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orangesound
1 day ago
Straight Male, 36
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Has been many a great social meet and greet in Brisbane over the years. Thanks to the wonderful people who’ve led the way in organising the meet and greets. Looking forward to seeing attendees of previous events and new faces most welcome.

A social meet and greet is an informal, relaxed and supportive event held in a public venue that’s safe and creates a feeling that all attendees enjoy and benefit from the event. You’ll be glad for attending and looking forward to the next.

To organise such a meeting this year, what month would suit those who’d like to attend?

Looking forward to your replies here. If you prefer/feel more comfortable, send a private message or post to my profile/wink and I’ll be in touch.

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Quote by kerry_1975

...and the fact that females have been recorded while on cam...

Thanks Kerry_1975, that’s a section of the site I don’t use, appreciate your perspective. Extremely concerning for privacy to be breached and for those individuals to lack decency and respect.

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I notice it’s been four to five days since a female signed up to the site.

What are we doing wrong? What would entice more genuine females to join and remain active?

Be great to read your thoughts. If you don’t feel comfortable posting. send a message, all confidences respected.

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Who has been to Club 86? What's your review?

Are you going Saturday night 5 November?

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Quote by MrMrsPlayful

No problems Planz.

As noobs there is quite a lot of info out there about the scene. Some good but alot not so helpful or really that interesting. We've found the OSS podcast quite good with helpful info and they speak with passion and excitement. It's easy to listen to.

What is OSS an abbreviation for? Our Secret Soot? Thanks, hope you had a merry Christmas.

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Thanks for the update Seamus, appreciate the effort by you and the moderator/admin time.

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There's an untouched section of bushland between Armytage Street and the Esplanade at Lota.

Was there recently jogging and noticed work within the bushland.

Walked in to investigate and found a new bridge being constructed. It provides access to a secluded lookout.

I don't see much of a lookout as there are trees obstructing the view. That's the great thing, lots of bushland, no prying eyes, no neighbours to worry about.

There is a nursing home to the north, but it appears to be an unused corner of their land next door to the bushland.

Now, November 2021, there's no access via the main walkway between the Esplanade and Armytage St.

There is access via an unofficial track other side of gully, closer to the nursing home.

Or if adventurous, walk through the construction site (out of hours of course). Work began early November 2021 and is expected to be complete late January 2022.

More secluded now or more open after completion.

It seems very quiet and whilst I'm single and no one to go dogging with, appears a great location for fun.

Would be great at night.

Enjoy and tell us here how you found it.

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Quote by Khloeandco
because getting bulk messages all saying exactly the same thing from unverified users makes it quite easy to think they are fake accounts


Welcome @Khloeandco. Even for long time users, this can be misleading. Perhaps admin can design a way to remove any chance of misunderstanding?

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Quote by Durbanaussie

The original post was from 5 years ago...

Exactly.  Good suggestion for site admin to flip the forum threads so the most recent post is first when you click in.  


29 September is a Wednesday this year. Nothing stopping the date being used for fun this year. 


If you're near to Oxenford, why not make a date of it.  


Wishing you all fun.   

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Would be great to read of encouraging reports from Oxenford, a convenient drive between Brisbane and the Gold Coast. Beside the M1 freeway.

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Quote by Melb_Firey
I am organising a group get together for 3 ladies this weekend, Friday evening in the CBD. Meet for drinks and if all good, back to apartment for play time.


Well done Melb_Firey for organising this. Hope you have success in coming weeks if Victoria does not remain closed down.


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Quote by Playtime_18

Would love to meet dark skinned ladies for discreet fun in Qld

Yes, I'm sure many of us would. 

I appreciate the often different approaches and experiences of differing cultures and backgrounds.
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Perhaps those seeking hook ups in lockdown areas are anti lockdown types?

The case level didn't go close to what NSW has managed and stayed open. It was quite the over reaction. Masks, tracing and isolating contacts really should have been enough.


I do agree there is higher risk at such a time. Still, could be spread between those in a relationship but apart or in the same house, viruses can be found in unlikely places.

What concerns me is that those who aren't worried about being covid safe, do they have the same cavalier approach to sexual health and hygiene?  That is concerning.


All some devils' advocate, conversation starters from me.

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Good morning all.

Let's step this meet up a gear and add to the numbers attending.

Who do we know in our contacts list who are similarly minded and will join the site and attend the meet with their friend (you) as a great introduction?

Who do we know on the site who would otherwise not attend that you can talk to and convince to attend? 

It may only take the offer of a lift to/from the venue or simply you accompanying them so they don't feel alone. All easy to do.

We can make this meet great with a little effort from all. 

How will you help?

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I'm amazed the Saints and Sinners Ball is happening this year. In Melbourne, is that correct?

Dan Andrews and the public health killjoys seem to close down every gathering of people. The over 50 000 capacity for ANZAC Day at the Shrine has been limited to just over 1 000.

With hotel quarantine resuming for the third time, it's only a matter of days before the virus leaks and community transmission sends the Victorian govt into a panic.

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John, do you see how many views you've had of this? 

I think many of us have clicked in anticipation of a four day fun festival!


Hope you're enjoying your trip.

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They are fantastic. The Toowoomba party recently was a hoot! So many happy country folk keen for fun and few of us big city blow-ins. Amazing country women!

Special hello to member Philwill who said hi, catch up for a chat at an Ipswich party.

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Whilst movement is limited across Brisbane and surrounds, now is a perfect time to suggest the site to anyone you know who has been toying with the idea of 'going online'.


I've been a member since soon after it began and enjoyed every year on the site. I write this from my own personal enthusiasm and support for the site and appreciation for those who operate it.


If you have people you know who are interested or you think would be interested in joining, this is the perfect time. Tell them of the great features of the site, the ease of use and thankfully, a usual lack of non genuine profiles as they're weeded out fairly quick.


Brisbane is also hosting a free meet and greet in May, always worth attending and saying hi in person, which is open to all as member, regardless of being a paid member or yet to decide.


The calm of the Easter break and the largely at home days this week is perfect time to discover this site, open communication with a few people and discover a whole new world of fun.

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Another three day "lockdown" of sorts in Brisbane, Moreton Bay, Redland, Logan and Ipswich council areas.

Maximum of two visitors to any household. So you know what that means…

Singles have have a threesome or two couples can be at a house ;-)

Have fun… safely!

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unless you have female reproductive organs, hers are still viewable from what I can see here. 

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Quote by sportyplay3
I thought Diversionz had closed down

 Sadly so. Original owners were fantastic, following on from the wonderful acreage swinger hours at Benhiam St Calamvale.

Unsure what happened when ownership changed, wasn't going to clubs then.

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Quote by django87
I’ve never been, but I’ve heard the spit beach is the spot. Beach walk near SeaWorld I think

 For bi/gay men, no female fun there. Creepy to even jog in groups there sometimes.

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Over the last couple of years, I've seen an increasing trend of new members sign up to the site with no idea of what swinging is.

They either don't know nor care?

What I'm talking about are the women who sign up and expect payment or rewards in order to meet.

This is not 'Brothel Heaven' or 'Prostitute Heaven', I wouldn't have signed up if it was.

Yes, profiles can be reported and members either removed or have such wording deleted, but why are they here in the first place?

It's not the intention of the site for why they're here, they're trying to scam money out of desperate people.

This is not what swinging is about.

It's about having consensual fun in an enjoyable way. Unless you're running a party, it's not a business and even then, many parties are held by those who simply enjoy a great party with like minded adults.

Some may call it swinging, others may consider it 'sex positive', others may simply find this a like minded place for great experiences to get together and others may have their own name but one thing it should never be is a place where those hawking themselves for sex expect a business transaction or any other kind of underhanded 'reward'.

Simply go away and now.

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Quote by JackMan123
Bring it on....here we go again Stripsy !!!!!icon_lol
Hope to see lots there...old friends and new ones. Cheers everyone

 It's a great night here & everyone is enjoying the night. Great turn up of people on a wet and windy night outside. 

For those who are genuine swingers, who actually meet people, this is a great bunch of people who know how to enjoy themselves.

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Reminder to all who live Brisbane, Gold Coast, Northern NSW or surrounds.

This is on tonight!

Always a well hosted evening by the Strips & JackMan.

Worth attending even if you're only slightly curious what this site and fun is all about. Welcoming & friendly. No pressure.

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It's Byron, anything that displeases those in the area will be removed or reworded.

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Great to read the thoughts of the recent comments from members. My original comment related to the number of profiles who sign up, look around but then don't return, obviously not finding what they're looking for. Not for profiles which have been left idle by once active members who, as commented, may have genuine reasons for not being on the site.

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It was great. Fantastic venue, even better hosts in Mr and Mrs Strips. Come to the next one.