I liked the idea of swinging and discussed with my wife. She didn't show any interest at all. I tried to bring up the subject several times and mentioned it will improve our sexual life. It still didn't have an impact on her. Today our sexual relationship has become sour and I am left bewildered what to do. I am sure there are many married men in the same situation as myself.

I have my doubts if the over 70's would have a relaxed attitude to sex. There are other pressures in that age like attraction, interest, performance and health concerns to top it all.