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my girlfriends all say no to big, wont fit, will hurt, bull slim women are more flexable Iam, last week I finally had a huge cock 11inches just on it, look it was hard to start with but if ur a well lubrication woman hey it will fit, all of him never in my life have felt so full I orgasimed just putting it in, as a big cock is thick also , but hey girls try relax more, what do u guys say, or what are u girls thinking
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my wife still struggles with the size of mine unless she's well lubricated.. Most girls don't have a problem though.
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Mrs Seaford here. I prefer average size cocks. Thick and long cocks hurt me severely and split me. Now to are probably think how can a fat, large woman not cope with a huge large cock? It's called pelvic floor muscles I've been exercising them since a teenager. I had two young kids and still no bladder problems and definitely no fisting. On a woman's front be respectful with her body and you as a guy will be rewarded smile Regards Mrs Seaford
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oral is much more fun with average sizes. I have found personally that guys with larger cocks are unjustly proud of them. They have to do less work to get sex, so they don't bother learning how to give a girl a good time. No idea if this is everyone's experience, but it's been mine so far. Average cocks are better
Sexlightened
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Had a look around and found a site that surveyed 50 women and their thoughts on cock size. The tally: It doesn't matter as long as it's not too big or too small:21 It doesn't matter at all:23 The bigger, the better: 6 Mrs Bay had a couple huge ones and she found while it felt good at the time, she was bruised and sore for a few days afterwards. From experience Mrs Bay has had more fun with guys with average size cocks. Maybe we should conduct a survey on men's thoughts of women with tight pussies? lol
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Girls saying average is better or size doesn't matter, yea i dunno not convinced. I'm 8" and I can tell ya once they see it in full flight the deal is sealed every time. Been to a few nudist beaches get a lot of looks and lip licking from chicks, they don't do that to other guys. Size doesn't matter na sorry girls that's bullshit you love big dicks and guys with big dicks know it.
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Girls saying average is better or size doesn't matter, yea i dunno not convinced. I'm 8" and I can tell ya once they see it in full flight the deal is sealed every time. Been to a few nudist beaches get a lot of looks and lip licking from chicks, they don't do that to other guys. Size doesn't matter na sorry girls that's bullshit you love big dicks and guys with big dicks know it.
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Big dicks look impressive, but in our experience they all too often have a big dickhead attached to them. As for fit and feel, Mrs T prefers a solid 6-7 inches, but anything beyond that doesn't seem to thrill her. She's too conscious of the possible pain or discomfort and can't really let herself go and enjoy it.
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Big dick = dickhead? Yea sure maybe can me a dickhead if you want. But size matters, a big dick gets every girls attention sorry it just does.
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Didn't say you were, just that a lot of (but not all) guys with big dicks are arrogant, thinking they're God's gift to women. Yet most women will tell you that arrogance is definitely not sexy.
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Big dick = dickhead? Yea sure maybe can me a dickhead if you want.
But size matters, a big dick gets every girls attention sorry it just does.

Oh maverick lol you win!
If you don't have personality to go with your big dick, then sadly you will the only one admiring your huge tool.
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Big dick = dickhead? Yea sure maybe can me a dickhead if you want.
But size matters, a big dick gets every girls attention sorry it just does.

Every girl??? Hate to correct you but no it dont , would rather a average sized dick attached to a person that knows how to use it , average sized dicks tend to get harder than huge dicks aswell
Mrs Melbcpl01
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sure it gets the attention, we all like to look. But unless you know what to do with you, you aren't going to be getting a callback. Big dicks can hurt if you aren't careful (you meaning the guy attached to it). And yep, Mr T, just from the answers in here, point made smile
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oh, and except for the OP, Every. Single. Woman in here has said average. I guess the numbers just don't add up if anyone is saying all women like big dicks
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....who are you trying to convince?

Sounds like a ego trip , maybe all the blood has rushed from the upper brain to the lower one lol
NOT all women want big dicks no matter what you may think
Mrs Melbcpl01
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I never said all women like big dicks I said a big dick gets every woman's attention. I know because some girls I've been with I was clearly too big for, but even these girls will at least give me a test drive. But no you won't convince me most girls prefer average, that's just political correct talk, yea some maybe but 70% at least prefer big, if not demand it.
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Sheba's distinct preference is for an average size, which is not to say that she has not and would not again go larger, but like many we have found that many guys with larger dicks seem to forget that the appendage is only a small (yes, meant small) part of the larger (see that pun again) picture.
In our experience Sheba has played with a number of guys of 8 inches or larger and only one of these has ever been invited back as he had a personality and was more intent on Sheba than on himself. This one guy spent hours massaging and teasing Sheba and showed that he did not think with his near 10 inch (measured by Sheba) dick. Were we closer to his location we would play more frequently but that is because of his approach and not dick size.
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....who are you trying to convince?

Sorry Mav but your posts seem to indicate that it is you trying to convince people and whilst there are many women that fantasise over large dicks, there are a number whom simply have no interest
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I never said all women like big dicks I said a big dick gets every woman's attention. I know because some girls I've been with I was clearly too big for, but even these girls will at least give me a test drive.
But no you won't convince me most girls prefer average, that's just political correct talk, yea some maybe but 70% at least prefer big, if not demand it.

70% prefer big ............... where is your source on this (note you use the term 'prefer big), and define big
Certainly a lot of women will look at a large dick, just as many guys look at large boobs, but looks does not equate to attraction or desire to experience so should not be read as such
In our experience we have found that a number of guys with large dicks simply cannot maintain an erection of any 'hardness' (without chemical assistance) for very long and, as has already been said, sadly many seem to have the personality of roadkill as well.
Now, that all said, we are only judging based on our experiences and will readily admit that there are some guys we know of with very large dicks but with whom we shall never play but whom are sensational guys in their own rights
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What women SAY they want and what they ACTUALLY want are all too often two different things, and it doesnt take a casanova to figure that out. I could write a novel about past experiences where over and over and over it is confirmed that chicks prefer big, I could site hundreds of examples. It's like saying a ferrari doesn't attract women, well how would you know unless you own one? And look as far as the whole big dick = bad personality, you know what, that you might be right about, but women prefering average, that you're wrong about.
Sexlightened
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Well guys I cant really comment but I will because I lucked out I have a man who is not only adequately hung 6"on the soft and around 9-10" hard (and yes this was measured from the topside and not the underneath), But he also knows how to use it and I have often hit orgasm without him having to go hard. But before meeting my stud I do have to admit i have come across both big and small and most have been 2 min wonders ( I am exaggerating was more like 30sec ) as i find to reach the peaks a man must know how to satisfy a girl without having to be shown and this does go both ways as for hurting big cocks can if your not wet enough or you have a smaller cavity... but i have noticed small one are useful for external stimulation as most of the sensitive zones on a pussy are located at the entrance , but i do love it when Mr2 pounds me and i can feel his cock pushing my cervix towards my throat, and then there is oral sex a nice cock is on that isnt to broad and you can comfortably wrap your mouth around with out getting lock jaw and then it is up to you how much you can deep throat (not mouth even thou it is called head job) blast
Warming the Bed
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... personality of road kill ... lol :lol: I think sometimes even that is a bit generous!!
Master of Sex
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hmm interesting thought, its commonly believed if you make a girl cum she will stay with you, and yet expert relationship counselors that singles are, obviously know it takes a large dick not how to use it or how to make the complicated balance of give and take and compromise that really makes relationships work , reality is if you can make compromises and give as much as you take and share all things youll have a life partner its not too difficult you will not have to cheat for sly or dirty sex you can discuss and compromise and or explore anything together happy new year to the working couples and make changes to the not quite working right now couples .
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Most girls I hook up with just wanna ride me all night, so the "how you use it" thing becomes a moot point. And 2wild, hate to burst you bubble but if your man isn't 10", I'm 8" and I've measured, and exactly the same height as your guy. He's 8" not 10".
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Not sure if this is relevant to the disciussion
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Most girls I hook up with just wanna ride me all night, so the "how you use it" thing becomes a moot point.
And 2wild, hate to burst you bubble but if your man isn't 10", I'm 8" and I've measured, and exactly the same height as your guy. He's 8" not 10".

most girls want to ride you all night?? hmmmmm maybe because they are trying to get them selves off because your not quite doing the right job.
Also what the hell has a person's height have to do with cock size.
I better put my 2c worth in about size, to me it doesn't matter as long as the owner knows what the hell he's doing.
Master of Sex
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And 2wild, hate to burst you bubble but if your man isn't 10", I'm 8" and I've measured, and exactly the same height as your guy. He's 8" not 10". mav , how would you know unless you have measured it personally :doh: :rascal:
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And 2wild, hate to burst you bubble but if your man isn't 10", I'm 8" and I've measured, and exactly the same height as your guy. He's 8" not 10".
mav , how would you know unless you have measured it personally
:doh: :rascal:

so mav your 5 foot 10 and 8 inches. im almost 6foot 2 (measured by my doctor last week) so using your theory that makes my cock longer than yours. love your bullshit
Sexlightened
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....who are you trying to convince?

Maverick, you have convinced of one thing and that isn't about whether or not big dicks gets a girls attention. lol
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Love the love on this thread. You all acting like sex is this highly complex dance that you need a university degree to be good at, of the 5 relationships I've been in you know how many times I got denied sex, total? Like twice, seriously, just twice, guess I must be crap in bed. As for Mr 10" some people making smart-ass comments I know he not 10" by his pictures, I'm 8" and I seen my own pics if anything I might be bigger, and height is a reference for SCALE, duh. Anyway this has turned from a decent discussion into a big-dick envy thread whatever helps you sleep at night.
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5 relationships at 30 gee your big dick must be impressing the women the way they dont hang around , maybe you are crap in bed Height and cock size have nothing in scale at all where the hell did you dream that one up , the same can be said for womens bust size ....please thats the dumbest comment you have made so far lol