100 Kg's or 60 Kg's we all have our issues, my advice is that the sooner you accept it then you will be surprised how little an issue it really was in the first place.
Hi Tom,
As a single male i feel your pain but the best way to meet people is to go into the chat rooms where you can display your personality somewhat which often arouses interest
Have a few private chats and see how you go
It's been the most successful method for me on here and although not all lead to sexual encounters you can make some really loyal friends.
You need to realise that single females and couples are inundated with mail and rarely have the time to read through them and as pointed
out earlier, make it different, NOT "hey would you like to meet up" or some boring stuff like that, you would be way better off telling a joke