We have been together for 8 years so very much committed to each other.. we are only new to this but diffinately keen to explore and have fun with other couples and singles.. would prefer to have a chat before anything advances to see where everyones thoughts are and to ensure it wont be a disaster.. if everyone is happy with the situation then im sure it would deffinately be reoccurring.. we are more leaning towards another couple who are deffinately comfortable in their relationship with each other so it doesnt create drama and singles who arent just going to make it all about 1 person as id prefer it if everyone in the party was involved and having fun ?