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KT3130
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Male, 69
Bi-curious Female, 61
0 km · Victoria

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Sexlightened
Quote by tomfun
Where are peoples manners. So over trying to make contact here. Polite messages, sexy messages, saucy messages........ no reply!!!!!! Starting to think this site is for people to do their house work to. Just log on and walk away. Years gone by the site was for active swingers, now days it seems people just sit there and watch the world go by, as if it was youtube. I know, if you don't like it ...... but FFS 70,000 members ?????? ( just going off to have a wank)

 Hey Tom:  As a bi/bi curious couple we receive masses of messages and PM's with few actually bothering to read our profile for our likes and dislikes.  Invariable we just delete them unless we recognise the names.   Many are also rude, pushy and foul-mouthed.  Not a good way to initiate any form of friendship or even contact.

Sexlightened

We are members of Club Asia, not run by us but we can put you in touch with the organisers.   The club is for Asian girls and their partners - Couples only.   The guys are predominately bi or bi curious.  We meet in the Williamstown area every  2 or 3 months.  An easy going and fun bunch of people.  We love it!  T & K.

Sexlightened

Great fun and a great crowd.  The killer is Mondays.  We get up pretty early on Tuesdays and are usually wrecked all day!  Ha!

Sexlightened

Hi Tara:

Any chance you could organise an evening Meet and Greet?  We both work horrible hours and would love to get together with everyone again.  It's been ages!

XX

Sexlightened

Hi there:  We have been twice now on a Saturday night.  Big disappointment both times.  We were one of only two couples there both times.  There were about 20 singles there which was no problem except that females are banned from the sauna, steam-room and dancing area!  We protested but we told that the gays would be upset by a female in their territory.  Damn!  Try banning a gay guy and you can expect the wrath of the gods to strike you down!!  Ha!

Better try Attunga in Elsternwick.  Good facilities and usually a good crowd of couples and singles both straight and bi.

Sexlightened

We style ourselves as 'curious' as neither of us like anal.  Possibly Bi-Light might be more accurate.

Sexlightened

Western suburbs .....  but what zone, country, state and city?

Sexlightened

We are looking for a regular playmate in Melbourne's East.  Not too heavy, not too hairy, not into anal and a non-smoker. Married or with a partner is fine as we are very discreet and expect the same.  Let's talk.

Sexlightened

Hi:  We love WOW (Wet on Wellington) but this month it will be on the 15th so you will miss it.  Attunga can be fun but if you go to Shed 16 they often ban females from the steam room and sauna in favour of the gay guys.  I guess they are scared of girls.  Best to call in advance to check if that matters to you.

Sexlightened

There was nothing wrong with the old format!  Or was there?

Sexlightened
Hi:
5 before she jumped off the bed and ran -  screaming!
Haaaaa!
Sexlightened
Hi: You talking Surry Hills or Surrey Hills? They are 800 kms apart.
Sexlightened
Phil:
From your mouth to God's ears!
(Praise tha Lawd an' pass tha whiskey!)

Quote by Lumix_Lovers
We both find it rude and insulting. The use of which immediately shuts down any or all further interaction.
The answer (for us) isn't just no but Hell no!

And we are the same too
We would not use this word in fun or jest towards any woman
I as a bloke would not use it in anger regarding a woman if I were in a real angry state towards her .... it's just not my sort of thing
I am a softie, I prefer to love & be loved, not yell rude obsenities at others
Phil
Sexlightened
We both find it rude and insulting. The use of which immediately shuts down any or all further interaction. The answer (for us) isn't just no but Hell no!
Sexlightened
Hi there: We state 'Curious' as neither of us like kissing same sex partners and neither of us like anal. We should probably say that we are bi-light rather than full on. Having said that we are both oral and pretty full on in the heat of battle! Both of us get turned on by the sight of a hard cock and by a naked girl. XXX
Sexlightened
... to coin a phrase. The west (Tower) side and north side (short approach to R/way 16) now have security surveillance, for obvious reasons. You could be Aussie film stars!
Sexlightened
... Or not-so-help desk? No announcement on the Home Page or in the (Chat Room) Forums!! Why? Might I ask?
Sexlightened
Let's start a controversial discussion:
Are single guys and girls technically swingers or just looking for a romp in the long grass with someone else's partner?
I am asking this as the vast majority here are singles. Before the attack-dogs start - We do meet and enjoy meeting single (openly bi) guys.
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Sexlightened
Just be aware that if the beach is an official sanctioned Naturist beach - The locals will take offence to you advertising your erection and that might trigger a report to the Police. If there are children present that will be a very serious offence.
Sexlightened
One might post on your profile your location: What region? What country? What state? What city?
Sexlightened
Hi Tempted: You missed the point - Our frustration is that this an anonymous sex site. Everyone here hides behind a cloak of anonymity so why not be truthful about your needs, wants and desires? We have met two bi guys here that we play with both of whom are open about their sexuality. Why the subterfuge? As HL states above: Honesty is preferable.
Sexlightened
Hi:
We clearly state on our profile that we only play together. Consequently those that we play with have to be bi or at least bi-curious. It is very interesting that when we are bombarded by requests in chat for MFM that 'Straight' males suddenly claim to being bisexual.
We must have a talent in getting people out of the closet !! Ha!
Any others find that they have this ability to convert straight males?
Sexlightened
Yes, I suffer from 'stage fright' at venues and parties so I do take a little assistance before we attend. A friend bought the on-line Viagra from Canada but it was delivered from India. He became concerned as it rarely had any effect at all. We both experimented and worked out that only 1 in 3 pills seemed to have any effect at all. It appears that most pills are just a placebo and those that have the real thing are weak at best. Stay with the real thing from your Doctor.
Sexlightened
Hey! What are we doing wrong? We have tried 'Cntl R' to no effect. Can anyone help? KT3130
Sexlightened
We went down last Saturday. We were the only couple there with 25 or so guys. No sauna, no steam room, no dancing, no fun. We had a drink and walked out. Never again.
Sexlightened
We read up on line and arrived expecting a mixed M/F crowd with a dance floor, steam room, sauna and spa. We arrived just before 10. No other couples there (K was much admired!), we were not allowed into the steam room and sauna as they were reserved for gays only (!) and no DJ or dance floor. We left after one drink and as we did another couple arrived and they were also very unimpressed. We drove up to Attunga and, as usual, had a great time! Don't waste your money at The Shed!