life is not about waiting for the storm to pass.. its about learning to dance in the rain 

Welcomes you to my profile. Straight jackets are by the wall, meds are in the boxes. Enjoy your stay, and please visit again!

PLEASE READ MY PROFILE BEFORE YOU WHISPER AND ASK FIRST THANK YOU !!!!!!!!!!!!! DO NOT SEND ME A FRIEND REQUEST IF WE HAVE NEVER SPOKEN AS IT WILL BE IGNORED !!!!!

UPDATE : JAN 2023

I'm getting MARRIED 😀

UPDATE: DEC 2019

I have found myself a partner... he isnt from this life style, so I am taking a step back... I will still be online to chat, and do moderator duties... maybe down the track I will be able to slowly introduce him to this wonderful place.....

Easy going friendly person. Enjoy a good laugh and making new friends. . I can usually be found in the Pool Chat Room..... I'm open minded and willing to try new thing's . I am picky on who I meet and I don't like pushy people...PLEASE DON'T ASK ME TO MEET IN MAIN CHAT even if it is just for a friendly coffee... as I really don't like having to let people down publicly... it never goes well.... I'm also not interested in younger men... sorry but you just don't do it for me.... so if your under 35 sorry but not interested....... also to the single male profiles... if you are married/attached/almost single..... don't bother wasting your time.... not interested in helping you cheat !!!!!

I'm strong, independent, open and honest & respectful of others and i expect the same in return. I've met many very nice people from this site who i consider good friends and hope to make more as my journey here continues.

IF YOU DO NOT FIT WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR, PLEASE DON'T WASTE MY TIME... YOU WILL BE BLOCKED !!!!

I believe imperfection is beauty, madness is genius and its better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring.....