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surdy
18 hours ago
Bi-curious Male, 63
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Sexlightened
Hi Everyone,
The links still don't seem to be working. I am a keen voyeur and respectful dogger who would like to be included in this group
http://www.swingersheaven.com....
DOGGING SYDNEY
Sexlightened
Hi
Experienced 50 year old dogger visiting Melb. Looking to watch cpls / females play or join in whatever suits. Will be mobile so can meet any area, under the bridge, YB, along the ocean, Brighton. Very polite decent clean and D&D free, love to watch from close up or afar.
Do respond if anyone is game.
Cheers
Surdy
Sexlightened
I agree with everything GeelongCouple have said.
Too often people on this site take it upon themselves doubt and belittle other members without having a reason to do so.
I think DS or anyone for that matter should be taken at their word and not bullied and belittled even before an event.
Had they defaulted in the past or on the event they had posted some criticism could have been justified, but doubting them and their intentions BEFORE an event is just not on.
I am sorry I am not in Melb. otherwise I would definitely have attended.
Cheers
S
Sexlightened
Yup the frigging Camper Vans are ruining the place 
Isn't it against the law to camp there ???
Having said that, saw some action last week. A Chinese couple at around went to the lookout area and then with the help of a phone light further round the rock. I made my way to the top via the steps and after some difficulty located them. She first gave her guy a blow job and then they had a fuck. She was wearing a summery frock. Could not see all the action but enough for a wank ..LOL.
Isn't it against the law to camp there ???
Having said that, saw some action last week. A Chinese couple at around went to the lookout area and then with the help of a phone light further round the rock. I made my way to the top via the steps and after some difficulty located them. She first gave her guy a blow job and then they had a fuck. She was wearing a summery frock. Could not see all the action but enough for a wank ..LOL.
Sexlightened
Hi There,
If the couple in the white Camry, lady wearing the brown patterned dress, black bra ;) and the guy in the white shorts are on here I would like to say THANK YOU.
That was a great show you put on today in the bushes and I just loved it. I know you saw me looking but continued and I am assuming you liked being watched.
Drop me a line if you plan another outing and want a polite audience to watch from the distance.
Thanks again for the show today it was hotter than the weather 
Surdy
Surdy
Sexlightened
I am a keen voyeur / dogger and am going to be in Brissy tomorrow the 23rd. of Oct.
Thinking of checking out some dogging locations like Mount Cootha and Colmslie beach Reserve and would love to hear from Couples or Single Ladies that may want to be observed while they play
Staying at Kangaroo Point, but am mobile so could to travel to any location for an encounter.
Please PM suggestions if any.
Cheers
Staying at Kangaroo Point, but am mobile so could to travel to any location for an encounter.
Please PM suggestions if any.
Cheers
Sexlightened
Hi There,
I just saw your advert and thought I would just write and introduce myself.
I am a 50 year old guy living and working on the North Shore. I am of average built, with a 7" dick. am clean, D&D free, respectful and above all very discreet. I am also uni educated, run my own business and enjoy a good quality of life, but also have a kinky sexual side;) I am orally bi both giving and receiving only in a group situation, but do not do full penetrative sex with a male.
I am an experienced, swinger, dogger, avid voyeur and also a bull to two couples. I have been involved with the swinging lifestyle for over 15 years now, I love the life style and am up for most things. I am also know a number of swinging couples in the Hills area and North Shore, who regularly hold parties in their homes. I would love to attend your party and can introduce you to others as well.
I look forward to hearing from you and hopefully be invited to your party.
Cheers
Surdy
Sexlightened
Hi Jazz
As a long standing member of this site, I do agree with Mark.
Sometimes responses by some couples (and please note I say "some") to singles is always patronizing and holier than thou. That too can be construed as being offensive. I would like to see the site moderators also exercise "site etiquette" on couples that habitually harangue and showdown singles who have as much right to voice their thoughts, as couples and ladies.
Just my two cents worth !
Cheers
Surdy
Sexlightened
Hi Fellow Doggers,
I have been seething since yesterday after I witnessed some of the worst dogging behavior in my life and thought I should post this experience here for all to know.
To begin with I am a single male with 15 years plus of dogging experience, I am extremely polite and patient and have never been aggressive, which are the two main qualities of a dogger and quite a few cpls on this site and singles can vouch for that.
Well ladies and gentlemen I experienced exactly the opposite yesterday. I had an afternoon off and decided to visit various locations that are known to attarct couples around Sydney. I started with Lane Cove park at around with no luck, then onto Wentworth Common at Homebush Bay again with little luck. Onto SW bridge, lots of gay guys but not cpl action and finally onto BHR.
When I parked in BHR there was a car parked right next to me and it had darkened windows and I had no idea that there was a couple in the back. Anyway after I parked and took a phone call I saw some movement and noticed the cpl in the back seat.I looked away but decided to stay in the car and not walk out. Kept stealing glances and could discern some movement in the back. After about 10mins the back door sprung open and I thought they were leaving however, no one came out and when I stole a glance I saw the lady lying down with her head on the far rear door. I was still wondering what was going on when a Dude who was hanging around walked right up to the rear door. and stood there looking. I then realized that the guy had opened the door to give himself room to go down on the lady in the back seat. They knew I was in the car so obviously they did not mind me being there, however when this dude walked right up to the door and was staring at the action with his tongue hanging out the guy stopped and shut the door and that unfortunately was THAT 
They then stayed in the car for the next 45 mins or so, but I could not see much as the windows were darkened and my inconsiderate fellow dogger just drove away. spoiling it for me and the cpl concerned.
Anyway I decided to hang around and after driving down to get a coffee cam back at around and parked in the area closer to the toilets about 7 car spaces away from the toilet. There was already a car white Toyota Corolla Hatch parked in the space next to the toilet. 5 mins after I parked another car drove up and parked between the Corolla and my car closer to the Toyota then to me. However I could make out that there was a driver and someone in the back. As soon as the car stopped there was activity in the car and I could make out the person in the drivers seat reaching out for the person in the back. Another 5 mins later the driver got out and went to the back and I could see action start up in earnest. LO AND BEHOLD a guy who was in the WHITE TOYOTA COROLLA got out and came around to the back of the car with the cpl and started looking in. The cpl could see him but continued doing what they were doing.........and our "friend" IMMEDIATELY moved right up to the back window and started looking in whilst opening his fly. Activity still continued but then this dude decided he needed an even better look and got even closer, at which point the back door closer to me opened and an awesome looking gal jumped out and looked directly at this guy. After a few minutes she asked him if was alright and he said "yes but I thought you were dogging", to which the lady said what ??? and the guy repeated "dogging". The lady then said do you want to watch and he said yes !! to which the lady said no they were not then took a few steps back towards his car and started to slowly back away. The lady got back in the car and the activity started again. I could not believe my eyes when I saw this DUDE still hang around this time from a the other side of his car trying to look in :mad::borg::banghead: And then it got worse, another Dude who had been hanging around and had previously peered into my car joined this guy next to his WHITE TOYOTA COROLLA. I COULD NOT BELIEVE THIS WAS HAPPENING. This I guess was the last straw and both the guy and gal got out sat in the front and drove off.
WTF. I have never seen such foolish and ignorant people in my life. The couple obviously wanted an audience otherwise they would not have parked between two cars with blokes in them. They did not stop and the lady even politely told the dude to "Fuck Off". If only he had had the sense to quietly sit in his car and watch they would have put on a great show. I have seen that cpl there before and they don't mind an audience but obviously did not like aggressive behavior.
As soon as they left I got out and gave this guy a piece of my mind and told him to his face what an idiot he was. To which his response was "too bad I spoiled your evening". He kept mumbling and saying no I did not do this, but when I recanted the whole conversation and his actions and told him to learn something for the future and have some patience. His answer was "I will do what I want".
How friggin dumb can people be. Chances like this one come once in a blue moon and idiots like this have to not only spoil it for themselves and fellow doggers but more importantly for the couple, who may or may not ever come back again and I don't blame them.
Just so that everyone knows this idiot drives a WHITE TOYOTA COROLLA hatch back and supports a beard. If you see him please let him know what he did was unacceptable.
Frustrated
Surdy
They then stayed in the car for the next 45 mins or so, but I could not see much as the windows were darkened and my inconsiderate fellow dogger just drove away. spoiling it for me and the cpl concerned.
Anyway I decided to hang around and after driving down to get a coffee cam back at around and parked in the area closer to the toilets about 7 car spaces away from the toilet. There was already a car white Toyota Corolla Hatch parked in the space next to the toilet. 5 mins after I parked another car drove up and parked between the Corolla and my car closer to the Toyota then to me. However I could make out that there was a driver and someone in the back. As soon as the car stopped there was activity in the car and I could make out the person in the drivers seat reaching out for the person in the back. Another 5 mins later the driver got out and went to the back and I could see action start up in earnest. LO AND BEHOLD a guy who was in the WHITE TOYOTA COROLLA got out and came around to the back of the car with the cpl and started looking in. The cpl could see him but continued doing what they were doing.........and our "friend" IMMEDIATELY moved right up to the back window and started looking in whilst opening his fly. Activity still continued but then this dude decided he needed an even better look and got even closer, at which point the back door closer to me opened and an awesome looking gal jumped out and looked directly at this guy. After a few minutes she asked him if was alright and he said "yes but I thought you were dogging", to which the lady said what ??? and the guy repeated "dogging". The lady then said do you want to watch and he said yes !! to which the lady said no they were not then took a few steps back towards his car and started to slowly back away. The lady got back in the car and the activity started again. I could not believe my eyes when I saw this DUDE still hang around this time from a the other side of his car trying to look in :mad::borg::banghead: And then it got worse, another Dude who had been hanging around and had previously peered into my car joined this guy next to his WHITE TOYOTA COROLLA. I COULD NOT BELIEVE THIS WAS HAPPENING. This I guess was the last straw and both the guy and gal got out sat in the front and drove off.
WTF. I have never seen such foolish and ignorant people in my life. The couple obviously wanted an audience otherwise they would not have parked between two cars with blokes in them. They did not stop and the lady even politely told the dude to "Fuck Off". If only he had had the sense to quietly sit in his car and watch they would have put on a great show. I have seen that cpl there before and they don't mind an audience but obviously did not like aggressive behavior.
As soon as they left I got out and gave this guy a piece of my mind and told him to his face what an idiot he was. To which his response was "too bad I spoiled your evening". He kept mumbling and saying no I did not do this, but when I recanted the whole conversation and his actions and told him to learn something for the future and have some patience. His answer was "I will do what I want".
How friggin dumb can people be. Chances like this one come once in a blue moon and idiots like this have to not only spoil it for themselves and fellow doggers but more importantly for the couple, who may or may not ever come back again and I don't blame them.
Just so that everyone knows this idiot drives a WHITE TOYOTA COROLLA hatch back and supports a beard. If you see him please let him know what he did was unacceptable.
Frustrated
Surdy
Sexlightened
Hi Fellow Doggers,
I have been seething since yesterday after I witnessed some of the worst dogging behavior in my life and thought I should post this experience here for all to know.
To begin with I am a single male with 15 years plus of dogging experience, I am extremely polite and patient and have never been aggressive, which are the two main qualities of a dogger and quite a few cpls on this site and singles can vouch for that.
Well ladies and gentlemen I experienced exactly the opposite yesterday. I had an afternoon off and decided to visit various locations that are known to attarct couples around Sydney. I started with Lane Cove park at around with no luck, then onto Wentworth Common at Homebush Bay again with little luck. Onto SW bridge, lots of gay guys but not cpl action and finally onto BHR.
When I parked in BHR there was a car parked right next to me and it had darkened windows and I had no idea that there was a couple in the back. Anyway after I parked and took a phone call I saw some movement and noticed the cpl in the back seat.I looked away but decided to stay in the car and not walk out. Kept stealing glances and could discern some movement in the back. After about 10mins the back door sprung open and I thought they were leaving however, no one came out and when I stole a glance I saw the lady lying down with her head on the far rear door. I was still wondering what was going on when a Dude who was hanging around walked right up to the rear door. and stood there looking. I then realized that the guy had opened the door to give himself room to go down on the lady in the back seat. They knew I was in the car so obviously they did not mind me being there, however when this dude walked right up to the door and was staring at the action with his tongue hanging out the guy stopped and shut the door and that unfortunately was THAT
They then stayed in the car for the next 45 mins or so, but I could not see much as the windows were darkened and my inconsiderate fellow dogger just drove away. spoiling it for me and the cpl concerned.
Anyway I decided to hang around and after driving down to get a coffee cam back at around and parked in the area closer to the toilets about 7 car spaces away from the toilet. There was already a car white Toyota Corolla Hatch parked in the space next to the toilet. 5 mins after I parked another car drove up and parked between the Corolla and my car closer to the Toyota then to me. However I could make out that there was a driver and someone in the back. As soon as the car stopped there was activity in the car and I could make out the person in the drivers seat reaching out for the person in the back. Another 5 mins later the driver got out and went to the back and I could see action start up in earnest. LO AND BEHOLD a guy who was in the WHITE TOYOTA COROLLA got out and came around to the back of the car with the cpl and started looking in. The cpl could see him but continued doing what they were doing.........and our "friend" IMMEDIATELY moved right up to the back window and started looking in whilst opening his fly. Activity still continued but then this dude decided he needed an even better look and got even closer, at which point the back door closer to me opened and an awesome looking gal jumped out and looked directly at this guy. After a few minutes she asked him if was alright and he said "yes but I thought you were dogging", to which the lady said what ??? and the guy repeated "dogging". The lady then said do you want to watch and he said yes !! to which the lady said no they were not then took a few steps back towards his car and started to slowly back away. The lady got back in the car and the activity started again. I could not believe my eyes when I saw this DUDE still hang around this time from a the other side of his car trying to look in :mad::borg::banghead: And then it got worse, another Dude who had been hanging around and had previously peered into my car joined this guy next to his WHITE TOYOTA COROLLA. I COULD NOT BELIEVE THIS WAS HAPPENING. This I guess was the last straw and both the guy and gal got out sat in the front and drove off.
WTF. I have never seen such foolish and ignorant people in my life. The couple obviously wanted an audience otherwise they would not have parked between two cars with blokes in them. They did not stop and the lady even politely told the dude to "Fuck Off". If only he had had the sense to quietly sit in his car and watch they would have put on a great show. I have seen that cpl there before and they don't mind an audience but obviously did not like aggressive behavior.
As soon as they left I got out and gave this guy a piece of my mind and told him to his face what an idiot he was. To which his response was "too bad I spoiled your evening". He kept mumbling and saying no I did not do this, but when I recanted the whole conversation and his actions and told him to learn something for the future and have some patience. His answer was "I will do what I want".
How friggin dumb can people be. Chances like this one come once in a blue moon and idiots like this have to not only spoil it for themselves and fellow doggers but more importantly for the couple, who may or may not ever come back again and I don't blame them.
Just so that everyone knows this idiot drives a WHITE TOYOTA COROLLA hatch back and supports a beard. If you see him please let him know what he did was unacceptable.
Frustrated
Surdy
They then stayed in the car for the next 45 mins or so, but I could not see much as the windows were darkened and my inconsiderate fellow dogger just drove away. spoiling it for me and the cpl concerned.
Anyway I decided to hang around and after driving down to get a coffee cam back at around and parked in the area closer to the toilets about 7 car spaces away from the toilet. There was already a car white Toyota Corolla Hatch parked in the space next to the toilet. 5 mins after I parked another car drove up and parked between the Corolla and my car closer to the Toyota then to me. However I could make out that there was a driver and someone in the back. As soon as the car stopped there was activity in the car and I could make out the person in the drivers seat reaching out for the person in the back. Another 5 mins later the driver got out and went to the back and I could see action start up in earnest. LO AND BEHOLD a guy who was in the WHITE TOYOTA COROLLA got out and came around to the back of the car with the cpl and started looking in. The cpl could see him but continued doing what they were doing.........and our "friend" IMMEDIATELY moved right up to the back window and started looking in whilst opening his fly. Activity still continued but then this dude decided he needed an even better look and got even closer, at which point the back door closer to me opened and an awesome looking gal jumped out and looked directly at this guy. After a few minutes she asked him if was alright and he said "yes but I thought you were dogging", to which the lady said what ??? and the guy repeated "dogging". The lady then said do you want to watch and he said yes !! to which the lady said no they were not then took a few steps back towards his car and started to slowly back away. The lady got back in the car and the activity started again. I could not believe my eyes when I saw this DUDE still hang around this time from a the other side of his car trying to look in :mad::borg::banghead: And then it got worse, another Dude who had been hanging around and had previously peered into my car joined this guy next to his WHITE TOYOTA COROLLA. I COULD NOT BELIEVE THIS WAS HAPPENING. This I guess was the last straw and both the guy and gal got out sat in the front and drove off.
WTF. I have never seen such foolish and ignorant people in my life. The couple obviously wanted an audience otherwise they would not have parked between two cars with blokes in them. They did not stop and the lady even politely told the dude to "Fuck Off". If only he had had the sense to quietly sit in his car and watch they would have put on a great show. I have seen that cpl there before and they don't mind an audience but obviously did not like aggressive behavior.
As soon as they left I got out and gave this guy a piece of my mind and told him to his face what an idiot he was. To which his response was "too bad I spoiled your evening". He kept mumbling and saying no I did not do this, but when I recanted the whole conversation and his actions and told him to learn something for the future and have some patience. His answer was "I will do what I want".
How friggin dumb can people be. Chances like this one come once in a blue moon and idiots like this have to not only spoil it for themselves and fellow doggers but more importantly for the couple, who may or may not ever come back again and I don't blame them.
Just so that everyone knows this idiot drives a WHITE TOYOTA COROLLA hatch back and supports a beard. If you see him please let him know what he did was unacceptable.
Frustrated
Surdy
Sexlightened
There was a Logo that was designed by someone in Melbourne about 5 years ago. They even had magnetic stickers made and send them out for $10 per pair.
Because it was magnetized one could stick it on the door when one was out "dogging" and take it off at other times.
I had a pair and can look for it.
Cheers
Surdy
