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This is no longer a safe dogging spot. There are much better locations around Sydney Olympic Park and lower north shore which don't have the issue of regular police patrols and are now being frequented by couples and singles in the know.
Yes true, I think my lady friend and I met you at one a while back we should arrange that again. I also have a thermacell that keeps away the mozzies.
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Was there last Tuesday, across the lagoon and a sexy couple (SH members) there I actually met them loads of times before so was good to chat and catch up..she already had tallied 6 loads and I was intending on providing 7th but pardon the pun I had to shoot back to work. Lucky I left when I did as there was a car roll over on Elizabeth Bay drive and I made it through before police closed the road. Anyway thanks I catch you again.
Lucky escape...although unlucky for having to keep ya load
Yeah, she is really hot would have loved to stuck around for another hour. Probably next time.
Was there last Tuesday, across the lagoon and a sexy couple (SH members) there I actually met them loads of times before so was good to chat and catch up..she already had tallied 6 loads and I was intending on providing 7th but pardon the pun I had to shoot back to work. Lucky I left when I did as there was a car roll over on Elizabeth Bay drive and I made it through before police closed the road. Anyway thanks I catch you again.
Quote by CrazedAus
Is this still active with all the construction?
Not as much as it used to be, not like the old days. Hopefully our mutual friend will be up for some more fun over at the other spot, she enjoyed it the last time been too long with all this covid business.
Quote by bert
I have been a member on here for years and had some great times. That said there has been a substantial increase in the above stated, Not just woman but also couples who contact you then dont get back in contact. I take it as the norm now that most people literally have no manners or common courtesy. Hence i no longer make an attempt to contact anyone. And the disappointing thing is some on here that say they return messages are the biggest culprits.
In fairness sometimes people look interesting until the chat starts, then based on the chat it obvious nothing going happen.
Likely if a lady/couple does not get back to you then it's obvious they are not interested.
I agree maybe a "Thanks but no thanks" if they feel you are worthy of it, like you say it's what you call common courtesy. However it's also likely they had a better offer elsewhere and you have simply been overlooked/forgotten.
On a further point and I'm sure some of the ladies will confirm!! Is that some guys ask for honest feedback as to why they were rejected and it doesn't go down so well. For many just killing the conversation is a far better method.
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Ok my turn to rant. There's a limit to how long I will exchange messages. I agree a few messages are important to get to know each other and build trust but some people are into endless message ping pong. That shows me they have NO intention of ever meeting.... for whatever reason they have. As for the Chat Rooms...... are you kidding me? Have you seen the chat on there? It's so mind numbingly dumb! One last thing...... people complain about cock shots, well what about vagina shots? Seems its ok for a woman to post her pussy but not ok for a guy to to the same. Double standards me thinks. Enjoy your day everyone
Maybe that's just you buddy, I mean it's possible that your messages indicate you are boring as batshit that's why you think no one has any intention of meeting.
As for chat what goes on in the lobbies is just general and some people maybe enjoy that chat, how would you know what goes on in private chat? Unless any private chat you have been involved in is mind numbingly dumb, but again you would be a factor in that chat.
Also when some of the ladies complain about cockshots on here they are talking about receiving a private message with a cock shot pic attached in the message body, the difference is once you open the message you see the pic wether you want to or not....it's different from choosing to view a pussy pic in the profile gallery.
I have met a lot of ladies on here but have yet to receive a pussy pic in an opening message from any lady or couple.
Just a few thoughts to ponder
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Genuine question:
Given how easy it is for sexually and socially frustrated males to be radicalised into toxic masculine culture when they're denied the same much-desired and culturally expected sexual and pair-bonding options as their friends and colleagues, do you really think it's healthy to be actively marginalising them, routinely barring them, flagrantly profiteering off them when you *do* let them in, actively demonising them as a presence (because *your* event management has denied them even a fair chance on the floor by allowing couples to poach all the single women in the first place), and actively exploiting the now epidemic mental and sexual health issue that is male heterosexual loneliness?
I'm not asking to be provocative or bolshy, I'm asking because I genuinely want to understand what appears to me to be - at this point in our culture - a fairly ugly and mean-spirited, not to mention counterproductive, mindset.
With all due respect.
U.
Everyone has the same chance on here, you can't blame the site if you are not getting the results you want. It's like a bad tradesman blaming the tools he is given, a good tradesmen would adapt and improvise.
SH are not going write your profile, emails or supply irrisistable pictures they leave that up to you.
I meet people all the time and I don't even try, if I didn't ....I would only blame myself.
I get my annual $50 worth reading the forum posts, the sex is only a bonus.
Stay real Peeps
MacG
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I had a casual encounter with a woman some years back and she was a squirter. Turns out the liquid neither tastes like pee or water,but more of a slightly salty saline solution.
I have to agree, I have had a few squirt/gush experiences and it neither smells or tastes like pee...salty saline is a great description.
I'm comparing this with receiving a Golden Shower experience which although was fairly clear rather than yellow still really smelled of pee.
Has anyone been to Club X recently? It's been a few months since we were there and last time the Cinema on the right had extensive water damage, I know it's a dirty seedy hovel....the type of place you wipe your feet on the way out ....but just wondering if the water damage has been fixed up and the gaff is operational?
I have put on shows with a lady friend at places like Club X, at the beach and in dogging locations. We enjoy guys watching and wanking their cocks to the sights & sounds of her wet pussy being played with, if there is an attraction then sometimes they might be allowed to get involved.
One of the biggest issues is guys assuming that because a couple are there then they automatically jump in and get involved in the action, nah nah nah ...old son...not on our watch it's not. They are there strictly to watch as observers unless I say otherwise, guys who are overly keen to offer their services are overlooked for those who are more reserved and respectful. We are there to serve mainly ourselves, we are not there to serve guys egos and physically get them off...that's what they have two hands for.
On the other side of the coin we both like watching too, we have watched other couples both outdoors and at orgy room in swingers clubs. The sights, sounds and smells are far better than watching porn....much more surreal than watching porn on a screen.
We tend to keep it unannounced and at random, been all good so far although large crowds can be unsettling. 1 or 2 is better.
We do arrange meets with guys, if that's going happen then I will approach them....definitely not them approaching me.
Do's:
Know your role and adhere to it.
Keep your distance until told otherwise.
Ask before touching.
Expect nothing, but hope to be pleasantly surprised.
Dont's :
Don't touch without asking is the golden rule.
Don't crowd and be pushy.
Don't be an idiot.
It's nothing more than sensationalism to drum up interest, probably thinks that by falsely posting that a couple will be there then other couples might be inclined to go. Typical M O of an armchair dogger.
Having been there myself with a lady and put on shows I would rather not advertise publicly beforehand and just leave it to pot luck.
Anyway his exposure serves as good entertainment.
Hey, my swinging friend and I had a great time at couples night at Wet on Wellingto last month. It's actually a gay club but 3rd Monday of the month they have a swinger couples night.
$70 per couple and there were about 120 people there, it's very clean and well run. Great pool and spa and plenty of activity going on in the TV room and orgy room.
There was a good mix of ages too, was surprised to see a large bunch of younger people there in early to mid 20s think they were like students.
They do let in single guys at an eye watering $300 and the ones that were there the night we were there were a pain in the ass, I think the are in the process of changing that.
We can't wait to get back.
PM me for any more information.
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Not many people on here are real.
I have met plenty of people on here and they definitely been real, all the profiles on here are created by real people and not bots.
However there are plenty of non-genuine people, usually fake couples profiles created by desperate single guys trying to get a sniff of pussy or guys who create fake female profiles to collect wank material.
Yes you still have to be sceptical, but there are still real swingers and doggers out there that meet people on weekly basis.
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Hi all,
Curious of anyone is getting down to Cobblers Beach on weekday afternoons? I've had a lot of fun down there and plan to start dropping past after work now that everything is warning me up. Feel free to shoot me a message if you are down that way or would like to hear to the beach
Hey good chatting to you the other night, sorry we had to go ...weather wasn't the best. I tried to message but can't view your profile. If you are interested in watching us again let me know, maybe next time you can blow your load over her ass.
MacG
Quote by Luvasquirta
hi there everyone, I'm sure I'm not Robinson carusoe when I ask this simple question, ladies, if you get a message from someone, why fob him off like a dirty dish cloth. Supposed ideal matches that appeal to me and aren't a few hundred Ks away, I send them a polite tasteful (usually) message and no reply, if we aren't of any interest how about letting blokes know? Dozens of messages sent off and 1 lousy reply. A simple thanks but no thanks would be great, hell, I'd be happy to be told to drop dead, at least it's a response. Bazz
If you ever meet a lady on here you should ask her to show you her inbox (rather than just her box lol) and maybe you have an understanding of why that is.
Similar thread here
https://www.swingersheaven.com...
We are a play couple visiting Melbourne 20/21 February, we are going to Wet on Wellington couples night on the Monday but are free Tuesday afternoon/evening and would be nice to meet some new friends while we are in town. We are staying in a hotel in Carlton and can have a drink or host.
We are both late 30s and she is attractive and very curvy, looking similar fun laid back couples, Bi-Females and maybe even consider single guys for MFM if they don't seem the desperate pushy type.
***ignore the single male profile as stated in my bio sometimes it's not just about me!!***
MacG
