in melb and in qld, stop bitchin ,et off your arse and do something constructive rather than whinge bitch and moan about your lack of imaination or my and others lack of interest in you
thanks guys for your suggestions, i was only wanting suggestions and expressing the experience i had, so one again no offense to any one on this site. well i mite have to do some changes to my profile.
thanks again ppl for your advise.
I havnt met anyone on here either but im sure these things take time... I have had the most amazing fun while in swinging relationships and as a single in the past, this is my first time as a single on a site and to be honest I have a whole lot more luck out in the "real world" with meeting girls but as for meeting cpls and girls who are into what I am it isnt that easy and thats what this site is for. I dont look at guys profiles but I can imagine im 1 in at least 50,000 guys on here but if only the people that I seek knew that im actualy 1 in a million patence grasshopper
first, fix your profile --add some pics, more detail about yourself, what you want - what you can give. don't reply to ads with ""wanna fuck", write a good strong message with a good heading eg; coffee? make it at least 50 words and ask for a reply . i have been a member here for a long time and through a good first message have meet lots of single ladies and some awsome couples who over a period of time have become good friends. take my advice and wait for the results. happy hunting, pete
pics, chat in the rooms, not just hit on women but genuinely chat about what ever is going on
truthfully this is one of the most boring profiles i have red.
shows no imagination or input so what would you give to sex????
really needs a lot of work. look at some of the profiles on here, baabaa5 is going places because he chats in the room and he has a great profile.
put in the hard yards and you may get something, put in no effort and you wont even be looked at
ok some things we noticed firstly no pic of any kind , what your looking for bi couple but your straight so why a couple where the male is bi unless you are into guys aswell , gay female why would a gay female be interested in any male same applys for gay female couple Why ??
It looks more like you have just ticked every box without any thought of what you were ticking
Then just one basic line of what your looking for , as a saingle male some thought needs to be put in you have a lot of competition out there , from what we see and read there is hardly a thing that would appeal to us if we were looking for a single male
Quote by mr_twonewbies pics, chat in the rooms, not just hit on women but genuinely chat about what ever is going on truthfully this is one of the most boring profiles i have red. shows no imagination or input so what would you give to sex???? really needs a lot of work. look at some of the profiles on here, baabaa5 is going places because he chats in the room and he has a great profile. put in the hard yards and you may get something, put in no effort and you wont even be looked at
Shhhh mr two ... No trade secrets .... Wouldn't want anymore competition would I Plus the cheque is in the mail as usual ;)
ok I started on here as a single guys and have been lucky enough to have met my gorgeous lady on here.
So here are my tips:
1. go to meet and greets, dont go to pick up, go to gave a drink and chat, get yourself a good reputation, as being
a nice person, then you never know what can happen.
2. if you accept an invitation somewhere, or say you are going to meet someone, turn up, be on time, be neat, tidy and clean.
3. dont turn up to a meet drunk, just dont
4. dont expect to get in her, or there pants on first meet, and dont get pissed off if they say no thanks, not everyone clicks,
if they say no be polite, you never know they may have a party and invite you, or they may have a friend
5. Most important, if you do meet someone, dont come on here after in chat and announce it to everyone, "hey guys i fucked xxxx" because you will never get it again, gauranteed.
The whole idea is to make yourself to be the nice guy, the polite guy, the guy who respect people.
Good luck,
Guardian
Shhhh mr two ... No trade secrets .... Wouldn't want anymore competition would I Plus the cheque is in the mail as usual ;) thanks baa the new rols royce is great to drive lol nah , being serious the way you act in the chat rooms and feed back about you is the only reason your getting a shot lol there is so much competition from single men and ones who are married plus other couples, id hate to be a single guy out there. even couples who want couples really mostly want just another female to play with
yeah your right its not easy being a single guy on here but all you can do is stay positive, keep being honest to yourself and everyone on here you msg or chat to, and never look at the knockbacks as rejection "unless your a complete tool that is" you just have to keep having a go the best sex is when you wernt expecting it and it just happens anyway ive found :-)
Great advice, Guardian. You must've read Baa's informative advice line from a few months ago lol
Quote by ACTTWO ok I started on here as a single guys and have been lucky enough to have met my gorgeous lady on here. So here are my tips: 1. go to meet and greets, dont go to pick up, go to gave a drink and chat, get yourself a good reputation, as being a nice person, then you never know what can happen. 2. if you accept an invitation somewhere, or say you are going to meet someone, turn up, be on time, be neat, tidy and clean. 3. dont turn up to a meet drunk, just dont 4. dont expect to get in her, or there pants on first meet, and dont get pissed off if they say no thanks, not everyone clicks, if they say no be polite, you never know they may have a party and invite you, or they may have a friend 5. Most important, if you do meet someone, dont come on here after in chat and announce it to everyone, "hey guys i fucked xxxx" because you will never get it again, gauranteed. The whole idea is to make yourself to be the nice guy, the polite guy, the guy who respect people. Good luck, Guardian
Quote by ali6966 i was wondering if this site got any serious member who actually meet with single males, 95% profiles say no single guys. and no offence to any couple or single females or males. if some one had any luck on this site? If any one know of any good spots pls message me.
we have an extensive list of friends who have requested friends we dont make requests however we have met about half of them also in the vicinity of 120 ppl the things that peeves us of is most ppl who say they will meet dont even bother showing up therefore these days we dont bother much unless we know the person is serious about meeting
Im a decent guy and am nice to all, but I havent met anyone here either, those who are interested are usually too far (often interstate).
Its definitely a waiting game
C'mon guys there's meet and greets in every state regularly. Why don't you go? You can meet between 40 & 240 people at once.
I have to say of all the meets I've been to it's unusual to see more than about 5 single guys. Don't you know you're missing out on a massive opportunity?
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