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We will be staying in this area late October so may have to have a wander over and see what is happening ;)

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We arrive in Cairns early October and then head down to Sydney for a couple of weeks and hopefully will find some fun while we are over in Aus x

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We have had this discussion a few times over in the UK and the general feeling seems to be that singles cant be 'true' swingers. However, I personally disagree with that as I feel swinging is more about attitude rather than marital status. Surely if a person (single or otherwise) is approaching the lifestyle with the right kind of attitude then it shouldn't matter if they are doing it alone or doing it with a partner? Just my thoughts, feel free to disagree wink
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Sits back waiting for the UK contingency to speak up lol
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We also have some guidelines for new doggers over on the UK Swinging Heaven Site. These were done by one of our Moderators, Mal, and we have found that they do give some good tips and advice for anyone starting out. Some of it may not necessarily be relevant to Australian dogging, so feel free to remove the post if it is not appropriate wink
These are mainly guidelines, as rules cannot be enforced. Guidelines can be encouraged. Anyone who's been "about" for a while will know these anyway. Be aware that the good guys might read this and say its all common senses. Not everyone you meet Dogging either knows of this Site or cares a toss about the guidelines. So dont come back on here and complain. These will help you enjoy the experience, but not make it too regimented.
SINGLE GUYS
The FIRST thing you have to understand is this:
The WOMAN in the party is in command.
NO means NO, STOP means STOP.
If you don't UNDERSTAND this, then dogging ISN'T for YOU.
The name of this game is FUN.
THERE ARE MANY TIMES MORE SINGLE GUYS DOING THIS THAN COUPLES OR SINGLE WOMEN.
So, don't expect a lot of action.
You may be lucky, but you probably won't. Waiting is most of the game.
It may seem a good idea to YOU to park at one end and then drive down when a car comes into the car park, so that your lights shine on the occupants. But others also think the same and they'll be doing it too.
It isn't a good idea, it's a very BAD idea because it always ends up with four or five cars driving up-and-down all night.
Don't keep your lights on when parked-up. If you're afraid of the dark, stay at home.
If you're too thick to appreciate this, please stay at home.
Patience IS a virtue, in fact in dogging it's about the only one.
If you arrange to meet a couple, please don't bother going to a dogging site because there WILL be others there and they WILL be watching you. If you don't like that idea then go somewhere else.
Don't creep-up on cars, if you think they are in for a show, let them see you first.
If they aren't up for it they'll drive off.
If they are and you creep-up on them you'll scare the woman (more likely the bloke though, in which case the woman will give you a kicking, masochism is optional)
This is a dark car park/park we're talking about, not a lounge.
I'D get scared if someone crept up behind me !
Sign Language: Flashing brake lights are for gays.
Couples drive in and flash the internal lights mainly, then the
headlights if they see you.
Basic behaviour:
If the window isn't OPEN, or they haven't ASKED for you to join in, then they don't WANT you to.
Even if the window IS open ASK first, or LISTEN.
If the window is open, go and chat to the GUY.
*DO NOT* grab hold of the woman unless INVITED or ASKED.
Please don't expect anyone to blow you if you've been sitting on your arse in a car all day and your dick is humming. Try and be a bit clean, use some baby wipes and clean the bits that matter. Even if the couple DO want to play and have rubbers with them, it's polite to have your own.
If a couple ask you, or others, to move away because there are too many guys about...MOVE AWAY...DON'T moan about it just DO it.
If there are others already "ON" a car and you aren't, DON'T sit there with your lights on thinking they will move off and you can get some action because the COUPLE will move off too.
If all you can think about is getting a free shag and f**k everyone else, then you have got the wrong end of the stick. There is FAR more WATCHING than DOING in this game.
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Credits:
Taken from a variety of other sites and also from discussion with doggers and couples.
First part: Description and general advice.
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Dogging is the broad term used to cover all the sexual outdoor activities that go on.
This can be anything from putting on a show from your car, to a gangbang on a picnic table. It all depends on what you're looking for.
Dogging involves exhibitionism and voyeurism and this combination goes hand in hand. The voyeurs are mainly men and the exhibitionists are mainly couples or women who love to attract attention and often invite people to join in. Dogging is predominently something us British enjoy, the open air, countryside and car parks! Apparently the Belgians, French and Italians do it but not as obsessively as us Brits!
If you're thinking of going dogging for the first time, read these tips below.
These tips are mainly aimed at couples trying dogging for the first time. The tips are split into three sections, before, during and after the meet. If you're a single male, all the advice I've been given for males simply says, "be polite", don't be pushy and only do things you are invited to do. All the couples said that allowing males to join depended on how clean, polite and non-pushy the males were.
Before the meet
talk about it -
If it's your first time dogging, then you need to talk about what you're looking to get out of it. It's easy for partners to get confused about how far to go. Talk to each other, decide what you're both comfortable doing, the last thing you want is to overstep your partners boundaries.
Be prepared -
It's helpful if you put together a small washing bag containing condoms (if the males haven't brought any), wet wipes and deodorant. These are just a few things, which will make the meet go easier. Another thing, which is helpful, are the business cards you
get out of the machines you find at service stations. A simple card with your swinging names, email address and even your mobile number will come in handy.
Advertising -
Dogging can be a bit hit and miss, sometimes you can spend hours at a location and see no action at all. The way round this is to advertise on the dogging forum. When you advertise, don't advertise the location you're going to or what time you're going. This will result in a mass of single men waiting for you. I've heard of this happening and the couple turned up to a group of 25 single men, way too many.
All you need to include is the area you wish to meet in and the date of the meet.
Then simply ask people to email or PM you about the meet. Once you have the emails and PM’s, you'll be able to choose who you want, and email/PM them the details of the actual location and time. This should stop you being swamped.
During the meet -
Safety -
Before you arrive, make sure you move your bag / purse / wallet / anything valuable to a safe place like the glove box, it sounds silly, but would you want someone to know your full name and address?
Lock all the doors from the inside, this will stop unwelcome visitors and keep you in control of what goes on.
Signals -
There's loads of signals that doggers use, the most common are flashing lights, and these could be interior or exterior lights. This basically means they're doggers.
Leaving the internal light on basically means we want to be watched.
If they wind down the window, this means they want to fondle / be fondled or more. If they want more, they tell you.
Most doggers start with a show for the guys and then go further once they've picked the males that interest them.
There are many more signals but most of these are really obvious, like flashing.
Too many males -
If you're presented with the problem of too many males, the easiest thing to do is just ask them to back off. Most will comply with no problems, some don't. If they don't and can't take the message, simply say your going because of "that pushy bastard". Often the males watching will help remove the prats, simply because they don't want their fun spoilt. If it's too much for you, just drive off.
After the meet.
Ending it -
A simple thank you to all the males that watched or took part in the fun is all that's needed. Everyone will get the idea and say their goodbyes.
Cleaning up -
A lot of the dogging locations are based around picnic or other public areas. Please make sure that any condoms or used tissues are put in the bin, or taken with you.
Please do not litter, leaving used condoms around is a sure way of getting the area closed at night by the local council and isn't very nice for normal users of the area.
Keeping in touch -
Remember those business cards, well if you find someone you'd like to meet again, you can give them your card to keep in touch if you want to.
Leaving -
On heading home, make sure you do not take the direct route, go for a drive around for a little while. Just make sure that nobody has followed you home.
Talk -
After it's done, you'll be high on the feeling; this is a good time to talk about what just happened. What you liked, what you didn't, what you want to do next time.
As with all types of swinging, talking is the way to safeguard your relationship, remember that your relationship is far more important than a couple of hour's fun.
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Ello! :bounce::bounce::bounce:
And another! :giggle:

Who let you in on my thread?? :giggle:
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Let her stay Sarah, the rest of us can look at the matching bum's lol
Hi DG, hope you had a safe trip over wink
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Thermal g-strings are in order Shagbunnies, if you ever visit the uk (or thongs as you will now know them as). The UK does have a problem with people who are just out to ruin the fun for those who want to be a bit naughty, and to a point, I can understand that the 'hoons' dont like their car parks being taken over. However, the majority of the places that I know of, are not really suitable for their racing round, so why spoil it for everyone else (not really a valid argument on my side, but I am a bit biased) wink The weather is alegidly getting a bit warmer now in the UK (however, it is spring and snow has been forecast for this week) but when the weather does eventually improve, more couples do seem to venture out, but the hoons follow. Just a shame we cant all just leave each other to our own little devices and get on and enjoy what we are doing. We dont want to listen to their music, so we ignore it, they dont want to watch us dogging, so ignore us lol Is that too simple of an answer :lol: :lol:
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Now that is one hell of a lot more adventerous than us over here in the UK wink
Safety is also a problem over here, and we also have the problem of teenagers who love to drive madly round the car parks causing as much trouble as they possibly can. Same you say, we always keep locations and details of meets very quite as you never know who is readying.
Thanks Blue :wink:
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Oh I just love flirting, even wondered if I should change my name to Flirt, but then thought it may be a little difficult to explain to my boss wink I find that a bit of harmless flirting is not only fun, but it does wonders for the ego, confidence and generally makes you feel good about yourself. So who fancies ..... :wink:
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What! they are going let you back in again!!!
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It seems not :sad:
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So cubes you think you can run, do you??

Me too, I'm nearly as adicted to this site as I am to the UK version.
A brilliant group of people over here, very friendly and helpful the Mods have fantastic use names (unlike the UK ones who all have funny names likes cubes, and sarge etc) ;-)
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First, just wanted to say hello to all the doggers over in Aus, and hope you realise just how lucky you are (we have to do it in the snow over in the UK). However, the aim of the question, we visited Perth last year, parked up near the beach early evening and went for a walk. We noticed that 2 single guys were following us at a safe distance but that when we stopped they did. Now in the UK we would have been certain they were doggers, but as we didn't even know that Dogging went on in Australia, we were a bit unsure and therefore didn't get up to anything. Is this common? Also, dogging in the UK seems to be more in car fun rather than going walking and being caught playing (could be due to the cold weather) but wondered how things normally go in Aus? We also have a lot of problems with Police and what we affectionately call boy racers, who spend most of their time driving round car parks, causing problems for the doggers. Is this just a UK problem, or do you have similar issues? Sorry for all the questions and I'm only asking as we are hoping to pay a visit again next year and really would like to know the score before we do anything we shouldn't do.
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Hello Rose, lovely weather you are having over here ;-) and nice to see someone 'normal' rather than the rif-raf you get from the UK. Whoops, just noticed half of the rif raf are already here, so Hi to the gang, anais, Sarah, Missy, Meeko, Woo (what did he say lol) Cubes and Easy. Now can someone tell me how to put an avatar on? I tried to go via the 'My Settings' but it says all my photos are adult so cant add one ;-(
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Wonders if cubes really wants his nuts inspecting!!

He certainly needs something inspecting!
Just saying hello from another UK Swinging Heaven member, if the site is half as good as the UK version, it will be amazing