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piratewitch
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 57
Straight Female
0 km · New South Wales
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I used to work for a party plan toy compnay - and would get the clients to try the vibe on the tip of thier nose...it gives a pretty good indication of how powerful it will be in all the senstive spots. Having said that - I have a little black thing that is a rip snorer....but goes through batteries soooo quickly I don't use it anymore. I just have a twnety dollar bullet thing - cheap and nasty - just the way I like it! Have given it a fair hiding over the last 6 months, and still going strong.
Used to love the Dolphin...but they only lasted about 12 months, and at $120 or so, I thought it a bit rich.
Off to check out the Eroscillator right now 
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Will do...though it probably won't be till after the children leave home!
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The art factor is what creates the erotica.....without art, it's just porn. Good luck with it Shane - I hope you get loads of practise
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GandG...
My last trip to an S&S was about eleven years ago! Moved well interestate, so it is just not an option - but by golly - if I get back to Vic and one is on...LOOK OUT!!!!
Unfortunately, Utopia is having its last party this weekend. It has been closed down due to noise complaints - tho none of us can really work out why. The owners have fought long and hard, but all good things come to an end eventually. We went last weekend cos we can't make it this weekend - and we will have a quiet toast Saturday night to the fantstic hosts, staff and friends we made there.
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I love love love Saints and Sinners!!!! Used to go fairly often when I lived in Vic....I wish we were closer - I would die to see the look on my new partner's face when he walked in. We go to Utopia - and it's a lot like that, but more about the music and less about the conversation.
I used to love the fact that it was not full of teenyboppers looking and judgin me - people of all shapes, sizes and ages there....like a nightclub in naughty fancy dress. I never swung there - exactly - but I did get tied up and whipped - which I didn't mind, but I wasn't so into the hot candle wax dripping down my back!. They hire professional people, so everything is done with safe words etc.
And the 'No means no' rule was always enforced. Saint Brian and his security folk were very good with that.
I saw some of the most amazing things ever there...two that spring to mind are two beautiful girls on the bar eating each other out, and a chick on the pool table with guys lined up for her. Too much fun.
Go with no expectations and you will have a blast.
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Because we like it! I am bi....and my partner is a guy, so he can't provide the same frilly bits for me. He loves to watch me with another woman - so it all works out beautifully for us.
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Communication is key! And honesty...don't do it if you think - even for a heart beat - that it will hurt your partner. Swinging has many different levels - it is NOT a license to cheat on your partner.
Boundaries need to be set....talk about what is expected from each of you if and when an opportunity arises when you are not together...like this one. Your partner took a big risk, kingcab....and she isn't alone. Many people make mistakes early in the swinging lifestyl, if they haven't done the ground work. You can get thru it - just be sure to TALK about it...and make sure the rules are very clear. Rules you set together.
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Hey QriUs
Someone else said it before - it's about the chemistry. If somebody turns you on....they turn you on. And it's a combination of factors...smile, sense of humour, a twinkle in their eye....but we all have personal preferences even if we haven't identified them.
If you have photos of yourself on your profile, there can be no mistaking your size. But it's not until you meet someone that you will know if the entire package is somewhere you want to go.
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Danger, danger Will Robinson!!!!!
I hope someone else comes up with answers for you two - cos I certainly don't have one that you are going to like. I think if your sexual needs are so different it will be extremely difficult maintaining a healthy relationship that has any respect in it.
Tyler...when two people have such different views on sexuality and what it means for them, things are tough. Obviously you are in love with this woman. Her swinging may not be at all related to 'love' as you see it....for many of us, sex is only an intimate act when we are with our primary partner. Sex with others is purely recreational. It means nothing...except physical gratification and mental titillation.
Well, it means nothing to us - but to you, it is devastating. My advice would be to hang in there, see if you can live with it...and if not, then you really have no choice. Unless she is willing to give up the lifestyle. Talk to each other. Of course you get jealous - that is a natural emotion if your partner is doing something you are not part of....unless you have complete trust and communication.
What has happened with Devil is the thing you have to look out for...he has fallen in love. A big no no. Swinging is supposed to be about sharing with your partner your fantasies...and living them...for the benefit of you both. A one sided swinging relationship is no relationship at all.
Best of luck to you both.
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OMG yes!!! My partner is awesome at it.....I love the way I feel when his whole hand is inside me...it's not like anything else I've ever felt. I think the feeling of him having complete control over me at that point is half the brain buzz....not that I think of that when I am in the middle of it. Have fisted a girl too....and I just loved doing it. Will do it again one day!
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Do you ever watch porn together? Maybe the question could arise during a MFM scene? I know we talk about a lot of the stuff we see happening....
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Hello all....I am Wudzee's partner. Thought I'd better inroduce myself so you don't think I'm a figment of his imagination. Have been on Forums before, and tend to be a bit of a chatterbox...don't say you ahven't been warned. Catch you in the threads!
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Hey Babe - found you Better introduce myself in my own thread, hey?
Better introduce myself in my own thread, hey?