For those of you that like to chat and ask to meet, and then leave it at that, never getting back to us with time ect, we don't know why you get a thrill out of it, but please next time just leave us out of it. Might be good if you where allowed to name these types of time wasters.
yep we thought we had a couple arranged for Saturday night , were to make final arrangements friday night they had our number and we didnt hear a thing from them , even sent them a message on SH and still no reply
We were looking for a night of fun and got nothing , its so annoying when we could have arranged something else or someone else to do
Melbcpl01
Yep know all about it. Never had a meet arranged n then just given the silent treatment. Always show up unless something big crops up. N even then ill always contact n let em know before hand.
Really bugs me when it happens. Taints peoples experiance n makes it harder for people in the future. Hope this wont make you stop trying guys.
I had a meet last week where the "lady" had my telephone number, my address, and was suppose to arrive at 2:30pm for some midday / afternoon fun. 2:30 came and went, so did 3:30 / 4:30 5:30 and guess what....i am still waiting to hear from her. Not a word. Crazy though that she is married, and both her and her busband are on this site, regulars in chat room and the profile claims they want to meet. Husband has made posts in forum as well for his own pleasures, dogging meets etc in Melbourne. I wonder if he shows up. It is really not fair to us genuine guys who are looking to grow this experiance, who enjoy this lifestyle, work our butts off trying to meet genuine ladies and couples who say they seek guys and as you know - a single guys is not an easy place to be in this environment when there are so many off us, we get bad names for not showing up etc - but damn it works both ways. Ladies also fail to show....and fail to even offer excuses!!!!
I get the feeling this place has become a social chat site more than SH where like minded people get to meet and enjoy the fulfillment of their desires and fantasies. I am genuine. I am real and i am looking to meet like minded people, not to play message ping pong, not to entertain broken promises or the hype of a meet with out the eventuation.
I think the mods need to add a mandatory field to each profile and force each member to update their profile. The madatory field should be a category which states: Genuine meets / social site / social plus meets - at least this would help the "real genuine members" who are here to meet and play be it at random or at regular differentiate from the "we say we want to meet but we are just pulling your chain, would rather spend our lives talking behind a screen to other faceless nick named people about having sex in public, exploring fantasy, talking dirty but never really intending on meeting at all.
To all the genuine people on this site here for the reason they say they are here - Thank you. To the rest.....Happy days!!!
you can be social and still be genuine
if people have a profile where they state clearly that they are here to meet and arent time wasters etc etc and they constantly fail to show up etc - report them for being deceptive
Moderators cannot add mandatory fields, we do not have the power to do so. If you would like changes made to profiles please contact Admin with your suggestions.
I am part of a couple who likes the social side as well as the playing side - we have very limited time to play and I state this. Just because we do the social thing more does not mean we are not genuine and I take offence to anyone who states that.
You need to accept that on all sites such as this you will run into people who will waste your time for whatever reason. Cross them off your list and move on.
I am really going to like it when the rep system comes in, hopefully it will help reduce these issues.
Well said Sammy,
There seem to be a lot of snigiggering children on site.
Block them and move on.
Be honest and you will find like minded people.
Met an awesome couple in chat room Sat night, hour later was in their bedroom and playedplayed until sunup. Mnl-1 :wink:
This is a great site, perserverance is the key.
Yes, hopefully the SHREP REP will 'solve' a lot of these issues.
hope you find what you're looking for. Mandy
I know what you mean. People can be ignorant and when you send a message to someone, they read it and don't reply when you try to set up meets, it is a bit degrading of your self esteem. If you look at the forum here, it is really sad that nobody ever replies to the posts of single guys like us. They are just trying to get out there and so that they are genuine. I am genuine, you are genuine and the majority of nice single men are genuine. And what do we get, a big slap in the face of ignorance. If people are waiting on the chatroom that time wasted can be better saying no to all the messages you ignored. I know this sounds harsh but I have said it before, it isn't that hard to send a 2 second message. Hope this makes sense. I feel for all the guys like me that send messages and get ignored or arrange something and get ignored.
Quote by Diesel79 I had a meet last week where the "lady" had my telephone number, my address, and was suppose to arrive at 2:30pm for some midday / afternoon fun. 2:30 came and went, so did 3:30 / 4:30 5:30 and guess what....i am still waiting to hear from her. Not a word. Crazy though that she is married, and both her and her busband are on this site, regulars in chat room and the profile claims they want to meet. Husband has made posts in forum as well for his own pleasures, dogging meets etc in Melbourne. I wonder if he shows up. It is really not fair to us genuine guys who are looking to grow this experiance, who enjoy this lifestyle, work our butts off trying to meet genuine ladies and couples who say they seek guys and as you know - a single guys is not an easy place to be in this environment when there are so many off us, we get bad names for not showing up etc - but damn it works both ways. Ladies also fail to show....and fail to even offer excuses!!!! I get the feeling this place has become a social chat site more than SH where like minded people get to meet and enjoy the fulfillment of their desires and fantasies. I am genuine. I am real and i am looking to meet like minded people, not to play message ping pong, not to entertain broken promises or the hype of a meet with out the eventuation. I think the mods need to add a mandatory field to each profile and force each member to update their profile. The madatory field should be a category which states: Genuine meets / social site / social plus meets - at least this would help the "real genuine members" who are here to meet and play be it at random or at regular differentiate from the "we say we want to meet but we are just pulling your chain, would rather spend our lives talking behind a screen to other faceless nick named people about having sex in public, exploring fantasy, talking dirty but never really intending on meeting at all. To all the genuine people on this site here for the reason they say they are here - Thank you. To the rest.....Happy days!!!
I dont think naming and shaming is appropriate sure in a chat a quick slap behind the ears should be the end of it , it really works out that way, a prolonged sniping follows .
Truth be told there are some remarkably unattractive people in this world and whilst the beauty of this site is theres someone for everyone , some people think they have to right to approach anyone and that those people may not form a negative view from the profile or pics or chat or meet , it happens if someone doesnt find you attractive doesnt mean they arent genuine, it doesnt mean you arent either it means it just isnt happening and the more you dissect it the more unfavorable answers you will be exposing yourself too.
We do not believe the outcomes you have can always be balanced view some people continuously bite off more than they can chew , whilst other just want the sex no boundaries no quality control just unabashed sex , neither is anymore genuine than the other
If i waste another day on non-genuine people (couples the worst for it i have found) i am going to name and shame...Kick me off the site, ban me, do whatever admin..... But i will name names, not just for me, but also for all those that don't wish to be insulted by these non-genuine time wasters.... Does it say somewhere that we are not allowed to name these fools? They are only user names not 'real' identities...
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Mnl-1 :wink:
This is a great site, perserverance is the key.
Yes, hopefully the SHREP REP will 'solve' a lot of these issues.
hope you find what you're looking for. Mandy
