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Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 49
0 km · New South Wales

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I have got a new thing for dominating women. Oh yeah dominatrix. She can put nails through my hands and feet. ( jesus fetish) She can then kick on my balls with her legs and later with a baseball bat or something. Then she can pluck my genital hairs one by one. Imagine the pleasure!! Ahhh I'm gonna cum right now!! pluck baby, pluck!!!!!
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I dont understand how some people have such perverted fantasies. You should be very careful with people who extreme fantasies involving pain. Those are the ones waiting to explode to become a serial killer or something.
I don't think expressing your sexuality in extreme ways is a sign that they are serial killers. Not at all. I have some rather twisted fantasies. That doesn't mean I'm want to kill someone. People are different bro. We are all unique and it's very hard to see things from another person's point of view.
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Life like robots? Oh man! exciting. Splendors of the modern world. I hear Japanese loves all kinds of sex toys. Can i place my order at amazon? I wouldn't mind having something under my control that will do everything I say and provide me with sex whenever I want. Oh wait a minute. That's what women are for. :grin:
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Rape fantasy, I like your list. Those are fun. Go for it man! Here are mine. It's not well thought out. It should give you an idea though. - Act in a porn movie - Have sex with my neighbours wife. - Have sex in the public - Have sex with Naomi Watts.
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That's got to be some kind of urban myth man. I'm better at cooking. What do these silly girls know! I cook and eat like a king! And you can bet your ass I can give a good head too. I'm sure I can give myself blowjobs too but I haven't tried that. :grin:
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Last week I read something on this magazine saying about how the risk of disease for people engaging in group sex are increased by over 80%. That is a huge number indeed. Even though I have been in gangbangs before I don't do it anymore. I was young and stupid back then. I have seen first hand what diseases can do. So safety first.
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It's something I have noticed over the years. I don't think it's due to the midlife crisis or anything. But by that time you would be settled, your kids would be grown up. And now you can focus on yourself and they just want to spice things up. You know, trying out things before life fades away.
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I had sex once on a concert itself. I mean it was perfect. There were people all around us but they were our cover. I don't think anybody noticed at all. Ahh those were the times man! Other than that, It's all strictly within four walls. I wouldn't mind trying it out again if anybody wants to volunteer.
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Why are you guys so ashamed to tell? If this is something you enjoy greatly, don't you think the logical thing to do is to your bring your friends in too? We must make ourselves strong people! Increase our numbers. We are a minority now. We need to conquer this planet. So by all means tell everyone. Bring them in..bring them all to me. yes!
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Well, when you have known a couple for long periods of time..It's hard to just drop them and move on. I know what you are talking about. I have been with certian couples for so long that they eventually become sort of boring. But by this time they are your friends too and it's hard. I tell them though. Most of them have continued to be my friends but soon the number of calls get decreased and soon they just fade away.
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I don't know if there are any risks involved but better safe than sorry.
There are lots of risks involved. Most STDs are transmitted through the exchange of bodily fluids. This includes your saliva too. Bummer for kissing!! There are diseases that can be tranmistted through your skin too.
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But she is my gf and I wouldn't want anybody else messing with her.
So you are saying that if I accidently bumped into your g/f and I accidently took her dinner and we accidently happen to have sex - you would be upset? come on man! You can't blame people for accidents. These things happen. The important thing is that you move on and keep ignoring the fact that she visits me every weekend. :grin:
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To my great surprise, I found lot of people last week who haven't used condoms in over 10 years. They certainly don't have any disease! So that re-assures my belief that STDs are a govt progoganda! They are jealous of us having sex all the time. So don't give in to these fears people. Have sex. all day. all the time.
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Thanks for replying fellows. Good to see things from men's point of view. So most of the guys prefer real ones over fake ones. What is it that compels women to have breast implants? Does it give them some kind of feel-good feeling? I'm utterly confused!
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Believe it or not, It is indeed possible for people to get bored with sex. There was this couple here who was very active in the lifestlye. After about 5 years they suddenly quit which surprised a great many people. I guess after a while, there really isn't nothing new to do. After all there are only 3 holes people!
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The risk of diseases is very real. Condom won't protect you from STD's. The only way to protect yourself from sexuall transmitted diseases is to stop having sex with anyone other than your partner. I don't think anybody here is willing to do that. I know people who have been infected who have always used condoms. I don't think anyone is ignorant of STDs but people are indeed ignorant in the sense that they think everything will be alright when you wear a condom.
What else are we supposed to do? Stop having sex? That is not an option. If condoms can't protect us from diseases, I really don't know what to say. We are the so called advanced species in this world. Why can't we come up with a better solution to diseases? It's a conspiracy man! They don't want us to have enough sex that's why they don't bother about finding cures for STDs.
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Cold sores are indeed a form on herpes virus but not the same kind. Cold sores appear above the waistline. Yes, there are no known cures but I think it goes away after a while. I thought I was immune to them but I had them couple of years ago. It can be transmitted through kissing. It can stay dormant for years before it starts showing symptoms. So somebody you kissed years ago had this virus and you gladly recieved it.
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On the contrary, It is very safe to have sex while your are pregnant. I know people who have been doing so and there is nothing wrong. I myself may have a little pregnant fetish. I just haven't found one yet. I don't the movement would affect the baby in any way. Don't let a little thing like being pregnant get in your way of having sex.
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It sounds like a nice enough idea but I don't think I would let my thing in a hole not knowing who or what is on the other end. Who knows what kind of disease they may have? What if they bite you!! I have cold sores now and I have no idea how i got them. Trus me, diseases are not fun.
Coldsores? eww that's hepes virus man! As for not knowing who is on the other end - that is the point of gloryholes in the first place. You can avoid biting and other such problems by going to private parties among the people you know. You can easily set up one or two booths. You should try it man! Don't forget to add pictures about the whole thing. ;)
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Don't listen to these people daylight. Size does matter. If they are saying otherwise it means they dont have a big one. It's lilke those people without money saying money can't buy happiness. If you are having a really small guy down there..my suggestion would be to go to surgery. The got operations where they sew two juniors together! Goodluck amigo.
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I hear about all these men wanting to get their partners into swinging..me on the otherhand is very lucky. It was my girlfriend that got me into swinging. I was not sure at first. But once you taste the poison, there's no going back! I don't know how to make women agree to swinging but all my girl had to do was to take me to a club. :grin:
Lucky guy! I wish every girl in this planet were as sensible as your g/f. How old is she? Can you put up a picture of her on profile? I see you are in the sydney area. madhgrin: She is a model for what women are supposed to be. I would like to get to know her. ;)
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ok daylight, Listen carefully. There is only solution to your problem. You need someone who is really experienced to take you under their wing. Luckily for you I'm here. Before going to clubs and putting out ads..It is essential that your wife must be groomed to the swinging scene. I conduct classes and I would gladly take you wife in. Send her to me for a week and feel the difference.. :grin:
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wrong! wrong! The idea of swinging is to get away from the normal standards of the world. You can't set rules here. You are here to break all the rules. By all means, do just that. Try out everything. If it involves lot of pain and metal spikes..don't forget to call me.
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You are the first person in the history of the world that said cleaning is fun! I invite them to my home usually during some special occassions. They would stay while everyone leaves. This way no questions asked by these sneaky neighbours. People just don't know how to mind their own business, they always have some questions.
How can you honestly trust strangers with your house? For all you know they could strangle you while you are sleeping and leave everything. It's a perfect opportunity for them. Pretend as a swinging couple and tada!..easy access to homes.
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For me personally I would choose brains. I would choose beauty for my woman. I mean, come on! What are women going to do with brains anyway! They certainly don't seems to use the one's they already have. Yes! Let the world be full of dumb sexy looking vixens. I chose brains for me so that I can lure women with being the smarty.
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In my experience, it does. Before getting into swinging..when I saw a beautiful girl, I would think about her body, her curves, how she walks and all that. Now when i see a lovely girl, I would think about whether I should throatfuck her or assfuck her. Before it was all thoughts and now it's all action. So I would say swinging definitely makes you like sex more.
Before and after joining the lifestyle..I would always look at women and think about how I would screw that fine piece of ass. It hasn't changed one bit. I couldn't believe that people actually listens to women. I thought they were here just to satisfy my biological needs.
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Would you like it if someone forced you to do something that you didnt like? I have seen a lot of guys destroying their marriage over this. Not everybody is open minded about sex and you should respect your wife's feelings. The best thing you can do is to take her to clubs and help her get an idea. That's what my girl did to me.
If they are forcing me to have sex. hell yeah! I would like it. You are right about the open minded thing though. To properly function in the swinging world, your women not only needs open minds but also open legs :grin:
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How many times do I have to tell this people! The best thing for you to do as the first step is to call me. ( If you are in sydney that is ) If you happened to be those misfortuned ones who are outside sydney. Don't worry. I will be conducting monthly visits all across the continent. Consider yourself fortunate.
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What are you talking about? I don't see colors in a girl. I look at a female specimen and all I can see is two breats and a pussy. Is there anything else there??? Oh yeah, sometimes I do notice the armpits and buttery lips.
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Ok, here's one for the ladies. As for me I don't like the idea at all..the head of my penis becomes super sensitive immediately following orgasm, and continuing to have it sucked on is enough to curl my toes and rattle my teeth all at once. But this is not about me.. What do you ladies prefer?