Why You Suck as a Bull

I think it’s a stretch to call yourself a bull if you play with a couple one time and they never call you again. Now, it could be that the couple tried cuckolding as an experiment but it’s not something they are interested in trying again. More than likely though, if you didn’t immediately get a text scheduling the next play date, the problem is you and not them.

The most common mistake Bulls make is that they honestly believe it’s all about them. Seems reasonable right? Like you are a big cock action hero coming to save the day? Wrong. No matter how endowed or dominate you are, the wife is always the star of the show. If you lose focus of this you most definitely will suck as a bull. You are not Han Solo. You are Darth Vader at best.

In your little bit of screen time, play the part as best you can. Now, I’m not telling you to be a pussy. A bull has to love taking charge but do it without being an asshole. Another mistake is that at the first opportunity, you break the couples rules. Now, there will generally only be a handful of rules so for God sakes, stick to them. This should be simple but some guys just can’t wait to go out of bounds.

I hate to use this analogy but you are getting the milk for free without buying the cow just follow the fucking rules! If they don’t want pictures then no pictures. If she doesn’t do anal then no anal. If she doesn’t want to be called a slut then don’t you dare say it. The next mistake is that you really didn’t want to do cuckolding in the first place, you just wanted some pussy.

If you lied to the couple about your intentions just to get into the wife’s panties it will be pretty obvious. Cuckolding isn’t for everyone but some “wanna be” bulls will knowingly waste a couples time knowing that they can’t or won’t interact with a cuck. If you can’t handle a husband watching or if you are not dominate enough to control things in the bedroom with two other grown ups, then this lifestyle may not be a good fit for you. Lastly, be genuine.

A lot of trust is required for this to work so I always try to look at things from the couples’ perspective. If they can’t really trust you because you lie about any and everything, or you constantly flake out on them, they won’t be able to build a long term relationship with you. To recap: respect, rules, embrace your role and tell the truth.