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I'm genuinely surprised with the vote results.
When you realise humanity is a dead end, the only way out is to stop being human.
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The_Last_76
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Male, 36
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The most I've ever seen someone claim they'd cum was in the low 100s. She always said she was multi-orgasmic and could make herself cum quite easily just by clenching her thighs. She enjoyed herself, but I'd always had my doubts - I mean, it's barely something I can wrap my mind around.
The most I've ever seen someone cum that I believed was 13 from an all-day party.
When you realise humanity is a dead end, the only way out is to stop being human.
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If I had read this earlier, I would have loved to come along.
Definately love to hear how it turns out, though.
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Hey, Bob.
I think this is the incorrect 'your' that was being referenced.
Well done Alby, your the only one who actually checked to see if I was throwing in any inaccuracies!
I think this is the incorrect 'your' that was being referenced.
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I love them. They're like little reminders of what I got up to the other night.
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I am fairly confident that nobody wants to see me shaking my scrawny butt in mood lighting with '80s rock flooding the speakers.
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Red Dragon, Silence of the Lambs and Hannibal - I liked the movies as well but the books are great.
Honestly, I think Hannibal and Hannibal Rising spoiled Lector for me as a character. Red Dragon was a great watch, but Hannibal felt like simply a gore-fest - more reminiscent of the video nasties of the '80s. And Hannibal Rising was just an unnecessary prequel. The character of Hannibal in Hannibal Rising is less interesting than the character he would eventually become.
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this machine we can not share its a secret , sorry
Probably for the best. The last thing we need is an army of time-travelling swingers.
Rome would never be the same.
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Fav: So many good books, but I think for pure enjoyment and being able to go back and read it multiple times it would have to be silence of the lambs.
I'm actually a little shocked to find that there is a Silence of the Lambs novel. I've always found the movie to be quite entertaining, I never stopped to wonder if it was based off of a book. I know what my next read is going to be.
Least: Not to sound like everyone else, but it honestly has to be twilight. I tried reading it but could not get past 2 chapters. I don't know if it was the version my friend gave me or what, but there was just simply too many simple spelling errors to annoy me. That stuff should not make it past editing.
Just out of curiousity, but were the spelling errors due to Americanised English (eg - Color rather than Colour)?
I tried reading through the Twilight series once, but gave up when I realised that Ms. Stephanie Meyer could not commit to her own in-universe rules on how everything worked. I don't understand what draws people to the book, but the end result is still the same - a practical legion of dedicated fans.
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I'm fairly sure I'd pull a Gamebreaker and try and get myself in every famous photograph in history.
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the internet makes it a hell of a lot easier to meet likeminded people and not be as segregated as we once were.
I was once on the receiving end of a quotable-quote from a friend many years ago.
He said; "The Internet is a marvelous thing, capable of bringing together deviants from all corners of the world. If you type in 'Find me people who enjoy having sex with goats that are on fire', it will come back with 'Specify type of goat'.
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you're post orgasmic glow gets replaced by a checklist and feedback - boo!
everyone likes different things - to trick is to be able to guess or guage before or during the act what works and what doesnt.
not after
I suppose I could have worded my paragraph better, but by 'after the festivities' I mean WELL after. When we're sitting around having a drink and laughing at the fact that Hey Hey It's Saturday is now shown on Wednesdays.
Being able to adapt to your partner is an important aspect of sex, and should not be overlooked. What is troubling me is a lack of negative feedback - without which I am left to my own instincts on how to best satisfy my partner. I've even tried looking at it from a scientific standpoint by deliberately giving a sub-par performance with a regular playmate and then asking for her opinion - still to no avail.
I'm afraid I'm falling into 'Too nice to be mean to' territory.
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One of the longest running fantasies I've had, that I have yet to fulfill, is being seduced and dominated by a women wearing nothing but blue body paint - her entire body a work of art, and me the only audience.
Just one of those thoughts that keep running through my noggin', I suppose.
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Last I heard, Stilletto's runs a day party on Friday of every week.
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Has anyone ever been to a Stiletto's House Party?
I am quite curious as to what they are like.
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I like controlled hair. I don't care if it's waxed bare or just neatly trimmed, as long as she's obviously making an effort to keep everything in order, then I am happy.
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The Queen is not there to represent the political head of the Commonwealth. The Queen, and Monarchy by modern definition, is there to protect the spirit of the people. They represent our origins. How, under a common lord, they spread out across the globe and populated, conquered and controlled.
As a people our spirit has gone untried in modern times, but come the next crisis of faith that threatens us as a society and I assure you it'll be the Queen and not the PM who you want tell you it will be okay.
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Health and Human Relations Teacher.
In hindsight, the situation reads like a porn script, but the situation isn't what made it weird.
It was the noises she made.
I'm used to a lot of different sounds women make when they're enjoying themselves now, but at the time it was a new one.
Full on, animalistic grunting.
It didn't bother me so much in the act, but looking back it was quite off putting on the memory as a whole. Like I was fucking a cave-woman.
In hindsight, the situation reads like a porn script, but the situation isn't what made it weird.
It was the noises she made.
I'm used to a lot of different sounds women make when they're enjoying themselves now, but at the time it was a new one.
Full on, animalistic grunting.
It didn't bother me so much in the act, but looking back it was quite off putting on the memory as a whole. Like I was fucking a cave-woman.
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I was sixteen, with my girlfriend at the time. After nearly a year of courting her she expressed her desire to 'take the next step'. It was bumbling, awkward and one of my fondest memories of the time I spent with her.
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Strip Spin The Bottle is always a good way to get the fun started. A few adult-themed board games can have the same effect. Strip monopoly is a great one.
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I'm twenty-two, and I have been swinging for the last four years. I kind of fell into the scene, but I've converted a few of my closest friends into swingers through exposure.
I've never had an issue with playing with older partners. In fact I enjoy a bit of maturity in those I swing with. But I have noticed that I am seen as a second-class player, simply for the fact that I am young. Add to that my single male status at most parties I attend (unless one of my friends is accompanying me that night) and I am effectively reduced to scenery. I am shallow enough to acknowledge that some women, and men, do 'check me out' at parties, but I am rarely approached.
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Arousal, first and foremost.
Not just physical, mind you, but any form of arousal. I look for people who I find engaging in one form or another.
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I have, on occasion, been filmed while playing with my partners. It's not something I actively seek out, but I certainly understand the allure. Imagining oneself as a porn star, your actions being lusted over by your many fans? It's quite a powerful aphrodisiac if you let yourself succumb to it.
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I am the first to admit, with no hint of remorse or pity, that I fit quite snugly into the cliché definition of a 'Nerd'. I read more than most, write fantasy and science fiction novella, enjoy esoteric works and play obscure games with other equally-odd minded friends.
One of the things I do is Roleplay.
Dice and Doritos.
Pen and Paper.
Dungeons and Dragons.
It's been a hobby I've held and sustained longer than I've been a swinger, and after a recent session of mental excursion a question entered my mind;
"How far do you take your roleplaying?"
In the lustful atmosphere of a heated encounter, I'm not a stranger to playing the part of an enamoured stranger, or a punishing headmaster but all too often these sexual games end when our libidos are satisfied. We play at being little more than stereotypes, and we leave it at nothing less than a veil of fantasy.
But I wanted to know if anyone took it a step further than this. If, perhaps, some couples or swingers enjoyed completely BEING new and different characters when they fucked. Has anyone, for example, ever spent a weekend at a heritage cottage, pretending to live the life of an Edwardian noble taking advantage of their personal steward whilst they were out in the country side? Has anyone ever gone camping with their partner and played at being kidnapper and victim?
How far do you swingers take your roleplaying?
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I have adopted, of late, a habit that I'm sure I share with many men and women here.
When I have the privilege or good fortune to enjoy casual sex with a newly made friend, I like to - after the festivities have come to a satisfactory conclusion - ask my partner(s) if they have any questions, comments or suggestions. I am not adverse, afterall, to being told my flaws and striving to work on them, or learning of any positive qualities that I may want to highlight next time.
However, I've come across a reoccurring problem and one I am struggling to overcome.
Friendliness and bias.
It is a tendency that the sort of people I play with, are also the sort of people who don't want to hurt others feelings. In place of the brutally honest critique I was hoping for, I too often get an 'Oh, you were great'. I know it is not simply attempts to shirk the subject, but I can not for the life of me figure out how to convince them to be painfully direct and honest.
How do you swingers ensure they get an honest answer to a direct question when it comes to discussing your sexual performance? Are you the type of person who would honey coat their answers to keep from hurting feelings?
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Just a curious thought that started running through my mind; What sort of novels do swingers normally read? It occurred to me that this is typically a site for the sexually extroverted, or at least the sexually accepting. I wonder if that would be reflected in the books we read?
Favourite Book: 'The Man Who Folded Himself'
Least Favourite Book: Tie between '1984' and 'The Stand'.
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What is the general consensus on single mothers? Is being a mother a turn off? Do they think and play differently now that they have kids of their own?
I, for one, have never had any problem with the thought of any of my partners being parents - but I know that such thoughts do exist.
What is your opinion?
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Recently I caught up with a friend of mine. One thing lead to another and we ended up fooling around. It had been a bit of a while for both of us, so we really ended up tearing into each other. So much so that she had to go get herself checked up and told, by a stern faced and matronly doctor, that she had torn a muscle and had to let the flesh heal. No masturbation or sex for a month.
When I was told this, I fell off my chair laughing. I hurt my side. I have a bruise there now.
She doesn't regret the rough sex, but does wish she hadn't hurt herself.
Should I feel guilty for the pain I've caused, or is laughing really the best medicine?
