To give or to receive an orgasm? Which is the greater pleasure?? I say I can't decide.... can't it be both??!! 

I am kinky... Submissive to men and Dominant to women. I like my men over me and my women under (is what I most like to say).. But there are the few women who could easily find me at their feet. 

Hell, to be truthful, I can't do sex without layers of kink added in.. I've become sexually "broken" where only the intensity of a good mind/body play will really get me there!! 

I have photos in my private gallery - you see them when you provide me enough information about yourself. You see them when I *choose* for you to see them. 

I'm a 47yr old bisexual rubenesque woman.  I have hips & thighs & a tummy who has borne 2 children, but I have a sex drive and enjoyment of pleasure that is phenomenal!!!   I love lots of attention, to kiss and be kissed, touch and be touched, lick and be licked... I'm sure you get the picture. Willing to play with single females who would like to explore their submissive side and guys who think they have the Dominance to control me well. 

I am also polygamous, (however, I can just swing). I believe I can have more than 1 partner. My partner is okay with this scenario. My children are my primary focus. 

So.... is this what you're looking for?? If not, thanks and g'bye. But if so... hurry up and contact me so that we can meet up and have evening/s of fabulous times! 

I maintain separate relationships. Whilst listed as married, I have an open and honest relationship with my husband.

My Ideal Partner

I am looking for women/couples who are looking for enjoyable times. Body, age are both unimportant, as long as you enjoy your own body, so will I... Contact is really important with me, I'm a lover of sensations & touch, everything from the smooth caress of a kiss to the firm grip of a hair pull to the sharp slap of a firm hand. I kind of require it in my sexual encounters, I've now gotten to the point that if I'm not controlling a woman or being controlled by a man (all consensually of course), then it's kinda boring for me. "If it isn't rough, it isn't fun - Lady Gaga) Hahahaha!!!  

I do Shibari (Japanese Rope Bondage) - it's both beautiful, sensual, erotic and exotic.  I love the art!

I'm VERY female orientated - so couples, if you want to spoil your lovely partner, I'm *motivated* to spoil her & have you join in too!!  

But I do NOT do threesomes where penetration is banned by the male and myself... It is an uncomfortable scenario and I do NOT like it! I'm happily married, I do not want your partner. 5 minutes (or even 500 minutes) of penetration is NOT going to make me want to leave my husband to steal yours. Do not fret!! 

IF you are married/attached in ANY way and are cheating ON your partner - just move the hell on. Whilst I'm all for a bit of discretion - all people in this arrangement should be aware of each other.