So sorry to hear your bad experiences Biplay very disappontingnfor us being basically a trio we have had quite a few single males thinking they are in for an easy score with me(female of our trio) for a one on one, first question I ask if the message is polite is "Have you read our profile" if answer is yes I say well your not reading it right, go away. If message is crude or anyone gets nasty its a straight out, "piss off" this seems to stop any problems. There seems to becoming way too many single males and males claiming to be couples getting into group, many just to have a perve, disappointing for us as we are genuinely looking for playfreinds, hard enough that we are a trio  but weeding out the ummm pricks gets a bit tiring.