Yep, plenty of so called 'couples' around here where the female half never seems to be available to talk/cam........Lots of male pretenders unfortunately who believe that they will get 'in' if they pretend to be a couple.
As somebody else said - the soon get weeded out! (Do they think that those here who are looking for couples are not going to ask to talk to the female?....LOL)
Edit: I realise many are here solely for cam and this is not such an issue. For those of us who are serious about meeting couples for fun together we are not going to agree to meet somebody after hours of talking to a male on the pretence that a female exists - It is sorta suss!
Happygirl
We are looking like being in Canberra for one night this Thursday (4th October) and could be looking for some fun!
We are looking for a bi-female to play with us both - Primarily to please her who is extremely bi, but also happy to have hubby join in and play if the mood takes everyone there. Girl must be outgoing, bubbly and personable.
Happy to meet for drinks first then back to room if all goes well.
Drop us a message or reply here if interested and we can communicate further offline.
Cheers,
Happygirl
Thanks Rose,
You response is much appreciated.....I thought I was going mad when people were saying that details were not being removed from emails when they were happening in front if me recently.
I have not tested since last Saturday - at that time any Private Messages sent between myself and a new account holder were having phone numbers and emails removed. We have a friend who set up an account recently and was at out house so we were able to test sending messages by logging into each account and checking the messages being sent and recieved.
If we get a chance to do it again in the near future I will do so and let you know if it is still happening.
Cheers and thanks again,
Happygirl
Any further updates on the removal of email addresses and phone numbers from personal messages?
I tested it again last Saturday and it was still doing it (....despite being told several times that is doesn't). I am guessing it was a tech setting in the back end of the website set incorrectly if it was not intended.
Happygirl
I am afraid I have to agree with Tommy.....
I have tested it by sending a private message with an email address and phone number in it to a new member - they are both deleted at the other end.
The disclaimer on the bottom of the Private Message sort of confirms it.
Happygirl
Thanks Rose,
Much appreciated, will await the formal response from the admins.
Cheers,
Happygirl
Hi,
I have a question regarding the new account structure that was introduced recently. As we have an older account they don't seem to affect us but would like to know how they effect members who have recently signed up.
For example, I am pretty certain that somebody who signs up today cannot send messages to other users? Can they reply to messages that have been sent by other users or do they require a paid account to do this?
Also, are new members able to see pictures from other people's profiles or do they need a paid account for this?
I have had a look on the site but cannot seem to find where it indicates the difference between a paid account and non-paid account (as they stand today).
Thanks in advance for the replies.
Happygirl
We know of a small number of couples profiles on here we were *know* for certain there is no female in the relationship. Varies from couples who were once together and have since split (and the male has continued the account without removing the female from the profile) to guys who just create the couple profile so they can get more interest from couples and then try to convince the couple that he can only play alone.
I also led to believe (on another site...not this one), there is a single male with several couples profiles listed for towns all up and down the coast.
Some people will do anything - We don't trust the site profiles. If someone interests us they get our phone number pretty quickly and are verified by us. If the female cannot be spoken with after a reasonable number of attempts, we move on.
It is impossible to ensure all profiles are real from an admin perspective ......Best policy is to put your own checks in place to verify for yourself.
Happygirl
Thanks guys!
Would you mind letting me know the model number etc? I might try to get one.
I looked at a few today but the specs were all over the place and trying to actually compare apples to apples is difficult. Some are saying HD, others are only HD if you use their software (ie - the camera is not full HD).
The PC I will be initially running it on is only a highish spec P4 so that might limit performance. I am hoping to swap it around to at least a mid range Core2 in the not too distant future.
Thanks again,
Happygirl
Hi,
Looking to purchase a cam for my PC and after looking around they vary in price from quite cheap ($20) to relatively expensive ($100+).
Can anybody give some advice on what works well and what doesn't?
Anything I really *should* get feature wise?
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Cheers,
Happygirl
I tend to agree with most of the comments about single guys.
Hubby and I have managed to meet a few couples from here. There are not a lot in our area, and yes some of them are timewasters and either pull back from meetings, or surprise surprise, tell you that the lady is not that interested but has given full permission for him to play on his own (Do you guys REALLY think we will buy that one???). When we send a message or text looking to meet up and don't get a reply for 2 weeks, then get one saying how keen they are....it is sort of contradictory! Guys - you need to get it together!
Out of the couples and the single males we have attempted to catch up with, by far the ones that usually follow through with the least amount of hassle and run around have been the couples.
I am not saying there aren't game players amongst the couples, only that from our experiences, there are way less hassles from couples than single males.
I have also noticed that the couples on sites like this one are more into meeting and getting to know people rather than deciding a planned meeting based purely on pictures. I for one prefer to meet people rather than judge by pics....I connect with people, not pictures. This 'feels' much more like a swingers site (which it is) than some of the others.
If you are just looking for some NSA fun, particularly single males, this is probably not the best site for it, and probably the reason why many single males are not taken overly serious around here, unless you are prepared to get to know the lady/couple that you wish to engage with.
Just my thoughts......but this is a far better couples site than a singles (particularly male) site.
Happygirl
As a single guy looking for a little fun you are probably not on the best site for attracting what you are looking for. You will find people here that are looking for a male to join them, but in most cases they are in the minority. The greater majority of people on this site are looking for couples to join them.
I originally started out looking for a single bi-female to join myself and hubby and found that very difficult.....in fact I can pretty honestly say that we never found one to date that we have been able to meet up with. :sad:
We have made contact and met up with some lovely couples. We have had dozens of requests from single guys (...as have most ladies on here).
Unfortunately being a swingers site, it is more geared towards couples and the swinging lifestyle as opposed to just getting a FB.
Do up a good profile, get some pics (either public or private) and be respectful to those who contact you - you will be in the best position should somebody come along who is interested in what you are offering.
Happygirl
Hi Guys,
We are in the same boat as you......hard to find willing participants, and those that appear willing initially tend to go all quiet when it is time to meet.
We chatted the other night and really liked you guys......We only wished we were closer :sad:
Keep looking, I am sure a gorgeous young couple such as yourselves will find what you are looking for eventually.
Cheers,
Happygirl
Now to get the pushy single guys to take note and practice it! 
Great to see there are some out there who can see this behaviour and recognise how much it annoys people who are not interested (...and make it clearly so on their profiles).
You will do well with that approach - Not only will you get more respect, you will not be wasting as much of your own valuable time chasing something that is not going to happen (and concentrating more on realistic options that may have a chance of actually happening).
Good on you!
Happygirl
. It saves the Block button being used so often.
It is a tough gig on here for single males, no doubting that. Some handle it much better than others which is a credit to them. Things are definitely improving.
Happygirl