Evening all,
I was wondering what everybody thought about escorts and the hiring of escorts.
Are they worth it?
What are you feelings on that the attraction is solely because you are paying them?
Does the sex feel right?
I am considering hiring an escort to relieve myself as I have had no luck here or anywhere else and really need the relief, would this be the correct decision or will it just cause more issues?
Thank you for your time and responses!
Hi just another unusual thought.
As someone that cannot swim I have noticed that a lot of places that people enjoy meeting at on this website are commonly Pools and Beaches or places that contain pools (specifically the preorganised parties).
Would going to such places be a doable venture or is swimming or at least getting in the water basically a requirement?
Thank you everyone for the replies, It means a lot!
I think I will wait and attend the next meet up when ever it is and hopefully develop some kind of rapport with even a handful of people so that I don't feel utterly and completely on my own here before attempting any moves.
Hey everyone,
Not that everyone has issues with it but if you do, how do you deal with self esteem, nerves and body image issues?
I have had this account and have been lurking the forums and chat rooms on this site for a few years now (Not continuously but a stint every couple of months) but have not uploaded a photo or contacted anyone due to feeling as though I would not be attractive enough or personable enough to whichever standard is held. I also feel as though due to being utterly and completely inexperienced in any kind of sexual relations that I would essentially just be wasting even interested peoples time.
I know that this thought train is incorrect and harmful and I would like to ask how if anyone has overcome these issues before and can offer any advice?
Thank you kindly for reading and I am sorry for asking nonsense like this on here.
Quote by lonelydad
you've given yourself some pretty crap responses mate ,,,,,how about take this experience and learn from it ,,,,
what in your own opinion went wrong or right ,,,what can you do to improve the experience for both you and the couple you meet with ,,,was there any chemistry between you all ,,if not ,,,would looking for that chemistry be worth the while ,,,was the entire thing too rushed from first contact to going to the bedroom , did you feel pressured to do something you weren't comfortable with ,,,analyse the whole thing and learn from it ,,,was it merely a case if first time jitters regardless of how eager you may have been ,,,,is the couple in question still approachable and what did they think of the experience,,,,could they give you any pointers after all your probably not their first
always learn in everything you do ,,you will be better for it in the end
goodluck
Quote by TemptedTwo
We're confused. You say it's "tonights" predicament, that you could meet "tonight or tomorrow", and that your housemate is having a party "tomorrow". Then there is no predicament. Have her over tonight.
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If it's actually a predicament for tomorrow, not tonight, can you go to her place instead? Or treat the two of you to a nice hotel room with a spa and spacious shower.
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All great advice. Single guys, yes it is hard but read the people's profiles you are interested in.
God we wish people would read ours lol.
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And the only other thing I would probably add is something you can't do very much about....
You are 19!
Sadly for you this will mean many closed doors for you. You may be the world's loveliest young man, but inexperience is generally not a turn on. In the past I have met young single men, and although they were always lovely, willing and enthusiastic, there was always a nagging feeling that I was a notch on a bedpost until girlfriend material came along, or a real live sex lesson. I don't mind sharing new experiences with a partner and showing them how I like it, but I honestly don't want to be a teacher. Anybody who says to me, "oh but I love mature women" sounds to me like they are saying " I really need somebody to teach me what to do" . This might not be you - I'm speaking generically.
The other undeniable fact is that many of the people who are active swingers probably have children older than you. From my profile surfing, I find many of the people who regularly chat are in my age group - and having young adult children is quite possible. Mrs Robinson complexes aside, it's just too much of a head fuck to think that you are fucking somebody the age of your son.
Please don't take these comments as a personal attack on you. These are things you cannot do anything about. They are not necessarily insurmountable, but MAY be something you encounter. Have you tried other sites with a younger demographic? I know that life as a single man on all adult/sex chat/dating sites is difficult, but maybe you might be at less of a disadvantage?
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A single guy picking up on a sex site really is a numbers game. You need to message a LOT of people, and you need to make each introductory message fun, flirty, and tailored to the profile of your intended victim, err, paramour. Generic form letters stand out a mile and are a real turn off. Crafting interesting and profile-specific messages takes a lot of thought and effort.
You could also improve your pictures. We've certainly seen far worse than yours, but you could still do better. Have a look through magazines to get some good ideas for poses, clothing, camera angles, lighting, etc.
Good luck!
Quote by GoodandGreedy
1. Always read a profile before msging them. Make sure you fit what they're looking for. Quite a few people forget this point and wonder why their msg is ignored or they get a nasty reply back.
2. Try and be active in the chat rooms. Having a personality and engaging chatters is a good way to become familiar to others. It's kind of like marketing. If you're active and out there, others will find out.
3. Always be respectful especially if someone is on cam. "Wow, awesome tits" or "I wanna eat that pussy" really isn't that appealing.
4. Try and get to social events. If people get to meet you in person it actually helps. Despite the amount of traffic many single guys spruke about in the forums MOST don't go to meet and greets. All talk, no action. I wish more single males would actually turn up to events. They have no idea what they're missing lol.
5. Be friendly and treat others how you'd like to be treated. You have to grow a thick skin so hope you don't offend easily.
6. Enjoy yourself and have fun.
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keep them coming!
so far i have done/learned how to do all but 2 of the things listed in my 18 years.
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hi Moonrune the next one is Pixies birthday party this saturday, all the information is in the Lets Meetup forum. Come over and say hi, I only bite if you ask nicely
