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RandC
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 59
Bi-curious Female, 59
0 km · Adelaide
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Warming the Bed
Mrs C will be in Canberra from 4 Oct 2015 for a little over a week. It is possible that she may be able to spend an evening away from commitments for some fun, but most likely a week night.
Ideally a couple would suit best. It is very difficult to arrange a FMF threesome at the best of times, so here is an opportunity. Single/Married guys are welcome to enquire as well, but my preference would be to meet with a couple.
My limitations.....
1. I do not have a place to host while in Canberra so if we do click then you would need to have a place to host me - hotel is the first preference (but may consider private home with the right people/person).
2. It is likely that I can free up 1 (or maybe 2) evenings for some fun. So I don't have time to meet with all people that respond.
3. We would have to meet for chat somewhere in public first and take things from there. Might even work well to meet for lunch one day to get to know each other.
4. People I meet need to be discrete, respectful, in reasonable shape (I don't expect supermodels but there must be an attraction), be articulate, drug and disease free, clean and non-smokers.
5. I am open to a small group situation (swingers party) if there is one while I'm in Canberra. Would like to find someone to host me if that is the case.
6. Phone contact is a must prior to meeting...... that is always a good way to check initial compatibility.
Look forward to hearing from prospective couples and guys! Ohhh and by the way. I have full support of my husband (R) to play while in Canberra.
Mrs C
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We are staying in Cairns over the long weekend (Thursday 4/6 - Sunday 7/6) and are open to meet some like minded people. Contact us if you are interested and we can maybe arrange to meet for coffee during the day and take it from there.
If there are any parties happening over the weekend, we would like to know as well....
Cheers,
RandC
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Quote by tydy86
I have on a couple of occasions
attended these places and not had sex or play with anyone. A lot of people can be
quite harsh, it's tough out there. There needs to be some sort of fair management
system so everyone gets a turn. Or in this case some 'playtime' you pay big money
to get into some of these places which is outrageous.
Did read this forum a few times in recent days and was not going to comment, but couldn't let it go!
Anyway, it is obvious that there are some people out there that really don't know what is provided by these clubs and are filled with expectationsof what should be included because they pay an entrance fee. Remember that the entrance fee is paid by mostly everyone (in some cases single ladies have free entry to try and encourage their attendance).
Clubs provide: the venue, lockers, lube, towels, condoms, movies, drinks.... pretty much everything you need to have a great playtime. They encourage people to meet, talk and conduct CONSENSUAL play. The club does notguarantee any individuals or couples any action - that is the responsibility of the consenting adults in attendance at the time.
When we attend, we will go to the bar and just mingle first. Mrs C enjoys chatting and flirting and it gives her a chance to talk to others and decide if she is willing to play with them. This was the case on Tuesday 23 September, when we attended Bay City. Although we did meet up with some friends that we knew previously, Mrs C invited some new "friends" along to the room to play (hello Mits). But not everyone there was invited, nor would they ever be.
How did these guys get to play with Mrs C.... simple!
Step 1 - They introduced themselves at the bar and joined the conversation.
Step 2 - Mrs C was comfortable with their attitude and personality!
Step 3 - Mrs C made it known to Mr R that they would be welcome to play.
Step 4 - The conga line starts towards the room, including many other hopefuls.
Step 5 - Only those people indicated by Mrs C have the opportunity to play (she holds the veto card always)
We have played in open rooms and closed rooms - which again depends on Mrs C. Tuesday evening she wanted the closed room and invited around half a dozen guys into the room to play (some new). This was done on two occasions in the evening. The rest of the time was relaxing at the bar. See our post - "23rd was a good night".
During the second session, someone had opened the lockeddoor and entered the room without an invite???? This person was promptly ejected, but proves that some people will just expect that they can join in at any time with anyone.
Again we are aware that there are pushy people out there and some with unrealistic expectations, but we don't let it spoil our fun - we just make sure we stay in control and report to management those that become over zealous (as we did with our uninvited guest on Tuesday).
Sorry tydy86, but you would not be invited to play with us at any time based on your expectations.
Having fun swinging - RandC
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We don't get to Melbourne all that often but do look to play when we do. This time we decided to go to Bay City again. We had been there a couple of times before and enjoyed each visit. This time we noted that the venue had been renovated (well at least a coat of paint) and was clean and fresh.
We met with a couple of guys we knew and met a few new guys as well. Mrs C had two GB sessions in one of the medium sized rooms with about six guys each time. The remainder of our time was socialising at the bar.
Certainly recommend the venue for girls and couples that are confident in their play and know what they are looking for. The number of single guys can be a little daunting if you are new. We did limit access to our room while playing otherwise it would have been to hot and cramped but the GB sessions worked very well.
We will be returning at some time in the future!
RandC
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Would like to have some suggestions for some exhibitionist type fun over the weekend. Could be day or evening, but must be safe but fun. 
Please add some general suggestions here, but please don't put specific times or locations - that we can arrange by private messages.
Some thoughts:
Beach - anything from sexy swimwear to full nude - definite opportunity for exhibitionist fun
Pool - swimwear that is see through when wet for exhibitionist fun
Club/Bar - wear erotic clothing for some exhibitionist fun
Picnic - sexy clothing allowing exhibitionist fun
Obviously the time, location and number of people around will determine the amount of exhibitionism.
Please add some general suggestions here, but please don't put specific times or locations - that we can arrange by private messages.
Some thoughts:
Beach - anything from sexy swimwear to full nude - definite opportunity for exhibitionist fun
Pool - swimwear that is see through when wet for exhibitionist fun
Club/Bar - wear erotic clothing for some exhibitionist fun
Picnic - sexy clothing allowing exhibitionist fun
Obviously the time, location and number of people around will determine the amount of exhibitionism.
Warming the Bed
Thank you to those people that did make contact with a view to meeting Mrs C. She now has a few people that she is communicating with and will probably meet for coffee and more.
Although additional meetings are unlikely, do still say hello! Never know when Canberra is on the visit list again.
Regards,
RandC
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Mrs C will be in Canberra for the dates listed.....It is possible that she may be able to spend and evening away from commitments for some fun.
Ideally a couple would suit best. It is very difficult to arrange a FMF threesome and the best of times, so here is an opportunity. Single/Married guys are welcome to enquire as well, but my preference would be to meet with a couple.
My limitations.....
1. I do not have a place to host while in Canberra so if we do click then you would need to have a place to host me hotel is the first preference (but may consider private home with the right people/person).
2. It is likely that I can free up 1 (or 2 maybe) evenings for some fun. So I don't have time to meet with all people that respond.
3. We would have to meet for chat somewhere in public first and take things from there. Might even work well to meet for lunch one day to get to know each other.
4. People I meet need to be discrete, respectful, in reasonable shape (I don't expect supermodels but there must be an attraction), be articulate, clean and non-smokers.
5. I am open to a small group situation (swingers party) if there is one while I'm in Canberra. Would like to find someone to host me if that is the case.
6. Phone contact is a must prior to meeting...... that is always a good way to check initial compatibility.
Look forward to hearing from prospective couples and guys! Ohhh and by the way. I have full support of my husband (R) to play while in Canberra.
Mrs C
Mrs C
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We'll we met with Mr Slowhand and found him to be respectful, genuine, articulate and a gentleman! We are always of the opinion that everyone has the right to choose how and when they play. If he wishes to play without his wife in a very discrete manner then we respect that. We are not ones to judge.
Often people look to find sex outside of their marriage because they have only vanilla sex at home. We can and do provide opportunities that are not provided in their own environment. Doesn't mean that their family life and relationship is not loving, they just want experience some variety in their sex.
Once again, each to their own and we are not here to judge. A great saying is; "don't judge lest ye be first judged". The fact that we are here on this site would indicate a level of activity not acceptable in some parts of society. But then you could say that about many groups in society.... Nudists.... Smokers.... Drinkers.... Exhibitionists..... Dom/sub.....
Enough on the soap box and if Slowhand continues in the manner he approached us, there will be some happy people on this site.
RandC
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Guys,
Well we now have had quite a number of interested people. As state earlier, we will generally look at people in response order, but responses and profiles do count.
Some people have sent a message basically saying "count me in, just tell me where and when".... these types of responses will generally be ignored (unless we know you or someone we know recommends you).
Those that have taken some time to put together a message about themselves, their expectations and their manner will automatically go to the top of the list. So a hint to those answering these types of invitations...
1. Take some time with your response and show why you should be invited above others.
2. Do make sure your profiles have a little 'meat on the bone'...
3. People respond when their profile has an age over 100 (why???... lie a little, but within a couple of years at least)
4. Photos would be good... doesn't have to be face (we don't) but a body shot or two (clothed, underwear or nude).
Those that we intend to invite, will have a message in their inbox shortly...
Thanks, the invitation is now closed.
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Invitations will be to individual profiles... generally, we will work on first in first served, unless there is something in the profile that negates a person. Must say that non-smokers would be the preference, but is not absolute in this situation.
We still have not decided the actual time and location, but will message individuals once a decision is made.
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I was thinking of taking Mrs C to a cinema later this week.... if you are interested in maybe joining us, please leave us a message here and we can take it from there. We don't want dozens there but a few respectful guys....
If the session gets disturbed by forceful or disrespectful people, then we may move on.... and maybe invite those that impress!
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We will be in Melbourne for the for a few days from 21 March..... was looking to find a gentleman or lady who would be interested in giving my wife a massage! Probably a daytime session!
A qualified masseuse is what we are really looking for and you would have to have your own equipment (Table/Oils/Towels). My wife would be under the impression that she is getting a normal professional massage from a mobile massage therapist. The intent would be to have her completely nude and start as a normal massage and move gently onto a full erotic massage.
If you can help us with this please reply in this forum..... remember surprise for my wife!
Regards,
RandC
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Well, we did but try.....
Seems to be more difficult than first thought! We did have a few interesed people, but nothing eventuated. We will continue our efforts, but it probably won't be for at least a couple of weeks.
Will put some more thought into it and try to plan another day.
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Places suggested so far all sound reasonable, but will depend on the day/night.
Suggest that we don't provide specific details of meetings (places and times) in the open forum. We should make generic arrangements and then provide specifics through private messages. This will prevent the masses (if that is possible here) from turning up and also the potential for authorities to take action.
Is anyone is interested and available for a meeting this Friday evening then let us know and we can make arrangements through private messages and see how things go.
RandC
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We have been dogging in Melbourne a few times now and have enjoyed it - but replicating that situation in a 'small town' is a little more difficult.
Maybe we can look to arrange a small gathering in the new year and see how it works out..... would be good to have at least one other couple.
Let's see where this goes...
RandC
Maybe we can look to arrange a small gathering in the new year and see how it works out..... would be good to have at least one other couple.
Let's see where this goes...
RandC
