Hi all
Has anyone been to the Sunday afternoon BBQ at Diversionz? Do may people go?
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Jamicp
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Male, 52
Bi-curious Female, 56
0 km · Queensland
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Quote by Haidee
actually jamiecp, I think you were right on. And this isn't a sex site. Its a swinging site, there is a subtle difference. This is not a site for single guys to come and get gratiutous sex, just for showing up. That would be a brothel and they would have to bring money. In real life, personality and sanity matter
Truth is, I think what I said applies to everyone, guys, girls, couples and even to a brothel when you take money.
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I didn't mean it as a 'full on lecture'. My intentions were to share what I believe. Obviously, his was not working. If he didn't want to get laid then........ More women for the guys that understand you have to put the same effort to meet people as if you were in a bar or nightclub. Oh well, I am still getting some 
Actually we both are!
Actually we both are!
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There have been many many threads about how difficult it is for single guys. They say you need to put effort into you profile, some photos that represent your personality and to build friendships in chat that don't always start with 'Do you wanna root?'.
If you do that you we lift yourself above the other single guys. Below that are the guys don't put any effort in and think all women will just sleep with the cause you want to see their tits. Beneath that then there is you. You have chosen the hardest group of single guys there is. I am not saying it is impossible but I don't like the odds you have chosen for yourself. At least you are honest enough not to try and conceal the fact you are Married.
To get yourself a nice woman. Have you thought of starting with your wife? Find the feeling you had when you first met her? Then there is no need to cheat. Failing that then another option is to tell her the truth. Tell her you have a higher sex drive than hers and you need to talk to together about how to resolve the issue mutually.
The last step is to leave her. This way you can then be a standout single guy and increase your chances. I know it is not always that simple but it is amazing what happens if you express the truth about your needs and wants.
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You are right Ageelong
The first common courtesy is to read a profile and to see if you fit that profile. Is it rude for us not to respond if, as you can see, we tell you we will not respond? You would be amazed how many people don't read. You may could be a great bloke that is being punished by the bad behaviour of other single men.
At first, that no-reply condition was not there. We replied to every message. Thanks but no thanks was responded to with from anything from begging to abuse. It wears thin after a while and you are forced to add a no-reply condition.
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Quote by mrandmrsramjet
There is no difference between running a web site or doing car repairs.
I have to point out that you have made an incorrect assumption with your point. Although I believe there have been errors made by the Swingers Heaven management. The errors are actually in the form of Lack of communication rather than technical.
You state that there is no difference between running a website and doing car repairs. In a way there is some truth to this but your scope of the big picture is very limited with this analogy. Imagine that that the issue was not with your but a problem with the fuel you are putting into your car. Yes, you can empty your tank and refill but you may have to wait for 5 days for the delivery of the clean fuel or make the decision to keep using the bad fuel until there is a replacement.
The Internet is interconnected by its very nature and the issue may be else where. To continue with the car analogy, the car could be fine but the roads have pot holes it them, other drivers may block your path, or not let you merge. It may also be a fact that the car is in at the mechanics but he has to wait five days for the correct part to arrive from overseas (and you expecting the car to work without this part). Given that it was Sunday in Los Angeles (this is were the SH servers are located), it is easy to assume they are waiting on parts or a senior engineer.
I would like to thank Rose as she seem to be facing the storm with this issue and she has done her very best with little information given to her.
To the management of SH: Some customer service emails stating that the issue can not be fixed until ##/##/#### would have been great (and still could be). This would of gone a long way to aligning our expectations and limited the negative emotion that seems to be around.
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Quote by Marksman
How typical. Im starting to find how many single guys here fail to understand the rules here. How stupid can one be? This type of stupidity makes it very hard for other courteous single guys here. Just read and appreciate what others are asking and think before you reply guys. Helps making it easier for the rest of us.
I think it does the opposite Marksman. It makes the people that do actually read a profile or comment stand out.
Sad to say it is in all aspects of life from Work to Sex. Some people are just assholes, they always have and always will be.
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Quote by FrankMelbCBD
Your profile says you 'accept nothing less than perfect', yet you are an extremely obese woman? Talk about OXYMORON!!!
This quote has been annoying me since you posted it Frank. I have to point out that 1. That is not what Rose's profile states. If you read it correctly it is 'Will accept nothing less then purfect'. Notice the intentional spelling of perfect. It is a play on words. and 2. By saying that this is an oxymoron, you are stating that larger people are not perfect. Not only do you risk offending many people, you come off as a bully that resorts to name calling. You forget that 'perfect' is different for everyone.
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We get the same issues. Using both Chrome and Firefox. Both Java and flash are current. Friends chat is very hit and miss.
Quote by Infinite_Sky
do you have flash and java fully updated?
and yes there has been some lag issues which they have been working on. I can tell you now that hvaing the above fully updated and working well you have less issues.
What browser are you using out of interests sake?
