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thedoctor2640
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 55
0 km · Victoria

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I'd be happy to come for a trip but at the moment I don;t have a play partner so it could be a trip long way away ending up going home horny when only single males turn up... An organised Goddess party would be more than welcome :-)

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Small preview for those who are curious... 

 It seems that we're not allowed to put the preview here, except in an image... so here is a piece - SPOILER ALERT :-)

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Hi all,

any fans of good quality erotica? I mean, the stuff where your mind is doing the work on your chakras, not your genitals... Since I discovered what good quality writing was I attempted to also write some myself and would like to exchange ideas with others - whether you're a reader, writer, or both... Thanks!

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Just wondering if the first Friday in September is going to be on..? My friend and I are thinking of giving our first party a go ;-) But yes - distance is an issue - not to Shed but to Melbourne ;-) We will be there for something else already so another 50 km from city is not a big deal...
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Good discussion was on TV last Tuesday - you can still see it online via the video on the SBS TV website- just look it up
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ANyone wants to meet for White Night tomorrow (Sat 22 Feb) night - it's the "all night festival in the city" ? Persaonally I'd be looking for a female friend to have fun with, but hey - if there is a group we can make more noise and have more fun!!! I'm visiting Melbourne from up North and want to check out some events, most likely going all night in the city. I will have some accommodation but we might not need any as there should not be any need to sleep anyway :-) Let me know what you think - you can reply here or email me to REMOVED BYADMIN - and if you include your mobile I will text you to make it easier to organise... B
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Hey - if I was closer I would help, my experience is limited but have done a course and practiced various techniques (including sensual erotic). The distance is too much, and you have offers from locals so go for it - but if I was you I'd seriously try to get some training and do it for her yourself - every male partner should learn and practice I think...! B
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well - great :-) leggyblond, maybe I will just PM you... what I'd like to know for example is how straight women feel about being involved with other women as part of a couple
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Just looking for some like minded people to exchange ideas and inspiration with... maybe to get a female perspective on things every now and then - it's not always possible to run everything past the wife ;-)
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Anyone interested? It would be organised in line with the guidelines posted by the Admin here: http://www.swingersheaven.com.au/aLPzcuoDMOQOjIqv My first idea is to join in an event that is already organised for public - like a trivia night at a local club. That way the guidelines are met, and we just need to set some identification mark for who is attending with a view to meet people from this site - like wear a badge... You can then introduce yourselves or come and sit at our table. It can be very discreet for people - you can just pretend that you're there as a member of the public and have no link to the site :-) What do people think? Any feedback?
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if not what would he/she do if they found out?
i doubt they would be happy.
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hi mrs_twonewbies - of course it is thew mrs writing the man would never judge another man that way. Well, how do I know you're judging, it is obvious that you do not understand what he has gone through already. He tried your suggestions (uyou have not read his post properly) of suggesting the swinging scene to his wife, but she was not into it - what is the next step then, I bet your only solution is divorce and find a partner who is willing. Maybe it's not that simple. I am surprised that as someone who is on of the open-minded side of society makes this kind of judgment, you are pitching society, specifically his family (mother, wife, etc) against him. If he has tried (as many of us have) top open up his relationship and is not prepared to leave his partner (let's face it the family is more important than our sexual pleasures) then the best option is to do it without his partner, but the last thing he needs is your judging arse coming from above like the voice of God..!
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Good luck to you Dude. You obviously have more luck than the rest of us. smile

The way you sound indicates you need a mother figure - a woman that would read this comment (and those before) and say to herself "oh, this poor boy, let me comfort him a bit"... take it as a constructive advice from someone who looked into psychology a bit, you need to be out there looking not here waiting ;-)
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I've been doing remedial and sports massage for a couple of years, and am now learning sensual erotic massage. This seems to be a process where getting some practice on a few volunteers in a small town is not easy :-) As I am planning a trip to Canberra and was hoping for a volunteer to have a 2 hr massage - no pressure and/or other expectation than exploring your body and your pleasure levels for your own benefit. Females between 35 and 55 only please, date to suit within the next month or so - feel free to ask any question :-)
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OKandQ you're right but don't forget that everyone has to start somewhere, just because you're at it already does not mean that other people still don;t have hard time talking to their wives and trying to open their relationship to play with others... it all takes time, as long as we're open to it we should be able to explore the good things in life ;-)
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uhhmmm... looks like I missed this one - maybe we can have the next one in Albury ?!? Not far from Wagga and it could bring bigger crowd :-)
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Location not important - just want someone to read few of my stories, and give me feedback for some inspiration... The last one is not as good, I'd like to improve with your help :-)