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s_zilla
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 62
Straight Female, 57
0 km · New South Wales
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Warming the Bed
No one shoe as they say,
I have never "Cheated" on Pat but have had no need to because several years ago this came up and we talked about what we wanted.
Long story short I have had two "encounters" since and know that further "encounters" are ok with Pat. That may be why I am not so interested anymore and looking for that "fantasy/Special Body" rather than quantity. lol
Maybe that was his plan after all, deviously clever. :twisted:
Be Good
Lyn.
Warming the Bed
Thanks for the reply,
We are not available Sunday as heading to Syd Uni for the Rock n Roll markets at the manning building, then heading north for a family late lunch.
I have been to one of the meet and greets in the CBD at a hotel, but couldn't find anyone who was obviously from the site and as the place got busier we headed off to the Orient.
As for organising something myself, well not sure I am that confident as a relative beginner at this. lol.
Be Good
Lyn.
Warming the Bed
It was a while ago, just after the reno's from being a pub bar (I think).
We liked the place but a bit quiet, the vibe just wasn't there.
Been busy and away for a while and went looking on Google, found out it was gone.
I like to play occassionaly, but more often than not just want to have a fun time and end up going home with Pat. It is something special if I play. lol
There is nothing I can find anything like this, even tried PJ Gallaghers on Saturday night, music was terrible (BoomBoomBoom) and everyone was so smashed. Between the drink and the noise there was no way a decent "chat" could get underway. We left before midnight (very unlike us).
Oh well maybe its too much to ask these days of political correctness.
Be Good Everyone.
Lyn
Warming the Bed
Does anyone know of a nightclub/pub that is a good place to meet people.
I like the idea of a club like the Lotus Lounge where you can go to party on without the direct implication that you are willing to F%$# anyone who happens to ask.
I would like to be able to go, have a good time and have no-one expecting more than a dance and a chat.
Not to say I am not interested in more, I just want it to be 100% my decision with no expectations.
Am I asking too much. lol
Be Good
Lyn.
Warming the Bed
Hi,
I am with Haidee here, take it slow.
My partner sort of hinted (or maybe I just heard what I wanted) that she was wanting to broaden her experience and we discussed quite a few scenario's.
Finally agreed on what we would both be comfortable with and moved on.
Its been great for both of us but not something I would have entered into lightly, whilst then relationship was new and forming or do too often.
Done right its fantastic but being rushed or coercion on your part will potential lead to issues.
Buy her the 50 Shades of Grey book. lol
Watch a few "light" porn movies and most of all talk about it.
Be Good
Pat
Warming the Bed
Hi all,
Thanks for the feedback.
I am unsure about meet and greets only due to issues with discretion etc.
Also Pat doesnt join in although happy to meet to confirm no problems, he just has other interests and doesnt want to join in. I think he may be happy to watch though 
Anyway I am thinking tat the hotel with spa nearby is a great idea as is meeting in a public place (not too far from the spa).
I have a few emails from people who seem to be nice guys and have at least taken the time to read my profile. I think this may be the place to start, although I am worried that I will pick some jerk who is not being honest and that will put me off.
Anyway Thanks again and I will let you know how I go. Either way.
All the best Lyn.
Anyway I am thinking tat the hotel with spa nearby is a great idea as is meeting in a public place (not too far from the spa).
I have a few emails from people who seem to be nice guys and have at least taken the time to read my profile. I think this may be the place to start, although I am worried that I will pick some jerk who is not being honest and that will put me off.
Anyway Thanks again and I will let you know how I go. Either way.
All the best Lyn.
Warming the Bed
Hi all,
I have been on here a while now and received many responses, some from those who obviously cant read 
, many from guys I think would be interesting to meet 
. I am now in a position and with some time to make something happen and have few questions for those who have played before, especially other women.
1. How do you make any meeting as safe and secure as possible.
2. If not comfortable how soon should you make your feelings known and extricate yourself.
3. I am thinking of meeting for drinks/coffee for the first meet, although I will probably book a motel in case. lol
4. Any recommendations for what to wear, what to do, what not to do etc appreciated.
5. I have the support of Pat but would want to meet/play alone so discretion and security are important.
Any ideas are direction to "How To's", "swinging for Dummies" etc appreciated. lol
Anyway thanks in advance
Lyn.
P.s Don't respond with requests to meet, I have short listed already, I am really in need of advice and maybe a shot of Vodka to help calm my nerves.
, many from guys I think would be interesting to meet . I am now in a position and with some time to make something happen and have few questions for those who have played before, especially other women.
1. How do you make any meeting as safe and secure as possible.
2. If not comfortable how soon should you make your feelings known and extricate yourself.
3. I am thinking of meeting for drinks/coffee for the first meet, although I will probably book a motel in case. lol
4. Any recommendations for what to wear, what to do, what not to do etc appreciated.
5. I have the support of Pat but would want to meet/play alone so discretion and security are important.
Any ideas are direction to "How To's", "swinging for Dummies" etc appreciated. lol
Anyway thanks in advance
Lyn.
P.s Don't respond with requests to meet, I have short listed already, I am really in need of advice and maybe a shot of Vodka to help calm my nerves.