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I know this is a rather stupid question. But i just want to get it out. When it comes to your penis, does size matter? Does bigger mean more pleasureable for women? I'm fairly new to the swinging scene and I imagine people wanting others to be all perfect. Maybe iam watching too much porn.
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Ohh geese buddy! lol. I measure from the leg up to the back of my head. You see you have to measure all the areas that matters. lol So basically I'm like a 60 inch kinda penis guy. I hope that explains everything.
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Well, i hear the vagina can only take 4 inches, but if you have a long one its easier to....aim.... if you like. If your below 4 inches you have a problem, i hear there are treatments!, saw an ad the other day while i was eating bacon..
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actually, most women don't like extra long members. They can only take so much!! It will cause them more pain than pleasure if your member is too long. Pleasure cells only extend upto 2 inches or so. I'm positive nobody has it lower than 2 inches. I think you should stop watching so much porn. They only select long membered guys for those things.
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I think the huge ones (9 inches and more) are mostly for show...from what I've heard (ladies correct me if necessary) the girth is more important than the length. Of course if it's extremely small, then all bets are off.
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I think the smaller gets stiffer then the larger one. Having pleasure is more important then measuring sizes. I never measured mine I'll do it today.
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I don't think so. I don't have like a 10 inch cock but I haven't seen a single woman who wanted a big cock!It's more about what you can do rather than about the size. But if you are too worried about the size, there are lot of creams and other things that claims will increase your penis size. Why don't you check it out.
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Don't listen to these people daylight. Size does matter. If they are saying otherwise it means they dont have a big one. It's lilke those people without money saying money can't buy happiness. If you are having a really small guy down there..my suggestion would be to go to surgery. The got operations where they sew two juniors together! Goodluck amigo.
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Don't listen to these people daylight. Size does matter. If they are saying otherwise it means they dont have a big one. It's lilke those people without money saying money can't buy happiness. If you are having a really small guy down there..my suggestion would be to go to surgery. The got operations where they sew two juniors together! Goodluck amigo.
Thanks for all your input. I appreciate it. lol. I will skip from the surgery. Thanks for your suggestions though. :P I also tried measuring from the leg to the back of my head. 55 inches. Not too bad huh? lol
But seriously, do these creams and such stuff really work?
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Why are men so insecure about their penis sizes? As a woman I can tell you that there is no difference. A bigger does not necessarily mean better satisfaction at sex. If you know how to use it properly size doesnt matter at all.
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Your women with big dreams. I bet no body has a 10” dick except Rusputin who used to have a 14” one. I think it's still displayed at some museum in Germany. rolleyes
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Yes and No To clarify; different sized penises can elict pleasure in different zones or areas. I find a large penis is wonderful for vaginal sex, but prefer a smaller one for anal. The girth is far more important than the length as its the initial penetration that determines the pleasure. The penis is not the only body part that turns on a woman and on one guy or woman can have everything that everybody is looking for if that makes sense. These are only my experiences and can be different for other women. It can be the same for woman in breast size, arse or clit apperance - everybody is different and people are people through people. Confidence is a turn-on, just be happy with who you are and it will shine out Zphinx x
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"It's not the size of the dog in the fight.....
It's the size of the fight in the dog that counts!"
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"it's not the size of the wand that's important, but the magic it can do..."blast
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She said: "Give me twelve inches and make me bleed!!!!" So I poked her twice and hit her with a brick! :giggle: bolt
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I prefer shorter dicks but I like a decent girth (ie nothing the width of a pencil)
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does size matter... depends on if you are rooting or not. Tongue size doesnt, its ability...actually its the same with dicks. My person experience is guys who have big appendages seem to think cause its big, thats all that counts...Guys with a smaller member will put in more effort in order to compensate....i MUCH rather short and fat to long and thin...
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Whats longer than a tongue is wasted ---------- we all know how sensual and satisfying oral sex is and tongues aren't huge or long or wide but woh do they know the right moves hahahahah so stress less and sit on his face not his hips hahahahahahaha
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You can sit on my face and wiggle any time you like babe wink
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i always thought it was how u used it, not how far u could get it in Not the size of the cannon but the force of the shot
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And also yes, you can make it a bit bigger without surgery
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To most women?........ No Women who have good control of their yoni-muscle & or pelvic floor muscles really dont care! The SKIN is the Biggest organ of the human body = use it to your advantage!!! touch, hold, massage, tickle, lick, caress..... etc, etc ",.....as she goes for a cold shower" Im pretty sure that she wont be thinking. Especially about your size! :doh:
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Mine has big fat knob tip that I gently slide in and out.....no need to go deep. It makes the woman moan smile
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I am convinced that its only men who think bigger is better................ My preferences are just over average length ie 7.5 inches and thick for normal vaginal sex, for anal a pencil thin one is best lol , however I would happily forgo any cock at all with a man who can lick his own eybrows................... :twisted:
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Yes and No
To clarify; different sized penises can elict pleasure in different zones or areas. I find a large penis is wonderful for vaginal sex, but prefer a smaller one for anal. The girth is far more important than the length as its the initial penetration that determines the pleasure.
The penis is not the only body part that turns on a woman and on one guy or woman can have everything that everybody is looking for if that makes sense.
These are only my experiences and can be different for other women. It can be the same for woman in breast size, arse or clit apperance - everybody is different and people are people through people.
Confidence is a turn-on, just be happy with who you are and it will shine out
Zphinx x

Thank you so much Zphinx!!!
I could not have said it better! the size is not overly important (i actually read all the previous answers) but just remember that it depends on what the woman is after, i dated a guy once that was only 4.5 inches but fuck me he could use it! yes we had trouble about it staying in for a few mins till we figured out how best to, ahh, approach the situation, but it was fantastic, i have also been with a guy that would have made a small pony weep, but it was lousy, i couldnt wait for it to be over but he just kept going till i "came", in the end i faked it so he would get off me.
The bottom line is, dont stress!!
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Thanks girls It makes me feel better after reading this. I now will probably will be able to show my penis without feeling i was left out when you got issued.