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Good questions and I have been thinking similarly on one point. I don't really fully understand the singles aspect of this site (or scene if is normally a part?) either and it doesn't really fit with what I expected/knew swinging to be. I can see why singles would want to have casual sex (why wouldn't they) and I know and understand why couples may be interested in singles to join them for fun..but I reckon for singles it seems it would be a more normal path to just go through usual dating/hook-up sort of websites, hook up with people out on the town, singles nights or whatever or even attend a brothel for sex. Unless for singles it is actually the couples aspect that is appealing? Or if bi-sexual/curious they may want to experience both sexes at once? which might not be an easy option through any of those means mentioned. Or is it that the other means outside of the swinging scene involve too much possible commitment and it is all about the "casual" part?
I don't mean in any judgmental way toward singles, I/we have chatted to some very nice ones on here and I probably just don't understand hence I'm asking, ..but if you're just looking to root people as a single strait person does that really still fit under heading of being a swinger? 'Cause if it does then just about every single mate I have had for the past 15-20 years is a keen swinger (but never heard them refereed to as such).
