Happily married for 7 years with 3 kids, we're excited to be checking out the scene to see how we like it.

Taking things very slowly, at the moment we are looking to ease into this experience by just going to a club or two, and looking around before we start doing anything. Meeting other couples or singles directly for 1-on-1 interaction is something we'll progress to if we both decide we like what we're doing. We're excited by the possibilities, but taking care to get it right.

Most of the things listed as interests ... we haven't done them yet and listing them just means we like the sound of it. We are genuine newbies here.

Certainly happy to chat, to ask and answer questions! We are friendly people and will answer all messages.

SINGLE MEN apparently need this clearly spelled out - please don't message us. It's listed as an interest but we're not receptive to contact at the moment. Please don't ask "are you ready yet" or anything like that - if we are, we will remove this paragraph from our profile. Thanks.

Please also note that we aren't interested in playing with anyone who is not participating with the knowledge of their spouse. We do appreciate everyone who is up front about this, so in the same spirit - thanks but no thanks.

Just to be sure, NO SINGLE GUYS! Thanks!