So a follow up to this post. Despite our nerves we got there and settled in quickly. Everyone was so friendly and encouraging. The organisers do a great job. A wonderful vibe. A bit of a sensory overload in terms of the unrestrained costumes, lovely bodies and playing going on. But we just took it all in and gradually explored the venue. Chatted to some great people and learned more. We ended up dancing for hours and flirted a little with some others. But on this particular night we were especially tuned into each other and didn't feel the need to take things further with other people. At 4am we left for home and had the most amazing sex we have ever had. We have chatted and debriefed and have decided that we definitely want to go to the next event. Really looking forward to it. Now that we know what to expect we will be more relaxed and open to the idea of taking things further next time. It was a truly wonderful night and we can not recommend it highly enough!
If you haven't been before, and are a bit overwhelmed by the idea, just book tickets and approach it like a night out clubbing with potential benefits.