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daylight
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 47
0 km · Victoria

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man! that was long time ago. I must have been 16 or something. The girl was my groupie..we were supposed to study together..oh yeah! we studied alright..practical biology! It was my room..we didn't had to go to any car or any stupid places...but other than that it pretty much sucked.
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It would have to be jennifer love hewitt.I always liked that cute smile of hers..and she got some sexy boobs..I'm not sure if they are real but I'm pretty sure they will be so fine.. :grin: I wouldn't mind having jessica alba too..she is damn sexy and cute too..
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well, we haven't done anything so far. our first meet will be on this weekend. so why are we doing this? It's the same answer most others would give you..we just want something different..We are just looking for a way to spice up our sexual life..And we hope this will turn out just fine..
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yes guys! It feels great. lol. we bought a camera few weeks ago and we burned some 5 CDs now. It feels nice and weird..It's almost like a third person is in the room with us. It makes a great substitute for easy porn. No need to rent or download anything. Instant porn right at your home...
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Both me and my wife have tough jobs that take most of our time..How many times? hmm maybe 3 times a week. Last week was just one time..I know it sucks, what can I say..We are now living to work..not working to live..We want to change but it's not that easy, you know.
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What else are we supposed to do? Stop having sex? That is not an option. If condoms can't protect us from diseases, I really don't know what to say. We are the so called advanced species in this world. Why can't we come up with a better solution to diseases? It's a conspiracy man! They don't want us to have enough sex that's why they don't bother about finding cures for STDs.
That's an interesting theory mate! but believe me, STDs are not a conspiracy. They are very real. My uncle had aids and I remember how hard it was for him. It was not the disease itself that hurt him, but the degrading treatment of others..people are just mean. I'm sure we will find some cure for everything. we just need the time...
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With my husband I always swallow... but with other men I never swallow. To me it seems like a personal preference but to me its just personal. I swallow my husband because we have exchanged every bodily fluid there is.. I don't exchange bodily fluids with other men. I don't know if there are any risks involved but better safe than sorry.
lol. you two have exchange every body fluid there is??? really? lol. That is a little extreme. My wife, she doesn't like to swallow..she doesn't want to allow other men to cum inside her mouth. she hates that..people have different tastes ;)
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I have been very possessive about my woman. I'm not really sure why it was like that but it was. Thinking about it maybe it has something to do with being jealous? The idea of her with someone else..that jealousy, that anger ..maybe that just materializes as being possessive.
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I feel that dating someone my own age is somewhat boring.
why is daying someone your age boring? I always kind of thought people with same age range will be able to communicate better..you know, no generation gap or anything..As far as age differences go, I too have noticed that. Maybe it's the ideal time...
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Fantasies. I have ooodles of fantasies...the one i would like to become a reality in the near future would be a 40ish woman skinning me with a vegetable pealer while i'm submerged in sulphuric acid.
now that is freaking scary! :shock: you just made me spill coffee all over the keyboard. I hope your fantasy don't come true..I knew a friend who had a thing for pain..last time I saw, he couldn't feel his nuts. lol
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hmm, that's interesting! Almost all hubbies say the exact same thing. They want to watch their wife in the act. I wonder why rolleyes
As for me, most of them have been taken care of over the years. well let's see, I still want to have a gangbang session in outer space. that's about it.
Thanks for replying folks. I don't know what is it about..but I just want to watch her with someone..maybe all those years of being possessive about her. As far as having sex in outer space..I wonder what that would be like. lol.
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I never liked fake boobs. I mean come on! Nature has given women perfect bodies..why ruin it. My wife asked me if I wanted her to have fake ones couple of years. I told her she don't need to change in anyway..she was very happy. I agree with you guys..a lot of it has to do with the media..I can't turn on tv without watching a chick with some kind of enhancements. it's atrocious.
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It's really nice when somebody understands what you are talking about. We have been in that stage too. Everything used to be so much fun. It still is but it's different. Like u said, all the bad ones seem to stand out. We do our own parties once in a while but we feel like we need to stop or atleast for a while. We had our little fun and maybe it's time to get back on us.
I think I understand what you are saying..we haven't reached your stage yet. we are just starting..I guess no matter how excited we are, everything loses it's color in time...we too will try to have our fun and have good memories..
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I had sex once on a concert itself. I mean it was perfect. There were people all around us but they were our cover. I don't think anybody noticed at all. Ahh those were the times man! Other than that, It's all strictly within four walls. I wouldn't mind trying it out again if anybody wants to volunteer.
I wouldn't mind having sex at a concert. I know lot of people who had the same experiences. what other weird places..let's see. I wouldn't mind having sex in a jail..not that I want to go to jail..I just like the idea.
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well let's see. a) a massive gangbang with 200 people representing 200 different countries. b) to be in a mainstream porn movie.. c) try out every sexual position there is. that's about it for me..
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well, we are only starting..so we haven't reached this point. I'm sure we would be thinking the same thing some day. right now, we are all too excited about our first meet. It's this weekend. We had a good response to the ads and we are happy to find some good people.
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lol. interesting topic. I myself particularly don't have any foot fetish thing..but I do enjoy giving them a nice massage and she seems to like it. I know some women don't like it and infact some hate it.
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Thanks for all your replies. I appreciate it. We were just starting and we were unsure as to whether to tell our friends & family. I think after listening to all, I think we would say. This is our life and this is something that we want to do and they should accept for who we are. Thanks again for replying guys.
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I'm not into pain either. I wouldn't be too happy being at the receiving end of pain..but I wouldn't mind getting a little spanked at. oops did I say that aloud? Well, we live only once and the idea is to experience as much as possible. And i'm all ready for experiences.
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I will you tell this much. I love all kinds of women. lol. Now don't think women are inferior to us in anyway. Why do you think they live longer than us? They are stronger survivors than us. 60% of the cancer patients are men. 80% of the lightning victims are men...now what does that tell you about women? :tongue:
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As much as fun it is, like everything else swinging too has its downfalls. Your partner can get too attached to it. The line between swinging and cheating is very thin one. The truth is that only a very small percentage can maintain the lifestyle for long periods.
Yes. it's very true. we have doing research for a month now and we have across several, infact too many people who had problems with their marriage..We have found only a handful of people who have been active in the lifestyle for more than a year. If swinging is that destructive..why do people do it then?
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Maybe it has something to do with the fact that they don't need clubs or ads to spice-up their sexual life. I have lots of friends from the black community and I assure you they are all very sexually active. I think I'm a little jealous now.
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I appreciate you all replying to me. For the last month we have been doing lot of research into this. We also found 2 really experienced couples who are willing to guide us through this. We did got to a club once but it was too messy for us. We decided to stick with the ads. Thanks for all replying fellows.
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The answer is no. Swinging doesn't make you like sex more. It just makes you more open to ideas when it comes to sex. It doesnt really make you a sex addict..but it certainly makes sex a much more enjoyable experience.
That is the kind of answer most of the experienced people we have talking to say. but there were some who said how they cant stop thinking about sex. There was this couple who could only go to club on weekends, So the whole week, all they think about is what they goona do at the weekend. That was a little scary.
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I dont think I would be very comfortable bringing them straight to our homes. We have a lakeside rest house a few miles from here. And we are planning to take all the action to there. It's safe and secure. No questions asked. Everybody happy.
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It's wise to take some precautions. We now stopped going to clubs all together. Ads are much more better and convenient for us. We get to choose the playmates..and we can also check out recommendations from others. Don't bring too much rules into swinging as it wouldn't be fun..
That's exactly what others have been telling us. We decided to stick with the ads too. We feel like there is more freedom of choice there. They have been telling how important it is to set boundaries. There are bad sides to anything, right?
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ok daylight, Listen carefully. There is only solution to your problem. You need someone who is really experienced to take you under their wing. Luckily for you I'm here. Before going to clubs and putting out ads..It is essential that your wife must be groomed to the swinging scene. I conduct classes and I would gladly take you wife in. Send her to me for a week and feel the difference.. :grin:
lol. Thanks for your offer but I will pass. You are a bad one, you know that. I will groom her myself. We have been doing a lot of research lately. We know so much more than we did last month. We also met 2 couples who are more than willing to help us. So as for you, up yours. :P
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Don't listen to these people daylight. Size does matter. If they are saying otherwise it means they dont have a big one. It's lilke those people without money saying money can't buy happiness. If you are having a really small guy down there..my suggestion would be to go to surgery. The got operations where they sew two juniors together! Goodluck amigo.
Thanks for all your input. I appreciate it. lol. I will skip from the surgery. Thanks for your suggestions though. :P I also tried measuring from the leg to the back of my head. 55 inches. Not too bad huh? lol
But seriously, do these creams and such stuff really work?
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Glory hole is like a hole in the wall where an anonymous human being can insert his member to be sucked off by another anonymous human ( male or female) It's a fun concept..but my wife could never do that without actually knowing the person..You have to feel a certain connection to somebody before getting intimate like that.
Lol. That sounds like fun. There is so much stuff out there I don't know. Why would you want any connection to your playmates? Isn't it better that there is no connection. I really like this gloryhole thing. Let me go and make a hole in my bathroom. :grin:
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I take back what I said before. I did more research and found out that sex during pregnant was really safe! And some of the doctors I talked to encouraged it even! So many things I dont know.