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KissFreak
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 34
0 km · Victoria
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Warming the Bed
Hi there,
I have never been to Dendy Adult Cinema before. I have actually never done dogging before either. I wouldn't mind experiencing it but don't feel all that comfortable going by myself. Although what sparked my interest into this was seeing a forum post below (I missed out on the action on that one).
Anyway, would be more than happy for a couple or males or girls to actually go along with me to something like this. I am not trying to be pushy or demanding. I just feel it would be better if there was someone or a group of people to go with and it would probably be more interesting.
I am more than happy to give my number out.
Warming the Bed
I believe that people don't agree with wanking on the beach or sex on the beach of the the fact that religious groups frown upon it, and since religion dictates a lot of people's lives, it is included in morals which obviously makes it frowned upon now. I mean it is perfectly normal after all. I am not one that would do this but I am just trying to understand the situation and I assume there was a time in history where nobody worried about sex or masturbation on beaches.
Warming the Bed
I know what you mean. People can be ignorant and when you send a message to someone, they read it and don't reply when you try to set up meets, it is a bit degrading of your self esteem. If you look at the forum here, it is really sad that nobody ever replies to the posts of single guys like us. They are just trying to get out there and so that they are genuine. I am genuine, you are genuine and the majority of nice single men are genuine.
And what do we get, a big slap in the face of ignorance.
If people are waiting on the chatroom that time wasted can be better saying no to all the messages you ignored. I know this sounds harsh but I have said it before, it isn't that hard to send a 2 second message.
Hope this makes sense.
I feel for all the guys like me that send messages and get ignored or arrange something and get ignored.
And what do we get, a big slap in the face of ignorance.
If people are waiting on the chatroom that time wasted can be better saying no to all the messages you ignored. I know this sounds harsh but I have said it before, it isn't that hard to send a 2 second message.
Hope this makes sense.
I feel for all the guys like me that send messages and get ignored or arrange something and get ignored.
Quote by Diesel79
I had a meet last week where the "lady" had my telephone number, my address, and was suppose to arrive at 2:30pm for some midday / afternoon fun. 2:30 came and went, so did 3:30 / 4:30 5:30 and guess what....i am still waiting to hear from her. Not a word. Crazy though that she is married, and both her and her busband are on this site, regulars in chat room and the profile claims they want to meet. Husband has made posts in forum as well for his own pleasures, dogging meets etc in Melbourne. I wonder if he shows up. It is really not fair to us genuine guys who are looking to grow this experiance, who enjoy this lifestyle, work our butts off trying to meet genuine ladies and couples who say they seek guys and as you know - a single guys is not an easy place to be in this environment when there are so many off us, we get bad names for not showing up etc - but damn it works both ways. Ladies also fail to show....and fail to even offer excuses!!!!
I get the feeling this place has become a social chat site more than SH where like minded people get to meet and enjoy the fulfillment of their desires and fantasies. I am genuine. I am real and i am looking to meet like minded people, not to play message ping pong, not to entertain broken promises or the hype of a meet with out the eventuation.
I think the mods need to add a mandatory field to each profile and force each member to update their profile. The madatory field should be a category which states: Genuine meets / social site / social plus meets - at least this would help the "real genuine members" who are here to meet and play be it at random or at regular differentiate from the "we say we want to meet but we are just pulling your chain, would rather spend our lives talking behind a screen to other faceless nick named people about having sex in public, exploring fantasy, talking dirty but never really intending on meeting at all.
To all the genuine people on this site here for the reason they say they are here - Thank you. To the rest.....Happy days!!!
Thanks,
Stuart
Warming the Bed
Quote by Infinite_Sky
the complaint that this site is full of fakes is one that gets me the most annoyed I think.
Half the time that statement is only made because the other doesnt want to meet/cam and doesnt want to be rude and say no. Or the person complaining gets the shits because they mistakenly think just because you are in the same area and looking for the same things it means you should be automatically fucking.
I would like to point out the following:
- there is nothing rude in saying no. If you don't want to cam or meet with someone then don't but don't lead them on or ignore them in the hope they will get bored and disappear - they often don't.
- Don't assume you're in without at least talking to the other person first. Not everyone jumps into bed with people just because they live in the same area.
Theres my two cents,
I concur with your post. How hard can it be to just sit down and say no to someone. Saying no is likely to get a better response than just ignoring. And besides, there 24 fucking hours in a day so it can't that fucking hard to sit down and write a 2 second message to someone.
