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gruves
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 59
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Hey, I have a question about the use of the word SLUT!
Yes I KNOW it can be used as a very nasty rebuke, but I'm not talking about being nasty.
I like the word slut, and often use it as ( I think ) a word of endearment.....not derogatory at all.
I LOVE it when a lady sluts it out with me.....being you know as hot and as naughty as she can.
I try to be as slutty as they want me to be, and love it when they do the same for me.
the Oxford dictionary definition ie
Definition of slut in English:
noun
derogatory
1A woman who has many casual sexual partners.
2 dated A woman with low standards of cleanliness.
BUT this is not what I mean......the slut word can be hot......it is sexy, it transmits and expresses a very close bond between lovers when they use it, I think....I get VERY excited when a woman tells me in some way that she's my slut !
It usually means really good sex!
Urban Dictionary defines Slut as
a woman with the morals of a man
Not quite right either.....actually offensive somewhat to men.......are they saying ALL men are sluts cos they have male morals?
I damn sure there is a vast range of morals amongst the males of our species and many would not come near being recognised as slutty
Collins Dictionary definition is different again
(derogatory) a dirty slatternly woman ( slattern means a slovenly woman or girl; according to same dictionary I had
to look it up)
(derogatory) an immoral woman
(archaic) a female dog
Again all derogatory and not what I mean when I use the word
Does anyone else use the word slut as maybe a naughty word but is NOT being derogatory?
I work in a rather male dominated and confined work environment where swearing is the norm and I do know that when discussing women as male's do....a sentence like .......is a tasty slut, hey? or look at this hot slut !or even I LOVE the slut is actually a statement of admiration..... I know it IS sexist and sounds derogatory, and is probably not right and maybe could be viewed as a terrible way that men are oblivious to their speech that can denigrate women,,,, but I don't think we really mean that.....we're just dumb males being male
The C word is used far more in a derogatory manner I reckon..
I got told off rather quickly for using the slut word in a chat situation, admittingly I was a bit tipsy but I said something like I like it when women slut it out and got shut down, before I could explain myself....I said I love sluts....in a rather wind up manner I admit, but was abused and had the c word thrown at me....YET being called a cunt and some lady actually pushing the envelope even further ( I admit I was opened the envelope with the slut word) with random statements like "right up my cunt".....which was evidently a more acceptable statement than my I love sluts one?
So, may I ask what people think.....is it wrong to use the word slut as a term of endearment pertaining to a good sexual relationship?? Or is too offensive or derogatory to women??
It IS 2015 and there are approximately 280 profiles on this very site that use slut in their profile name !
And this IS a sex site where swearing and use of words like fuck, Cock, Wank , Cum etc are used very freely and are acceptable
Is slut a taboo as a non derogatory word, when cunt (although still a tad harsh and crude to many) is acceptable in a descriptive manner ?
Just wondering........cos I really DO like sluts :twisted:
Mr G
This is Mr G aka Gruven's opinion by the way, Nellie Gruves may not totally agree. She let me post it but had NO editorial input .
Yes I KNOW it can be used as a very nasty rebuke, but I'm not talking about being nasty.
I like the word slut, and often use it as ( I think ) a word of endearment.....not derogatory at all.
I LOVE it when a lady sluts it out with me.....being you know as hot and as naughty as she can.
I try to be as slutty as they want me to be, and love it when they do the same for me.
the Oxford dictionary definition ie
Definition of slut in English:
noun
derogatory
1A woman who has many casual sexual partners.
2 dated A woman with low standards of cleanliness.
BUT this is not what I mean......the slut word can be hot......it is sexy, it transmits and expresses a very close bond between lovers when they use it, I think....I get VERY excited when a woman tells me in some way that she's my slut !
It usually means really good sex!
Urban Dictionary defines Slut as
a woman with the morals of a man
Not quite right either.....actually offensive somewhat to men.......are they saying ALL men are sluts cos they have male morals?
I damn sure there is a vast range of morals amongst the males of our species and many would not come near being recognised as slutty
Collins Dictionary definition is different again
(derogatory) a dirty slatternly woman ( slattern means a slovenly woman or girl; according to same dictionary I had
to look it up)
(derogatory) an immoral woman
(archaic) a female dog
Again all derogatory and not what I mean when I use the word
Does anyone else use the word slut as maybe a naughty word but is NOT being derogatory?
I work in a rather male dominated and confined work environment where swearing is the norm and I do know that when discussing women as male's do....a sentence like .......is a tasty slut, hey? or look at this hot slut !or even I LOVE the slut is actually a statement of admiration..... I know it IS sexist and sounds derogatory, and is probably not right and maybe could be viewed as a terrible way that men are oblivious to their speech that can denigrate women,,,, but I don't think we really mean that.....we're just dumb males being male
The C word is used far more in a derogatory manner I reckon..
I got told off rather quickly for using the slut word in a chat situation, admittingly I was a bit tipsy but I said something like I like it when women slut it out and got shut down, before I could explain myself....I said I love sluts....in a rather wind up manner I admit, but was abused and had the c word thrown at me....YET being called a cunt and some lady actually pushing the envelope even further ( I admit I was opened the envelope with the slut word) with random statements like "right up my cunt".....which was evidently a more acceptable statement than my I love sluts one?
So, may I ask what people think.....is it wrong to use the word slut as a term of endearment pertaining to a good sexual relationship?? Or is too offensive or derogatory to women??
It IS 2015 and there are approximately 280 profiles on this very site that use slut in their profile name !
And this IS a sex site where swearing and use of words like fuck, Cock, Wank , Cum etc are used very freely and are acceptable
Is slut a taboo as a non derogatory word, when cunt (although still a tad harsh and crude to many) is acceptable in a descriptive manner ?
Just wondering........cos I really DO like sluts :twisted:
Mr G
This is Mr G aka Gruven's opinion by the way, Nellie Gruves may not totally agree. She let me post it but had NO editorial input .
