I am in my early 50s, semi-retired and planning on travelling in Australia and around the world. Looking of travel friends to share parts or all of the journey, and they are into sharing some sexual adventure along the way all the better. I am using this forum as a space to discuss idea, learn from other regarding travel and hopefully meet other in the process the might want to travel themselves or meet up along the way. Open to ideas and advise. Thanks

Quote by peter__jane

Hi Twonewbies,
I have always found the word " cheaters" to be distasteful and shallow when it does not truly reflect the need for one to openly express their sexual feelings and desires.
Couples that have openly discussed " swinging", at times attempted to expose them to the scene in a trusting and secure manner and have not been able to progress any further leave 1 individual satisfied and not the other.
Being able to speak openly is a wonderful thing, I know I have tried and tried for many years and been patient and reassuring that it is only an extension to our sex life but had little to no success in progressing this further.
To have to bow down to my partners lack of interest in this area, unable to gain further ground in her understanding my feelings and still having a desire to play with other like minded and open people should not render me a cheater.
I still remain the loyal father, hard working husband, respectable businessman and member of society that has an inner side that needs satisfying too...
We all have feelings and inner desires that the world cannot at times understand.
We live in a world of politically correctness and hypocrisy, where the media dramatisation controls our sentiment, both morally and politically and that is not the way it should be.
No one has the right to judge another and I have made many acquaintances in the scene that enjoy being around me and find me a pleasant person to know....to me that is a sign of who I am and not the world that is so distant with peoples feelings.
Thanks for listening

A heart felt and well spoken response. Totally agree with his worlds and the difficulties faced when the desire of one partner decreases after children and over time. Thanks for being so honest.